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OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high.
kiss/hug/cuddle him, tell him you love him, and make him something like a carrd that syas things that you really mean from your heart!
How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it?
Breaking up without a breaking the other persons heart is one of the hardest things someone could encounter. Normally, the longer the relationship the harder it is to let someone go. We get attached, sometimes too attached.
If it's a short term relationship, things can still be a little rough. The last thing you want to do is send signals saying the relationship is moving along smoothly. The less signals -- the easier the break up.Staying friends is also one of the most over used break-up-lines today. Not all relationships can go from girlfriend/boyfriend to "just friends." No matter how much we want it, it just won't always happen.In some cases however, being friends is the best choice. That is IF you have things in common AND you don't talk about your relationship of your current girlfriend/boyfriend with him/her. That is definately a heart breaker.The easiest (and most effective) way to break up is through communication. Obviously if you don't want the relationship to end badly you two have a lot in common, therefor you should be able to talk about what you need and what's wrong with the current situation.The best thing to do in a break up is to tell the complete truth. If you are sure that you never want to go out with him/her again you don't want to have any possibilities of misunderstanding.
An example, if you do not want to talk to him/her TELL THEM. Do not give them the possibility of calling you ever few hours and you just not answering, it breaks hearts quickly and at the beginning keeps their hopes high.The last thing you should do in a relationship is let it drag out too long. If you want out of the relationship TELL THEM, and fast. Do not let it go any longer or you will end up breaking their heart even more and you will also end up with a broken heart if not limb.
In conclusion, 1) Tell the truth, 2) Talk to your partner about the situation and 3) Don't let the relationship go on for longer than what YOU want it to.
alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
please help!!
okay as long as semen (the icky white stuff) didnt get on your fingers you are OKI to go!
Okay, there's this guy I like named Brandon. There's also my best friend Alyssa who loves but always says that me and him should go out. She's even wrote him a letter (w/ out me knowing) saying the we should go together. But he didn't answer. She made me before admit to liking him (but I really didn't but I only said it to make her happy) but then I had told her that I didn't. Now, she likes someone else, and me and Brandon has had some tutor time.... so I am now attracted to him more than ever. I jux dunno what to do cause she likes him. She told me that she thinks he likes me and that she totally fine with saying that. But I don't if he really does like me and, if he does, what should I do???
have a different friend talk to him and like casually rbing you up and find out what he says..OR you can pretend (or actually do it) to be drunk with ur friends and theyl call him and be like Oooh amanda (or whatever your name is) likes you..........*slurred voice*n you should come overrr here and givee her BIGG kissssy poopooo...........and so on, or u can call him instead, or ask him, the possibilies are endless!! just think of ideas!!
ps: hopefully he likes you!
when someone calls you on your cell phone and it says "ID restricted" is there any way to find out who it is? cause sometimes i get prank calls. Like if you called the operator would they tell you.
no im soo sorry about that, it pissed me off when peopel do that to me >:o, but you can get police to tap the line and youl find out who it is! we have prrivacy manager thing and it helps, try that or just ignore it! hope i help(ed)
I have a BF(boy friend)and he said he was goin' 2 call me but he never did is that any sign of he wants 2 break up with me?or doesn't want to call me no more? i rate very high.
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hmm im not sure, maybe he forgot or lost yourr number or something important got in the way for example, like, say his dog just died and you called HIm just in time to comfort him anad hel be like mg thank you for being there and taaa-daaa you guys are in more love then you ever had been before!! wow im a genuis ****so try calling him..but dont be too clingy! and make sure not to be a bitch and be liek WHY DIDNT U CALL U BASTARD, but then again i am not going to control you so..okidoki
Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.
signed-
Baby Phat Lover
lol yeah, i love shoe shopping, i need new shoes!!!! make sure no bitches step on them ON PURPOSE like they did to my shiny new shoes!! :( hehehehehehe bye! ps. yeah im weird too, so, i dont know it may be weird..eh who cares..YOU GOT NEW PRETTY SHOES! thats hawt
OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?
help please.
lmao...sorry...you're a moron! just tell them that u did it on purpose and that u hope they learned their lesson, and your stupid, and that was slutty, and gross! weirdo
I've had a really, really sore throat for the past 3 weeks, which was the last time I made out with someone. This kid was saying it sounded like when his friend had mono and that I should check it out, because I have some of the other symptoms of it as well [fatigue,headache,body aches,abdominal pain],but I wasn't sure if that's true because it has been three weeks.
Does anyone know if mono is a possibility?
did u ever get it before?? if so you dont have it because you cant get mono twice..
My best friend gave me a baby rabbit for Christmas (she breeds them, not in the greatest conditions but still)...but she died last night :'( I looked after her really well, I brushed her fur (she was a long hair) and fed her and gave her enough bedding and kept her hutch clean and gave her a run and everything...we think maybe she had a weak heart. But how the hell do I tell my friend? She's going to think I neglected the rabbit - I only had it two months!! I'm so upset and I can't deal with her hating me or anything...so how do I tell her?
oh man i am soo sorry, thats so sad! i had a bunny and we gave it away, but now its famous!! (dont ask) okay well anyways you should just call her crying and be like "omg he died!! i dont know how! i fed it..and __so on__" just try to flip out as much as possible so shes the one trying to calm you down!! hope i help! lol i am sad about the rabbit sorry im sure it loved you very much
Im going to my school dance tonight and I got this strapless dress and it has glitter all over it and at the top, it has glitter on it too. So when I wear the dress, the glitter scratches against my skin and I have very sensitive skin so my skin turns red around there. I've tried putting lotion on it, scraping the glitter off, I can't think of anything else and I need help ASAP. If anyone has any tips on how I could deal with it or get the glitter off fast(its on that dress pretty good. I tried using a steak knife and it took a while to get some off) I'd really appreciate it. Thanks so much
well if theres glitter on the inside maybe put soft medical tape over it (thats what i did with a itchy bra once lol) and it should make it less irritataed! hopefully
This is SO werid and ive never heard anything like it before but ..please dont delete it because i reallly need help!! Well, my nipples hurt so bad! I mean theres like a burning feeling. At first i thought i might be cold but i put on a sweater and put a blanket over me but nothing worked! so it couldnt be that!! Is it normal for nipples to HURT this bad? And i cant tell my mom because i dont know..we dont have a good relationship and i dont tell her things. Please help me!! Whats wrong with me?? Could i have cancer?!? Im 13/f ..not sexually active or anything ..im a virgin -- so whats up!?
maybe your bra is "chaffing" your nips or whatever chaffing is if its what im thinking, try changing ur bra or shirt or something, i doubt you have cancer lol but anyone could get it i guess..you prollhy dont tho..lets hope not! so yeah it might be the material of what your wearin that is botherin it..hope i help!
ok i moved from my old school about a year ago and i am still depressed becuz of what one of my friends did to me...she pressured my best friend into thinking she hated me. then both of them ditched me and turned everyone of my other friends on me by telling them that i said stuff i hadnt really said. I lost every one of my friends just becuz i made one friend mad and i am dead scared to make more friends so this doesnt happen again.how do i get over this?
you should be thankful that it happened. even though you learned it the hard way. it taught me to never...ever say something about someone or even say something to someone that you wouldnt want a lot of peoeple to know. just work from that and i hope that everythings okay!
okay im starting on birth control soon..and im on itcuz of my acne..but im also happy im on it cuz when i do bcome sexually active (imma virgin) with my BF of a year and 3 months i want to me 100% safe meaning using a condom and being on birth control..and i wanted to know..how long till birth control is effective? like how long should i wait till i can trust that it will work before i feel safe enough to go off and lose my virginity..
um im not sure what the answer is but i asked my mom if shed put me on b irth control cuzz of mi acne and she said that they have to do this gross vagina cancer test or something and i was like Ewww nevermind.....did they have to do that?? or is she lieing to me (not unusual) so she doesnt have to take me?? she probably thinks im gonna have sex...okay well yeah thanks
I think I have depression. I'm crying right now, and I'm not even sure why. I've been thinking about dea and searching on the internet for ways to commit suicide just now. I feel as though my life isn't worth living, I'm getting worse at school and I'm not going to ever get a job or get married because I'm worthless. I've always been shy but instead of acting upset and stuff in front of people I try to act happy so they don't notice that I feel so low, but it hurts, I feel as though they don't care even though they probably have no idea. I can't tell them, my friends are immature and just wouldn't understand. I feel as though everything's my fault, and like I'm the worst person in the world. I keep taking my anger out on my dad, I don't want to but sometimes I really can't help it; he was staring at me today and I just started yelling at him, it's like I've gone mad because I never used to shout at all. I don't ever go out anymore and I find chatting and going out boring and pointless. I can't ever concentrate on things for long; even television and chatting to people. I've got into a sleeping pattern a few months ago where every day, I can't sleep until at least 2:30AM, even on schoolnights, and then I go to bed because I'm so tired when I get home from school, and my parents won't let me have time off school to get into a normal pattern again. I've also been thinking about self-harm, I don't do that yet because I'm not sure how to, but I'm going to find out because I have nothing better to do. PS I've been feeling like this for about 4 months now, and no-one has noticed how I feel :| I'm really sorry this is so long but I need help.
wow i felt like that many times because i was sad about my family and friends and just everything. okay im not gonna explain my life so you should really see a therapist or your school counsiler or something because nobody is worthless, i'd def say u have depression..does it run in your family? i have serious depression and im not even on medicine for it, well im on medicine for add but i dont know if it helps fer depression and i still manage through every day and im the weakest person i know, so you can def. do it... im. me on slippingawayx96 if u want to.. talk or anything. ps. im really stupid so if i said something that offendedyou dont take it wrong or if i didnt make sense ignore it or something hope i helped~!
im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!!
i dont know what to say, um so maybe just masterbate?? youre 15 and youre pregnant?! try to ignore the hormones and maybe chain ur undies on or someone can sew ur vagina closed, that always works, hang with your friends or something, and eat food. food food food! food is good
I'm fed up with life and I just want to die, but how exactly can I kill myself - I don't know how. I'm 14 and never had, never will have a boyfriend - I'm ugly, short, boring and shy. I think I have social anxiety but I just can't face troubling someone with my problems, I'm not worth that. I don't have a life, I spend my life going to school, eating, sleeping, and on the computer. I moved house about 8 months ago, and before when I was with my mates I could be confident and loud, and not care what people thought of me. But my new friends are really immature - we're in year 10 and they chase year 7's and are REALLY loud. They think I act like a 50 year old because I don't find acting like a 6 year old fun. I can't say what I think because if I offend them then they'll leave me and I have no one. I can't get new friends because I'm too shy. I want to move back to where I used to live, so I can get my old life back, I miss my friends so much. My dad kind of wants to move back, but my mum is happy here and she won't move. There was this boy at my old school who I liked a lot since year 7, and I miss him but have no way to contact him, I couldn't ask my old mates to get his number 'cos it'd be embarrassing. I have nothing to live for, what can I do?
i hate my life too but then i just conpared it with someones life who reallllly sucks, like a poor person or some of those pl in iraq and im thankful for what i have. be happy for your family (if u have one), and youre not ugly. nobody is. focus on maybe a sport u like or something. and be happy for your boobs because having boobs is cool!! yay boobs
Okay, in the state that i live in, there is a really good highschool. i took the entrance test to it and i think i did pretty good. I got the letter telling me if i got in or not today and i cant open it until my dad gets back from California. i want to stay where i am because of my friends, but i want to go to the other highschool because its a really nice school and i feel that i can get more out of it. I'm afraid that if i go to the new highschool, ill lose all my friends. But im afraid if i stay, ill be missing out on so much.(education wise).So my question to you is: Which school in this case should i go to?
i chose b/w a public school where all my bestest truest goodest friends went and a catholic school where i knew noone, i chose a catholic school(all girls) for teh education. this was this year, im a freshman, i made a best friend at this school, she is the best, i mean it , seriosly best friend ive ever had. (im a little stupid and crazy awnd weird) and shes just like that! lol i dont love any of my other friends like i lover her, okay im sounding a lil weird and this sounds really weird, so im not telling you what to do, its yur decision. make a list of all the pro's and cons between going to a new school or the school where all ur friendsd are going to. who knows..you might have not even made it in..so yea good luck =)
well.. im now 15 and im srating to be i guess u could say more."active" with guys and i really want to get rid of the hair "down there" and i shave it all off but when i do even if i use a lot of shaving creme and a good razor it leaves razor bumbs and bleeds and then theres stubbles the next day!! so should i try to wax.. i mean i would but i don't want my mom know and if i aske dher to buy me wax she would ask why? anyways i need some good advice on the best way to make it smoothe
uhhh, burn it all off.
Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
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Oh hunni you dont deserev that!! you should just tell everyone that hes lieing and you shouldnt get that upset over it that u want to end ur life..something like that happened to me adn i transfered to an all girls school lol.. it will take a while to get over it, maybe talk and hang around with your friends who stuck with you this whole time a lot more and have fun, and learn from this mistake
sorry im not a very good advice-er!!
xo connie!