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Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?
-Amanda Marie
go out with him. Shes not a good friend if she doesn't want to see you happy, plus that would be really immature of her. And you like him, so go out with him. Its not like your stealing him from her, he already likes you.
Good Luck!
xox
how do i get a pic on my profile i tryed but it doesnt show up...plz help
if your talking about AIM ~ then no you can't get pictures there. But you can get pictures on buddy4u.com just make a subpro and get the URL's of the pics you want and tada, xox...good Luck!
i need a job and ive passed out flyers for babysitting but forget that... im 14 do u think theres a job out there for my age
Im sure!! I've been babysitting since I was like 11. And the flyers will help you tons I didnt even use them and I still got jobs, so if their are some kids in your area your in luck! Good Luck my sweeet!
Hey, I've noticed a lot of people's icons. I think they're so cute! Where do you guys find them, or if you make them, could you please explain how?? Thank you so much!
try these sites:
www.badassbuddy.com
www.iconator.com
www.dollsnow.com ( you can make your very owwwn!)
www.ghettoicons.com
All I can think of right now, but I hope that was helpful. Lol, welcome to the real world WITH icons... lol i love them, they're so much fun to pick. If you ever need some help, Im right here for you!
xox
Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!!
Well its realllly good you are talking to a counselor. I suggest you get a psycologist. May seem wierd but they help. Like how would you like it if your problems between you and your mom (for the most part) were OVER? Done with. You'd really like it. I guarentee if you talk to an experienced psycologist atleast weekly, they can pretty much do so. Tell your mom you want things to work out between you 2 and you wanna have a good relationship with her. She should DEFINETLY, DEFINETLY, DEFINETLY, DEFINETLY, listen. If she doesn't then your going to need to just use your counseler. All I can say is study harder, focus harder, and tell your Mom you wish to meet all her requirements but your working on it and it's not easy. Tell her its only a progress report and you guarentee you can fix up most of the bad grades, after this, do so! Do allll the homeworks, get an agenda to write it down in if you dont have one, do your projects on time, TAKE ALLLLL extra credits...they will help you pass, and most of all listen in class. If it doesn't make sense you gotta make yourself spare some time after school or at lunch to get 1 on 1 attention so that you do understand. You really need to get organized. Even if it means your still getting straight C's, thats a heck of a lot of improvement from an F or a D. You can do it, just set your mind to it!!
xox
Good Luck!
Hey, if you need anything, IM HePlayzTheGuitar, life isn't easy and Im here to help, anytime, all the time.
Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo
hang out with your best friend if its her birthday! You dont know this girl thats holding the party, and it would be low for you to ditch your BEST friend to go to some party. Even if its supposed to be REALLY fun you would definetly have a better time with your best friend.
Good luck!
xox
it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much.
Are you kidding me? Its not stupid you want him to go. You really like him, hes for you, your crazy for him, its beyond normal you want him to come with you guys. And since there's no way you can let your feelings go for him, then hell yeah talk to him!! Definetly make things try and work your hearts for him sweetheart, GOOO for it. You should say hey look, Im still having feelings for you, I think about you all the time, I can't get you off my mind, and I think this could work. Maybe if you told me why you guys broke up the 1st time i could help you. Good luck hun!
xox
Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do??
unfortunately, as kids, groups of friends get changed so much. In fact tons of things will be changing in the near future. If this friend doesn't want to listen chances are she never really will. The last thing you can do before you give up all hope is put it out there that she can always come around and be friends with you. Write her a really sweet note, reminding her of the fun times you had & miss, telling her why your sorry, telling her you know you guys were both wrong but it doesn't mean that you should never talk again. Offer to start off as distant friends if she wants, not overdueing it if shes too hurt. If she never responds to this letter its her loss and shes kinda low for not even wanting to fix things up. But at this point, atleast you'll feel you've given it your all. Right??
Now i know it sounds harsh but im giving you the solid truth. Anyone else who simply says "just talk to her" either isn't reading the question well enough or just can't give advice. Clearly you've tried, and Im hoping my advice will help you. I know what its like to get frustrated over this crap. Good Luck Hun!!
xox, come to me for anything else you need.
I really really want to learn guitar. I looked into lessons but their like 20$ a half hour! Its crazy. My friends tell me to just teach myself, but I have no idea how. And my sister told me to get a book or DVD on it to learn from. What do you think? And guitsrists around that could help me? lol. And anyone who taught themselves, how did you and how long did it take?
i dont play, but I know the answer for this one. If your good at following instructions HONESTLY, really think whether or not you are, then do the DVD's and books and stuff. Plus it will look rele neat especially if you are good and taught yourself! If you find it hard to understand what it trying to be put through your mind without being guided by a teacher, maybe you should dig up that money expensvie or not. Look into other places, there's got to be a place or two cheaper than 20 bux a lesson, put an ad in the newspaper. good luck and happy guitar playin !
xox
Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do??
tell him there's no right age to have a girlfriend, as long as you care for that person. Tell him it doesn't have to be a big deal, its just a small step above a friendship. He should understand. Good luck sweets.
I NEED to learn how to swallow pills... i just cant do it, i have a huge gag reflex but i'm in so much pain and the only med. i can get is swallowable. Anyone know any tricks??
break them in half??
hope ive helped
xox (oh yeah, make sure no like fluid crap or anything important will come out if you open up the pill gl )
Ok so I just came back from a guy friend's house. My other two friends, a girl and a boy, were there as well. We started off just playing dares, stupid things like kissing and stuff. Anyway, one thing led to another and we got more and more hyper and raunchy. We didn't have actual sex but we were trying to give the boys erections and things. Now I feel so so guilty because I have a boyfriend and Tom and Dan (the two boys) are his best friends. It wasn't anything serious and meaningful but I love my boyfriend and he gets so jealous if I put my arm round other guys and stuff. I don't know what to do.
well your guys gunna have to not be jealous about stupid things like putting your arm around the guys and stuff thats dumb. But anyway just promise you wont do that crap again and make sure Tom and Dan dont tell. Stop doing this stuff and give your bf lotsa attention.......he deserves it!
gl sweets! xox
should I be proud of what i am?
it depends, if it makes you happy. If you ARE something that isn't representing righteousness, maybe time to rethink? Be who you wanna be.
okay i go back and forth between my moms house and my dads house. The day after i went to my moms house, my dad lost my cat. He said it got outside, and then i come back a week later and he tells me this! what should i do???
ask people if they've seen the cat around, put up lost signs and offer reward. Lol.... it can be like 10 bucks but people dont have to know that.
Good Luck!
xox
ok here it is my best friend likesmy boyfriend and they talk all the time like on the phone and internet and it kinda feels like there is something goin on between them but when i ask them they say no...and it still feels like they have a thing with each other!!! what should i do???
Ask your boyfriend!! Be honest about it. Your not going to make yourself feel better until you ask. Simply tell him " You guys always talk and I feel kinda left out, if you feel something for her let me know now " ..... he should be honest. Don't even mention a thing to your friend she might feel a little offended. If he says he doesn't like her simply ask him not to be so flirty with her, things should turn out good either way. Good luck! I know how you feel and it isn't easy.
xox
i wanna b a chef but i always burn things so should i b a chef?
sure why not, just take some cooking classes and you'll improve. Good luck!
im tired of waiting for this boy i love to make a move.. like he admits he has feelings and we talk and hang out alot.. but were not going anywere.. its been like 3 months.. do i move on.. or stick with him.. any thing should help! thank you
MOVE ONNN!! hes just not worth it and some guys get attracted the second you turn away. So you never know. Get on w/ your life and getta new guy.......
good luck hun !!
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i want abs badly i want a major six pack wut is a quick way to get some i dont care wut it takes i just want to see some change wut excercises can be done for abs???
gym, and some major kick butt training. I mean MAJOR!
hi does anyone know anygood jokes? please help!
A highly timid little man, ventured into a biker bar in the Bronx and clearing his throat asked, "Um, err, which of you gentlemen owns the Doberman tied outside to the parking meter?" A giant of a man, wearing biker leathers, his body hair growing out through the seams, turned slowly on his stool, looked down at the quivering little man and said, "It's my dog. Why?"
"Well," squeaked the little man, obviously very nervous, "I believe my dog just killed it, sir." "What?" roared the big man in disbelief. "What in the hell kind of dog do you have?" "Sir," answered the little man, "it's a little four week old female puppy." "Bull!" roared the biker, "how could your puppy kill my Doberman?" "It appears that your dog choked on her, sir."
An elderly widow and widower were dating for about five years. The man finally decided to ask her to marry. She immediately said "yes". The next morning when he awoke, he couldn't remember what her answer was! "Was she happy? I think so, wait, no, she looked at me funny..." After about an hour of trying to remember to no avail he got on the telephone and gave her a call. Embarrassed, he admitted that he didn't remember her answer to the marriage proposal. "Oh", she said, "I'm so glad you called. I remembered saying 'yes' to someone, but I couldn't remember who it was."
A well dressed business man was walking down the street when a little kid covered in soot said to him respectfully, "Sir, can you tell me the time?" The portly man stopped, carefully unbuttoned his coat and jacket, removed a large watch from a vest pocket, looked at it and said, "It is a quarter to three, young man." "Thanks," said the boy. "At exactly three o'clock you can kiss my ass." With that, the kid took off running, and with an angry cry, the outraged businessman started chasing him. He had not been running long when an old friend stopped him. "Why are you running like this at your age?" asked the friend. Gasping and almost incoherent with fury, the business man said, "That little brat asked me the time and when I told him it was quarter to three he told me that at exactly three, I should kiss his ass!" "So what's your hurry," said the friend. "You still have ten minutes."
A man hasn't been feeling well, so he goes to his doctor for a complete check-up. Afterward, the doctor comes out with the results. "I'm afraid I have some very bad news," the doctor says. "You're dying, and you don't have much time left." "Oh, that's terrible!" says the man. "How long have I got?" "Ten," the doctor says sadly. "Ten?" the man asks. "Ten what? Months? Weeks? What?!" The doctor interrupts, "Nine..."
A group of girlfriends are on vacation when they see a 5-story hotel with a sign that reads: "For Women Only". Since they are without their boyfriends and husbands, they decide to go in. The bouncer, a very attractive guy, explains to them how it works. "We have 5 floors. Go up floor by floor, and once you find what you are looking for, you can stay there. It's easy to decide since each floor has a sign telling you what's inside." So they start going up and on the first floor the sign reads: "All the men on this floor are short and plain." The friends laugh and without hesitation move on to the next floor. The sign on the second floor reads: "All the men here are short and handsome." Still, this isn't good enough, so the friends continue on up. They reach the third floor and the sign reads: "All the men here are tall and plain." They still want to do better, and so, knowing there are still two floors left, they continued on up. On the fourth floor, the sign is perfect: "All the men here are tall and handsome." The women get all excited and are going in when they realize that there is still one floor left. Wondering what they are missing, they head on up to the fifth floor. There they find a sign that reads: "There are no men here. This floor was built only to prove that there is no way to please a woman."
Little Johnny's kindergarten class was on a field trip to their local police station where they saw pictures, tacked to a bulletin board, of the 10 most wanted criminals. One of the youngsters pointed to a picture and asked if it really was the photo of a wanted person. "Yes," said the policeman. "The detectives want very badly to capture him." Little Johnny asked, "Why didn't you keep him when you took his picture?"
A man in his 40's bought a new BMW and was out on the interstate for a nice evening drive. The top was down, the breeze was blowing through what was left of his hair, and he decided to open her up. As the needle jumped up to 80 mph, he suddenly saw flashing red and blue lights behind him. "There's no way they can catch a BMW," he thought to himself and opened her up further. The needle hit 90, 100.... then the reality of the situation hit him. "What the heck am I doing?" he thought and pulled over.
The cop came up to him, took his license without a word, and examined it and the car. "It's been a long day, this is the end of my shift, and it's Friday the 13th. I don't feel like more paperwork, so if you can give me an excuse for your driving that I haven't heard before, you can go." The guy thinks for a second and says, "Last week my wife ran off with a cop. I was afraid you were trying to give her back." "Have a nice weekend," said the officer.
Two guys and a union worker were fishing on a lake one day, when Jesus walked across the water and joined them in the boat. When the three astonished men had settled down enough to speak, the first guy asked humbly, "Jesus, I've suffered from back pain ever since I took shrapnel in the Vietnam war...could you help me?"
"Of course, my son", Jesus said, and when he touched the man's back, he felt relief for the first time in years. The second man, who wore very thick glasses and had a hard time reading and driving, asked if Jesus could do anything about his eyesight. Jesus smiled, removed the man's glasses and tossed them in the lake. When they hit the water, the man's eyes cleared and he could see everything distinctly.
When Jesus turned to heal the union worker, the guy put his hands up and cried defensively, "Don't touch me! I'm on long term disability."
The new employee stood before the paper shredder looking confused. "Need some help?" a secretary, walking by, asked. "Yes," he replied, "how does this thing work?" "Simple," she said, taking the fat report from his hand and feeding it into the shredder. "Thanks, but where do the copies come out?"
Tom had this problem of getting up late in the morning and was always late for work. His boss was mad at him and threatened to fire him if he didn't do something about it. So Tom went to his doctor who gave him a pill and told him to take it before he went to bed. Tom slept well, and in fact, beat the alarm in the morning. He had a leisurely breakfast and drove cheerfully to work.
"Boss", he said, "The pill actually worked!"
"That's all fine" said the boss, "But where were you yesterday?"
A carpet installer decides to take a cigarette break after completing the installation in the first of several rooms he has to do. Finding them missing from his pocket he begins searching, only to notice a small lump in his recently completed carpet-installation. Not wanting to rip up all that work for a lousy pack of cigarettes he simply walks over and pounds the lump flat. He decides to forgo the break continues on to the other rooms to be carpeted.
At the end of the day he's completed his work and loading his tools into his trucks when two events occur almost simultaneously: he spies his pack of cigarettes on the dashboard of the truck, and the lady of the house calls out "Have you seen my parakeet?"
Bubba was from the lower valley, and he decided he wanted to get married to his sweetheart. So, while enjoying some grits and gravy for dinner one evening, Bubba brought up the subject with his Ma and Pa. "Bubba, you can't get married yet," insisted Ma. "You're the baby of the family." "But Ma," Bubba protested, "I just had my 38th birthday last week." "We know that, Bubba," Pa chimed, "but your Ma and me think you should put off getting married until after you graduate from high school."
Bernie was invited to his friend's home for dinner. Morris, the host, preceded every request to his wife by endearing terms, calling her Honey, My Love, Darling, Sweetheart, Pumpkin, etc. Bernie looked at Morris and remarked, "That is really nice, that after all these years that you have been married, you keep calling your wife those pet names." Morris hung his head and whispered," To tell the truth, I forgot her name three years ago."
Person turns on the computer without a keyboard plugged in. When she turns on the computer, the computer finds out that there is no keyboard attached and it gives a "Keyboard Error" message. She then asks "Why did it give me a keyboard error? There isn't even a keyboard attached?
Jones came into the office an hour late for the third time in one week and found the boss waiting for him. "What's the story this time, Jones?" he asked sarcastically. "Let's hear a good excuse for a change."
Jones sighed, "Everything went wrong this morning, Boss. The wife decided to drive me to the station. She got ready in ten minutes, but then the drawbridge got stuck. Rather than let you down, I swam across the river -- look, my suit's still damp -- ran out to the airport, got a ride on Mr. Thompson's helicopter, landed on top of Radio City Music Hall, and was carried here piggyback by one of the Rockettes."
"You'll have to do better than that, Jones," said the boss, obviously disappointed. "No woman can get ready in ten minutes."
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It was the day of the big sale. Rumours of the sale and some advertising in the local paper were the main reason for the long line that formed by 8:30 in the morning in front of the store. A small man pushed his way to the front of the line, only to be pushed back, amid loud and colourful curses.
On the man's second attempt, he was punched square in the jaw, and knocked around a bit, and then thrown to the end of the line again. As he got up the second time, he said to the person at the end of the line, "That does it! If they hit me one more time, I don't open the damn store!"
I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this.
moms dont handle that sutff well. But anyway, try. Just say mom I had the best time the other day me and __ kissed. Try getting your nails done with your mom or treat her to a lunch date, talk, relate. gl xo