20f
so in about a month im going to see this guy nick. me and nick are basically friends with benefits, but also best friends (dont comment on the situation) anyways nick is about 4 hours away right now playing hockey somewhere and me, my friend brooke and cousin nate are going to go see him play and stay the weekend at a hotel there. i havent seen nick for about 2 months so obviously we're going to want to have sex ..the only thing is how can i with brooke and nate there too? i don't think nick will be allowed to stay overnight in the hotel with us, some sort of hockey rules for his league or something but i'm sure he will be coming back to the hotel for a little bit to hang out after we all go out. maybe we'll all go in the hot tub at the hotel or something im not sure. nate and brooke know that me and nick have a really strong physical attraction to each other they just don't know we have sex and do other things. i don't just want to kick them out of the room for a bit and say "me and nick want to have sex"
i just don't know what to do..any ideas? thanks!
Go out for drinks early and the two of you slip out quietly very early and head back to the room but don't be gone to long. If you're gone for a short time, you can just say you decided to go outside for some fresh air and quiet chat.
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So recently i discovered that i really like masturbating. It's so embarassing to talk about, but i just cant help it. I just was wondering if you had some suggestions to make it "better". Thanks :)
I think a lot depends on whether you're female or male and if it's interfering with your everyday activities. Masturbating is healthy and a good stress releif but if you're doing it because you're bored or depressed then you have other emotional issues to deal with. Good luck.
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20F.
So I've always thought one of my guy friends were hot. He had a girlfriend for about 3 years, they finally broke up recently. I think they still might have sex though because that's the only person he gets it from. Anyways one night me and him were texting and I decided I wanted to have sex with him. We basically established we'd be fuck buddies or friends with benefits, whatever you want to say.
The question I'm asking is, would it be weird for me to say I'd only have sex with him if he stops having sex with his ex girlfriend? Do friends with benefits do that? Haha I don't really know. Or should I not care who he's having sex with, I just find it a little weird if I had sex with him and he is also having sex with another girl too. Maybe I shouldn't really care as long as I'm getting it from him!?
Please don't tell me not to, or that it's wrong, or anything else I just need people who are going to help me because this is the first time being friends with benefits with someone I'd like to know how it exactly works!
It sounds like you really want this guy to be your boyfriend. When you don't want someone to see anyone but you, that's a relationship.
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My boyfriend is bisexual and I thought it was really cool for awhile because we could talk about boys together and not feel weird. The past couple of time we've had sex he's said stuff that leads me to think he wants to really have sex with another guy. Today I confronted him because, to be honest, I'm tired of this and it's getting weird in the bedroom. He said he has these fantasies and really wants to have a 3 some with another guy and me. Now, I have hard about guys wanting 3somes with another girl but not with another guy. I don't know how to handle this now because it makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to do that. That's weird and NOT sexy. I told him I need time to think about this but I think he thinks I mean like to think about if I'm going to do that or not. I don't want a three some at all. What do I say to him?
I'd have to agree with solid, that this guy definately leans toward the gay side. He probably needs a girlfriend as a cover and he may even play the boyfriend role with you pretty well but he can't seem to control his need to have sex with another man. You may need to confront him with this soon because he may end up leaving you eventually if you don't give in to his needs. He may be a great guy but if he can't respect your feelings it may be time for you to move on.
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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job and I really do want to but I feel weird every time I try to do it. It's not that I feel bad about it but I feel like I'm not doing a good enough job. We've talked about it a lot and he's even given me "tips" on how to do it right. I still feel weird. I want to make him happy and I love him a lot. I over think this entire thing a lot and even have had dreams of it. It's something I DO want to do. How can I get over this hang-up or whatever you want to call it? It's horrible because I can work him up to it and then...I just...can't go all the way through with it. It just feels too weird then. :\
Just don't try to watch porn to get tips on giving a bj, because most guys don't like the way the actresses perform. Your fear may come from the final outcome (that he may cum in your mouth). You need to make sure he understands that he needs to give you a warning before he orgasms so that doesn't happen.
One other thing I wonder, has this guy or any other guy in the past, ever bragged about how great other girls were at giving bj's? That could be a mental block with you and you feel you'll never be good enough then. Either way, just be patient and don't rush it. Maybe some night if you have a few drinks and you feel your inhibitions drop, you may want to give it a try.
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I am 14 and I woul like to make 200-300$ in about a month or 2. How can I do It quick! An please don't say yardsale or lemonade Stan or something. Or babysitting because I have no one to babysit. Also it should take mote then an hr out of my weekdays because of school and homework. Thanks!
Selling your clothes is good on e-bay but make sure you sell them in groups of 5 or more because people don't like to buy 1 thing with the high shipping costs. You can also go around your neighborhood and collect scrap copper or aluminum from your neighbors and take it to the scrap yard.
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how do i stop i dnt want to lose her out of my life cause i love her so much
Try calling just a few less times during the day and try hanging out with your friends a little more. I'm sure you think if you give her space, you'll end up losing her but the complete opposite will happen. If you smother her, she'll leave you for someone who'll give her that space she needs.
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I am a 37 year old female my ex boyfiend recently asked me to start calling him again after I initiated a call to him.
I was the one who had ended our relationship so im not sure if this is a head game or if this man "Steve" was truly confused about what he wanted.
as I begain to call as Steve had instructed me to do I noticed he did not return any of my calls. at one point when we finally conneceted I asked Steve why he wasnt returning my calls if he didnt want me to call just tell me. He said he had alot going on but that I had a special place in his heart and that I made him laugh. after that call I called and left a voice message and he txt messaged me and told me not to call him so much I quit calling for ahwhile then one night I called him and I left a message that Iwas out with my girlfriends and that it would be fun to talk to him, the next call I made was hours later and a female picked up and said that Steve was busy I said thanks and hung up. That same night Steve called back very late and three calls on voice mail I was to tired to pick up, the first message he left was strange it was oops Im sorry I was trying to call someone else, the second message was, Hey if your up I thought maybe we could talk. the third message was after 1:00 p.m. in the morning which made it closing time at the bar, and his message was I thought you might still be out with the girl s so if you want to talk call me. I have never called him since. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS GUY ????
I'm guessing the sex was pretty good between you two because it seems as he wouldn't mind picking up that part of your relationship. He probably doesn't want to go any further with the relationship than that because he obviously has a current girlfriend. Unless your happy with just a booty call from this guy when he's available, it's probably time to move on.
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okay i am a 38 d and i have this really cute shirt that i want to wear but i need a strapless bra. Everyone i find doesnt support me enough to wear it. Do you know of any brand or any store that i could find a strapless bra to support my huge boobs lol.
These are really good bras but a little pricey.
http://www.figleaves.com/us/department.asp?dept=Womens_Bras&searchhandle=A%3dwomenswear+not+in+olet%7eB%3dwomenswear+not+in+olet%7eD%3d12%7eE%3d0%5e0%5e2%5eLifeTime%7eG%3d11191%5e2%5e14170%5e2%7eK%3d4%7eL%3d1%7eM%3d56%7eN%3d4%7e&originalquery=Womenswear%20not%20in%20olet&answerhandle=11161&answerhandleback=11259&oqmc=&answerhandlecrumb=&colouranswerselected=&sortorderrequested=&cm_re=lhn-_-What%20are%20you%20looking%20for-_-cta20_Strapless&pagesize=&removetextsearch=&answer=1%201%201%2011161&hd=&productid=&productcolour=
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Want to tell this guy how he makes me feel but don't know how to.he has been hurt before
He may not be ready for a relationship yet but let him know you're there for him and tell him that everyone's been hurt before, even you.
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how do you tell if a guy is a virgin or not
Talk to his friends but nonchalant about it.
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My boyfriend is a great guy. He's cute, pre-med, and my best friend in the whole world. We're 23 and talking marriage. We've been together 5 years, since college, and we are the only ones who know each other as the 18 year old kids we were when we met, and the adults we've turned into. We're each other's "first" for everything and I do love him and he loves me. He's my first and only boyfriend. BUT-- I don't feel passionately in love with him and little things about him frustrate me. I wonder if we have all the signs to end up like a typical married couple who don't talk or have sex because we don't have intense passion now, when we're 23. We have great sex and we have fun when we're together but I get annoyed by little things and we squabble like brother and sister sometimes. Am I just being naive because I don't have the rocky past to compare him to? Should I hold out for all-consuming passion and romance?
Loving a person and being "in love" with someone is two totally different things. I'm sure you care deeply and have many feelings for this person but it doesn't appear you are in love with him. If you take a break from him for a month and feel you can't live without him, then he's probably the one for you. But if you feel better after being apart, then it's definately time to move on. Best of luck to you.
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Ok Husband constantly texting friends of mine setting up coffee dates, etc that i cancel. Through my phone!! he demands i get new "girlfriends all the time. when i dont go on these "dates" i get the silent treatment for a week or two. just yesterday he texted a new frien of mine ( a massage therapist) and set up a massage for me with her without telling me. I just had a massage elsewhere last week and said I felt great! he said "if you love me, you will get it done, it will make me (him) happy. I am now getting the silent treatment and I wish he would just punch me already! this has been going on for 6 years and shows no signs of stopping.he wont let me have unattractive "friends" either. i think it is totally sexually charged. HELP!!!
I'm not sure if you think that you're all that attractive that all your other friends are unattractive but you shouldn't judge your friends by their looks. As far as your husband goes, him setting up a surprise massage for you sounds like an unselfish and giving thing. He may have gone about it in a strange manner but it sounds very harmless. And as for him wanting you to go out with some friends sounds pretty amazing to me. I wish my husband would let me go out with my friends. I'd be happy to trade you because my husband questions me if I stay at walmart to long. I'm just curious if you ever get out of the house of do anything besides stay at home. He may really love you but he just may need some time apart from you and getting you to go out with your friends is his only way to express that. I think you've got your own issues you need to deal with before you accuse him of something it's not.
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