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Q: people never ask me questions in my inbox. how do i get them to?
give a lot of good advice and people will ask questions for ur inbox.

Q: some mentioned that a patch is a contraceptive.. what does this mean ? how does it work?
helps prevent getting pregnant * Love Always, Ali *

Q: I`m more of a sexual type of girl. I haven't had sex or ever gave oral or had oral but i'm sexual in that kind of way. All my friends tell me I should date older guys because the way i am. My current boyfriend who i like alot isn`t perverted like I want him to be. I told him I don't mind him touching me or feeling me up or anything but he only acts like a perve at rare times. I want him to be more sexual. If i gave permission to any other guy even his best friends they would be all over me.. i just really don't get him and i know he wants to be sexual. Like during a movie he puts his hand up my shirt but it's not all the time, he worrys about making out with me more. I`m 13 and hes 12 turning 13 in February. Should i just date older guys in the future? Thnx for reading I give feedback.. xxOo
Well since he's still young, he's probably never eben exposed to or asked to do any of that stuff. Just give him time and he'll start to like it. But if he does do it, just tell him that you like it and you wish he did it more. Sorry ive never been in that situation but thats all i cud think of! * Love Always, Ali *

Q: Omg i have no idea what happened but on my advice site i put a cursor thing and then wen i went back to my advice site NONE of my questions or anything was there and my rateing was there but there wasnt ne feedback! How do i get my questions back?

well you should try having someone else look at it. maybe its jus a temperary glitch. what's your username and ill take a look at it. * Love Always, Ali *


well i looked at it n it seems like you've ansewred a lot of questions n everything's there!

Q: There's this boy that I've liked for over a year now. We stopped talking around May `04 because I lied to him. It was a long distance relationship btw. I lied to him about everything, besides my name age n stuff! I really loved him allot. He stopped talking to me, and hasn't been online which means he got his s/n changed. I have his cell number but it's always off, and I have his house number, I want to call him.. But I'm afraid I have no idea what to say, Cuz we haven't talked for a real long time cuz of what I did. What should I do?
you should call him and apologize, tell him how much you miss him and how you feel. If he says something mean ... at least youll know you tried! Love, Ali

Q: hey
ok theres this guy and i really like him!!! but he dont like me... and like i wanna no how i can get him to like me. b/c we r like perfect for eachother its not even funny!!!! and he is just so cool and hot and perfect. i dont no why he dont like me though he told my friends that theres nothing wrong with me but obviously there is if he dont like me. can sum one please give me adivce on wat to do about him i like him ALOT!! thanks < i rate >
Tell him how you feel. Maybe write him a note. Flirt with him and he might start to like you. You could maybe have a friend of yours or a friend of his, talk to him. * Hope I Helped * Love Always, Ali *

Q: my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?
Explain to her that you are very sorry and that you'll back off. Tell her that you never meant for her to think that you were "stealing her boyfriend" Tell her that you aren't going to let a guy get in the middle of a great friendship. * Hope I Helped * Love Always, Ali *

Q: i smell. i dont know why. i shower. i go tot the doctor. i clean myself. and i still smell. i wear pefume, but i still smell. i dont know what to do . i take showers twice even 3 times a day. help me please.
try wearing a stronger deoderant. or carry around a small bottle of body spray in a purse or your backback. * Hope I Helped * Love Always, Ali *

Q: In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?

On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?

No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.

Dr Kesha
You are doubting your faith in God if you even need to ask that. Everything happens for a reason and all of those people are in a better place now. I am an extremely religous person so maybe my answer is biased. * Hope I Helped * Love Always, Ali *

Q: theres this new guy on skool and shes really HOT! hes on the other team so i havent talkd to him yet. i wanna talk to him because mayb we can get 2gether :-). I am a shy person when it comes to talkin to new people. Any ideas or tricks on ways to talk to him?
PLEASE ANSWER QUICKLY!:-D
I RATE!
theres this new guy on skool and shes really HOT!
^wtf?

imma pray that was a typo..anywaiiz, just walk up to him and intorude yourself. he'll probly be greatful that someone is willing to be friends with him.he's probly nervous too! you should get to know him. invite him to sit with you lunch good luck!!!

Q: Im going to florida in about 14 weeks. I was wondering if anyone oculd estimate how mugh weight i could lose in that amount of time. i eat healthy and excersise a lot now. what do you think?
if you really work at it ... maybe like 10-20 pounds.. but you should try nd refrain from asking such vauge questions with such lil info! lol Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: Does anyone know a fast way to get rid of dandruff? I only have untill 1/7/04 and only going to Walmart before then! Help please!

Hair Scare
head n shoulders is ya best bet*ali*

Q: im out of style and have no money what should i do??
make money ... or you could jus experiment wearing some things with other if you know wut i mean Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?
dont be afraid, she can help you. every girl goes through it and your mom can help you from past experiences! Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: how much does getting your belly button pierced hurt? what do you have to do to take care of it and do you think 13 is too young?
13 is an okay age.. i know a buncha girls that got it done at 13 its fine Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: Hi, I'm 14/f and I've been in dance for 9 years. The only thing is, I really suck. I'm not just saying this, I really do. I'm one of the worst in my class, and I get cruddy parts in my recitals. My teacher plays favorites, and I'm not one of them, because I'm not good. A lot of the people who are really good are huge snobs about it. They're like, obsessed with themselves. My other friend is in the same situation. (we go to the same dance school). We want to quit, but we can't, for a number of reasons. We'd be leaving some of our friends. We might as well just wait until we graduate, because that's when most people quit. (when someone quits before they graduate, my dance teacher talks badly about them, and all the snobby girls laugh). Our moms would get mad. Also, they both say if we quit, we have to join something else, but we don't like anything else. We're not good at sports. I don't even like dancing because I'm not good. And even if I was, I don't think it's really my thing. But don't tell me to quit, because I just can't. I just need help. I want to get better, because I think if I get better, I'd feel better about my self. (I'm very self concious about my dancing) But my teacher doesn't like me and my friend, so I can't ask her for tips. (like, if we're doing something wrong, she just says that's wrong and doesn't tell us how to do it) Does anyone know any exercises to get your leg higher in your arabesque, get your feet in 5th position, do splits, have balance, etc.? Thanks, I really appreciate your help. Sorry about the length, but I really need help. Thanks. I rate.
im a dancer... its been about 11 years now .. i started when i was 2 so i know the basics lol. if you ask your teacher for help, she'll notice that you're really interested and willing to learn. you're going to have to stretch our your legs to get them higher. put your leg on a ballet bar or sumthin else and try nd reach it. if you can try nd reach farther. splits hmm.. are you flexible? if not .. get flexible lol .. try spreading out your legs like a strattle up against a wall. try reaching your toes on either side. blanace was a toughy for me cuz i had no grace what-so-ever. try walking on a very low balance beam or on a straightline. if you take pointe, try standing on one foot and slowly lift up your other one to the back. and make sure you have a good posture. so like in school, make sure your back is straight against the chair. make sure you keep your shoulders back. Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!!
you should give him a chance..... you might end up really liking him and who cares wut other people say! Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld."
two and a half men is the funniest ever! medium, everybody loves raymond, growing up gotti *damn they're hott!!!*Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: Is it normal to shave a little bit below your belly button and bit above.. cuz i got the little hairs but they bother me
its normal for it to grow there, but don shave it lol Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

Q: Ok does anyone know how to check if anyone answered my questions???? Not that anyone does answer them i just want to know how to! THANKS :)
in the greenish column on the left of your screen .. Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali

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