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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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hey everyoneee ... what is everyones general perception of south jersey or the people in it? even north jersey idc! thanksss =]

new jersey is really crowded.. there are a lot of thugs and stuff there... it's not really an ideal place to live in because everything is so crowded .. hope i helped!!! =]

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18/f/ohio
ok well im engaged and valentines day is coming up here soon. I was gonna get married this year but i dont have the money plus i gotta finish school..but ne ways onto the subject....i would like to know what i could get my fiance for valentines day...im thinkin about a box of candies...he done said no stuffed animals so im fucked there lol. Well can someone say if chocolates will be ok?? thank you

i have an idea.... how about an ablum of pictures of you two... =] making every picture mean something to you... but if you don't want to .. chocolates will be fine =]

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So I want to surprise my girlfriend with a very meaningful gift- like at 5pm today when she gets off work. Any original ideas? (I've done the CD and such)

Thanks.

first send flowers to her work.. if there is enough time.. then maybe give her some candy... stuffed animal.. and maybe try an put together an album... of you and her memories =] hope i helped and everything works out okay

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okay if you talk to someone on the phone that has verizon when you also have verizon does it not take up your minutes? I really need to know this.

no it does not.. if they have verizon they are "in" so it does not take up any minutes! =] hope i helped

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i think i can handle it im almost 17 and i babysit infants all the time im just worried bout how the father will take it if i am

what do you mean? what father.. the father of YOUR baby? or the father of the children that you take care of?

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Hi,
I m a 13 year old girl & there is a really cute guy in school.My friends went to him and told him that I like him and the next day his friends came to me and told that he likes me.I got so happy.I have his e-mail and mobile number and I e-mail him but he never answers.I also write msgs & make miss calls on the cell & he calls but I get too shy to answer.Once I was on the net and he came online.I wrote hi then he started swaring at me & telling me to stop calling him and we arent friends and he doesnt like me.I got really sad and I REALLY want him to talk to me and like me but I dont know wut to do after I messed everything up.In the new year I sended a msg on the cell phone writing"I know u hate me and stuff but I just wanted to say happy new year".Still no answer.Every time he come on the net I go offline.At the last day of school,I was crying cause I thounght he was making fun of me but there is this girl which is my friend and his friend and she told me that he likes me,I stopped crying then when I was going in the bus he asked me if I was crying my.My phone rang so I couldnt answer him and I had to go.Any way WUT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE HIM LIKE ME AND STOP BEING ANGRY FROM ME!!!!!!

you know what hunny? it sounds like it wasn't really him on the internet.. because from what your telling me .. multiple people told you that he likes you... what could have made him so angry? just because you called him? i don't think so.. the only way you can have him stop being mad at you (even if he is) is to ask him why he is so upset.. yes i know it's going to be hard because your going to be really nervous but if you really want him to start to like you and stop being angry at you.. your going to have to talk to him and find out why and let him know that you are REALLY sorry and that you will never do what ever you did to him again to make him mad.. hope i helped and everything works out for you! and if you need antying else let me know cause i'm here to help =]

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when should i take one cuz its only been a week and all ive done 4 the past two days is sleep and the guy sed that he either wants me get an abortion or give it up 4 adoption if i am but i dont want to i dont believe in that

okay well you can take a pregnancy test 5 days before your missed period (that's what it says on tv) lol so your going to have to wait til your period is about to come.. and it all depends on what you want to do.. if i were you i wouldn't have an abortion because like you said.. you don't believe in it.. if you think you can handle the responcibilities as a mother and still take on school (idk if your still in school/ college or not) then go for it and keep the baby.. it's about what YOU want and not what the dad would want.. so just follow your heart =] hope i helped if you need anything else just let me know i'm here to help =]

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Ok im 14, 15 in 2 weeks, is it normal that i still hwear a 34A? Everyone of my friends has bigger boobs than i do and when im around them i feel like i dont belong and when were around guys they arent looking at me just because i dont have big boobs. Are they just taking longer to grow. or have i stopped growing and this is how theyre going to stay?
Thanks. =]

you still have like 3 years.. it all depends on your body... and genes... i can't tell you if your going to get a lot bigger.. but i can tell you they should grow a little more at the least... hope i helped... it's okay if you don't have big boobs.. i don't either the boys will just focus on your good qualities for example maybe you have nice legs? lol they will focus on that.. hope i helpeddd!!

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i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)

thanks!!

in my opinion i feel as if when i have my period i gain weight because of the cravings for chocolate and stuff.. and you are constantly eating when your about to get your period

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while i was on my period i had unprotected sex three times throughout two days and all three times he nutted in me. what are the chances of me being pregnant cause the rest of my period was light and barely there

ohh god hunny.. there's a very good chance when ever it's unprotected sex.. it is almost doubled when you have your period =/

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Im very mad at my bf... what can i do to relieve this anger??

lets see if i can name a few
- punch a pillow
- scream in a pillow
- talk to your friends
- read (idk if you like reading)
- watch tv
- listen to some up beat dance music
- maybe try to sleep?
- play a game
- talk to someone who makes you happy besides your bf. because it might add oil to the fire..
etc. if you need anymore just let me know.. and i'll try and come up with some more.. i hope you feel better hunny and everything works out between you and your bf

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allright im a 13/f

my best friend is a 13/m and... he drinks but i never seen him drink but i was talkin on aim and he seemed like he was drunk the way he was talkin. but i want to know if he really does get drunk or if he was just tryin to impress me or what! see he said to me "why dont you come to my house and get drunk on friday" i was very upset! :( i NEED advice on this
please help me! (cry)!

hunny you need to tell him that he needs to stop.. because you don't feel comfortable when he says stuff around you like that! i know it might be hard.. but he's your best friend.. best friends should be open with eachother! hope i helped and everythign works out for you =]

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Hey guys,

I know I might sound like a whiny bitch but here it goes. I've liked my best friend for a while now, and he just recently hooked up with a girl who I almost fought last year. When they starting going out I wasn't upset, but when I see them in the hallways kissing, it makes me fume! I get so angry! How can I stop this? And why am I feeling this way after I thought I was over him!?

Thanks.

BTW - I'm 14/f.

i know how you feel exactly.. what i did was try to aviod talking to him or seeing him anywhere.. (tried to aviod him at all costs) what your feeling is jealousy... yeahh i know it sucks doesn't it! you are feeling that way because just because you though you were over him doesn't mean that you were... i think you were denying it to youself that you didn't like him.. that's what i do.. and anyone who asked you you would be like "no, i don't like him anymore.." i don't know if you went out or not.. but you might be jealous maybe because he gave her a chance and he didn't you? idk... your prolly just mad because you know that he knows that you don't like her ... and he still went out with her without even talking to you about it... and seeing how you felt... hope i helped... if you need anything else just let me know

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My xanga icons are not showing up. They just show a little box with an "X" in them. I have tried clicking "Show Picture" but they still won't show up. Does anyone know what could be wrong?

your link could be corrupted... or it could just be your computerr.. if you uploaded them yourself.. the links could have expired or soemthing.. and if you got them from another site then they could have deleted them.. another thing is.. if you have a lot of icons.. and some of them show up and some do not.. then it might just be that you have too many pictures for you computer to load up because it would take too long.. hope i helped and if you need antying else just ask.. i'm here to help =]

EDIT**

well.. if the site is seriously that big.. then idk what you would want to do... this is the only way i know how.. is to save the pictures to your hard drive and upload them rather at www.tinypic.com or at www.photobucket.com .. but if theres a lot then idk... i mean you could start.. but gosh hunn i dk =/ sorry

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well..were leaving for vacation at the beginning of feb and thats when my period is due...is there anything at all that i can to to make it delay like till at least later this month so i wont get it till later in feb? thanks

no you can't really control your period... sorry =/

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i need to know what is the best kind of make up..
i'm alleric to cover girl

it all depends on your style of make up... maybeline is good... clinque is really good. but expencive.. hope i helped

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hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate.

well you could get preganent while you were raped... but the biggest reason for girl to get abortion is because she doesn't to want anyone to know she is preganent.. because she didn't want people to see her in a different view and stuff... i hope that's what you were looking for.. if not let me know and i'll see what i can do for you =]

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep**

well it depends on how determind you are trying to make it to work.. they usually last maybe a month but when your 13 they don't usually work... hope i helpeddd =]

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

it depends on who you are... if your shallow than yeah looks will play an important part in there relationship... but if you really don't care.. then it won't be important so i guess it depends on who you are and your own mind set

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Hey guys, I wanted to know what kind of hair products make your hair sleek and shiny, won't weigh it down and conceals dead ends? Thanks. I'm open to all opinions =)

pantene pro-v smooth and silky i think it's called.... all i know is it's the green pantene =] hope i helped

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