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hey. has anyone even been to sparknotes.com? more importantly has anyone even been assigned to read a book for skool and just read the chapter summaries on sparknotes.com? did it work 4 ya?
THANX!!

I've used them, but I usually read the book, too, and use the sparknotes if I don't understand something of if I didn't catch something and I need the answer to a question. They usually work pretty well, but I wouldn't always count on them, because some teachers WiLL figure out what you're doing, and some even deliberately ask questions that you can't get off of the sparknotes.

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hey what are the best clothes for back to school like the latest fashions

Just go to the mall + pick out what you like :o)

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hey.im tryin to look for a quick job something easy.im 16f.can anyone give me a few suggetions?that would be really helpful thanx

- the mall
- grocery store
- resturant
- fast food
- coffee shops
- babysitting
- pretty much any little shop thing
- tutoring [[ if that's you're kinda thing ]]

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hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps?

Make sure you use a sharp razor + lots of shaving cream. Aaand get some of that aftershave gel stuff.

Or you could just get some nair.

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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP

DON'T do it if you're not ready. Yeah, it sounds like he only wants one thing out of your relationship, and .. yeah. But don't do it until you're sure you're ready and don't let him pressure you into anything.

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I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.

Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long?

It's probably just your period being odd. If it lasts more than like, 1O-12 days, I'd see a doctor about it.

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hey, im 14 (gunna be 15 in February) and i dont have my period...i know u can get it as late as 16 and not to worry but i have boobs and im pretty developed, could there be anyother reason thats harmful for not getting your period, like having a disease or something? pleas help...ill rate ya good!!! thx

I'm sure you're fine =). A lot of people don't get theirs until they're older. Just be glad you don't have it for now!

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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..

Just tell him that you're not comfortable with that just yet and you need time. He should understand, and if he doesn't, he's not worth it. Don't do anything you're not ready for.

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Where to begin? I was seeing this girl off and on for 9 months. She was "using" this 55 yr old arab guy for rides and stuff. I didnt condone of the usery but I didnt feel like it was my place to tell her how to live. After about 5 month into the relationship I moved to miami( we are in VA). She came to visit for a week and it was like a honeymoon without the marrige. Everything was great. When she came back she told me she was pregnant. I sent money up there to her and had my friend drive her to the clinic. I sent her flowers everyday for a week afterwards. So I came back home and while we were spending time toghether through much over hearing the wrong conversations I suspected there was more to her and his relationship. I was right. In short the kid wasnt mine and I was being played the whole time. the break up was awful and I am emot. wrecked. I took her back only to find out she didnt give him up. Now my head is spinning and my heart in shattered. Any advice?

Eeeek .. I'd ditch her [[ if you haven't already ]], because, um .. well, I think it's pretty self-explanatory =/

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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!!

- watch movies
- listen to music
- practice whatever you do [[ well, if you have anything to practice ]]
- talk on the phone
- talk online
- do stuff on the internet
- go to a friend's house
- have friends over
- have a party ;o) .. or not
- go shopping
- go wherever else it is you like to go
- take a walk // run

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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~

I wouldn't do it, because you DON'T know for sure that that's them, or that they're telling the truth about anything, pretty much. Plus, they can be doing whatever the heck the want outside of your "relationship", because the other person has no way of knowing. I personally wouldn't do it, but I guess if it's your kinda thing ..

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my foster kitten is a biter! ahh!! he does not know what to do with himself if he is not biting something..including me! What can i do to stop him from doing this?

A lot of kittens go through that stage .. try playing with him when he starts to bite, and if he keeps doing it, get a spray bottle and put it on the mist setting, and spray him with that every time he bites something .. it works wonders! :o)

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well i have school in a few weeks and i dont know what to ware i am like sporty and girly girl and a tom boy?

Just go shopping + buy what you like aaaaand .. wear that! :o)

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What is a hand job exactly?

Pretty much just jacking a guy off.

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hi. im like bone popping skinny and im small boned. alot of ppl call me anerexic and stuff. some ppl look at me like im sick or something and then stare at me while im eating just to see if i actually eat, which i do. what should i do?
thankz *megan

Tell them that you're *not* anorexic, and show them that you DO eat normally. As for the people looking // staring, just ignore them.

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my friend has an eating disorder and i really want to help her in recovering. she has anorexia. she asked for me to find out "if you lost your periods cuz of anorexia can you get it back later in life?" and "later on when im pregnant will my baby be healthy if im not anorexic anymore?"

You *USUALLY* will get your period back in time after you're recovered and at a healthy weight again, however, there have been cases where people never get it back. Depending on the person, it can be hard to become pregnant and there's usually a high rate of miscarrage, but if she's healthy, the baby should be.

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whats the best thing to clean ur ears with BESIDES store solution?? hydrogen peroxide or rubbing alcohol? let me no one of the 2 plz. thank u much!
Megan

Store solution would be the best option, but I'd say if they're infected, use the peroxide, but for just normal cleaning, the alcohol would be fine.

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i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?

Sorry, but I definately wouldn't call that normal. That's *WAY* young to be starting that kind of thing, and I don't understand why you're having sex when you don't want to .. Maybe you should consider not having sex until you're a bit older :o)

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ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f)

Just tell him that you

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Last year my going to be step mom was by polo and comitted cucide......and she has a daughter that left now all of her little friends come over and ask me how shes doing what should i do?...

Tell them that you don't know, and eventually they should stop coming. Either that or just don't answer the door when they come, that always works too.

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