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Crushing big time!!


Question Posted Thursday January 6 2005, 12:04 pm

hey
ok theres this guy and i really like him!!! but he dont like me... and like i wanna no how i can get him to like me. b/c we r like perfect for eachother its not even funny!!!! and he is just so cool and hot and perfect. i dont no why he dont like me though he told my friends that theres nothing wrong with me but obviously there is if he dont like me. can sum one please give me adivce on wat to do about him i like him ALOT!! thanks < i rate >


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advice~gurl answered Thursday January 6 2005, 2:23 pm:
You are setting yourself up for some bigtime hurt at the moment. This I know. Just because he doesn't like you doesn't mean he doesn't like you as friend. He just may not see you the way as you see him. There is totally nothing wrong with you. Just let your crush be or you'll be sorry. This I can advise you. If you say you can't get him off your mind I would suggest that you keep yourself busy and don't focus on him. If you think of him ohwell but don't do it on purpose. Don't try to immpress him...be you. Ignore him if he looks at you strange. You are you. Don't change yourself....Its not a good idea. You might understand if you do do it.

AG

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Karen answered Thursday January 6 2005, 2:06 pm:
Just flirt with him and get him to notice you. If your friends are friends with this guy, why don't you ask them to talk to this guy? Just talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. Lots of guys are like this; they are complicated and don't know how they feel about someone. There isn't anything wrong with you, since this guy said there isn't. Hope I helped :)
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iix3BrettXox answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:34 pm:
find out who his best GUY friend is and explain to him that you are crushin on his friend and that uou would love da hook up... then tell the guy that u like that it would kool if yall hung out maybe went bowling or to a movie or something and got to know each other... but don't tell people u like him.. cause people gossip!!

hope i helped...


gabby

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icy answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:10 pm:
Guys are complicated because they don't talk about their feelings easily. Only a rare boy will come out and admit he likes someone. There's barely any chance that he would be that forward with your friends so don't give up home. And something doesn't have to be wrong with you for a guy not to have feelings for you. For all I know, you could be the prettiest girl on the planet or the sweetest. It's all about chemistry. The same way that you feel about him, he may not feel that way because he doesn't react to you that way. Maybe it's because you two are so perfect for eachother. Maybe you are better off as friends. However, if you flirt and forget you like him, he might really START to develop feelings for you. Let me elaborate, guys like it when girls can talk to them and be comfortable around them. However, when you like someone, you are usually very self concious around them and what helps for me is to pretend he's just a guy friend. That way you'll be able to communicate better and won't have to worry about getting all nervous. This may be hard and it takes some practice but it should work out just find. Good luck hun! If you ever need any advice, feel free to ask me a question directly at my column. &hearts; iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG &hearts;

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Thursday January 6 2005, 12:32 pm:
Tell him how you feel. Maybe write him a note. Flirt with him and he might start to like you. You could maybe have a friend of yours or a friend of his, talk to him. * Hope I Helped * Love Always, Ali *

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