me and my friend have a friend *sally* and she has a boyfriend which teyve been dating fro 7 months. she hasnt told her paretns because shes scared. and he wants thme to know . his name is not spoken at hi hosue at all. and she even has a code name for him. but other than that he's been thinking of breaking up with her . shoud i tell her? she's been thinking of having sex with him
Courtney answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 9:12 pm: You should definenitly tell her about that . I mean she's considering to have sex with this guy and there is a possibility that they'll have sex and he'll just break up with her . Tell her . She could be making one of the biggest mistakes in her life, and I know that she may be your friend and he may be your friend , but you got to do what's right and the right thing to do is to tell her about what he's going to do before she because intimate with him . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
alderworth1 answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 9:00 pm: i think she should tell him just not how she found out to keep u guys safe and then she can talk to him and find out more about if her not telling her parents about him is what wrong or what
she should have told her parents from start she might not like the results but neither will they but they will both have to live with the way they act
and about the sex thing i would make him wait a month or two cause if he was goin to dump her i doubt he would wait that long [ alderworth1's advice column | Ask alderworth1 A Question ]
hErEtoheLp answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 8:53 pm: Yesss tell her... I can understand, it has to be frustrating for the guy, but you'll have to be more specific.. is it because of his race, or just because they don't like him? But she should tell her parent's too. And let them know that she's going to be with him for a while and that they've been together for 7 months and to give him a chance. But definatly tell her that he's thinking of breaking up with him over the whole situation, as a friend it's good to give her a warning, and tell her it's not because he's not happy with her, it's because he doesn't like being a secret with her parent's. [ hErEtoheLp's advice column | Ask hErEtoheLp A Question ]
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