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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

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ok so i like this guy. he just moved in before christmas. i have liked im since then. well he knows i like him. but he talks to me when we're at home. but when we get to skool he doesnt and i dont know why. can you help me? bc idk why he doesnt talk to me at skool? and i want him to like me.so yeah im confused. confused girl, age 15.

I really dont know why he doesnt talk to you at school. No one will ever know unless you ask him. You need to talk to him about it and ask. You also cant make him like you but give him time. He probablly feels weird still. Let him get all settled in and more comftrable around you. Who knows how long that can be but just be patient. I am defenetly sure that he will like you. ♥

suneil says "someday over the rainbow bluebirds fly"

"Someday.. Someday"

i dont get it. what is clothe. in india we do not wear clothe, we wear ducks instead

Thats totally sad. You should move then. Clothes is something you wear on your body to cover you up. =] Yup! ♥

what is this hollister? i do not understand, i think it is a small indian town of people with red dots on their foreheads praying to the indian god of chintagumpala. no maybe it is the type of indian rice the ducks run away from. i am so confused this is so dumb my toe itches

Hollister is like my favorite store! Its clothes and stuff! Its not a small indian town of people with red dots on their foreheads praying to the indian god of chintagumpala. Sorry babe! Hope you're not confused anymore! Just scrach your toe now. ♥

you are very rude. never threaten to murder anyone of the beautiful indian race. how could you!!?? no murder me, or gandhi but never my grandpa! he is too special! murder my duck instead

NEVER!! I would never murder you! You are to special to me! What would I do with out you! Golly Gee! I would never murder a duck! Are you crazy! ♥

this is suneil again. do you really forgive me? i'm scared, i think you are gandhi's arch rival and you are going to murder my grandpa.

Hey Suneil! Hm... I dont think I will murder your grandpa but if I knew you I would murder you! L0L! No! Im kiddinggg!!

hello this is suneil again and i have come to apologize on my behoth. that was a mistake of me to ask you once again to your nuisance and i am incredibly sorry! please forgive me it was only a accidental mistake! if you do not, i will pray to gandhi for hours for your forgiveness! on india we pray! on asia we pray! on the world we pray!! pray for your forgiveness! pray please forgive my mistake of injustice for all!!!!!!!!!

Seriously this is totally freaking me out but its halarious! l0L I so forgive you! ♥

hello ms. butt. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Bob asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors!

I tottaly answerd this before. L0L ♥

How much sleep should a dog get?

As much as it wants. There is no limit. They can sleep whenever they want and as long as they want. Even tho they need exersise so they shouldnt sleep all day. ex__o0h ♥

Ok well our last day of school was last thursday and i told my b/f to come to school b/c that was the last day i would be able to see him b/c he was going to another school.well he didn't come so i didn't get to say goodbye or get a pic of him so i could remember him!i don't have his phone number or anything so i can't call him! what should i do so i can get over this?

i rate high!

You dont have your boyfriends number or anything? Does he at least have yours? If he does he will probablly call you and say bye. Dont get all sad because of this because you need to go out and have fun with your friends. You will meet new guys too. Just because you dont have his picture doesnt mean you will forget him. You will always remember him no matter what. ex__o0h ♥

How much sleep should a person get?

8 hours! ex__o0h ♥

my mom says that if i use too much acne medication products, and other things to clean my face, i'll have really bad skin in the future.

should i believe her??

oh, and i dont wear any make up

That is true. You should use the same products not a whole bunch of different ones because they have different chamicals. Stick to whatever you are using now. Good ones are like Clean and Clear, Murad, Biore,Proactive, and Nuetrogena. ex__o0h ♥

i have had discharge for about 2 years but i have never gotten my period. Whats wrong? im 13/f

Theres nothing wrong. You will get your period. But you're just lucky you dont. eX_ _ o0h ♥

one day i was up in my room and my mom caught me doing naughty naughty things = / and were like really religious so she made me eat like a ton of cream cheese to make up for my sins !? but i don`t think its a sin i mean i can stick things wherever i want you know ? i mean like shes being a bitch shes making me eat cream cheese which makes you fat !! like i bet she didn`t have to eat cream cheese after she made me !! i mean like it`s retarded because she used to be a hooker !! and now everytime boys call my house she tells them there going to hell ! i mean like i can masturbate without my mom barging in on me riight its wierd i think she liked it !! ewe disgusting !well what should i do i mean jesus christ ?

ps : i need a boyfriend that goes to church ..
pss: I HATE CREAM CHEESE !

Lmao! She made you eat cream cheese? Thats total crazyness! Its defenetly normal to mastrubate and its healthy for you, but your mom shouldnt care. If she used to be a hooker then why wont she let you masturbate? Just do it in the bathroom and lock it so she doesnt find out. Its normal so dont worry about it. You'll find a boyfriend just make sure they are catholic or whatever religion you are. ex__o0h ♥

PS: I HATE CR3AM CHEESE 2!

okay oh my god i have and exboyfriend lets just call him .. brad .. and my bestfriend lets just call her .. cayden and shee was talking to him online one day this is AFTER we broke up and hee knows like this other kid now lets call him frank well brad and cayden were talking online about frank cuz cayden likes him too and brad said out of no where "oh my god one day at bball it 90 degrees out and franks uniform was so tight and he was sweating and he looked gorgeous you should of been there it was the best" and usually he just kids around about that stuff and says just kidding after .. but this time .. he didnt . and like cayden goes ewe fag.. and brad just goes " what ? " so do you think hes gay or is just kidding around ?

Hmm.. Sounds pretty gay to me. I mean no guy would ever say that another guy looks gorgeous! l0L he probablly is gay. You could ask him but he will probably deny it. He might be kidding but I seriously dought it. Ex__o0h ♥

well oneday i was in my cyber sex chatroom and like this guy was being really nice to me he called himself eugene he thinks im 47 but im really 15 i guess i like older OLDER guys .. is this weird ?? and do you think i should tell him that im only 15 im mean its just a lil lie and its not like were ever gunna meet or anything ?? what should i do ........................... x3

Uhm ew hes 47 and you`re 15. Thats just kinda wrong. Its okay if you like older guys but not that old. You can defenetlly do better that that. Yea you should tell him that you are only 15. Or you could just keep lieng to him but you never know what could happen. eX__o0h ♥

my boyfriend was over my house (( up in my room ; ) )) one day and my cat came in and he looked soo hot ( overheated ) so i decided to shave him . . . . well my boyfriend thought that was gross but i think it was the riight thing to do ... and now my cat looks cute = ) but my boyfriend doesnt like it ... what should i do . . . ?

Who cares what he thinks about your cat!! If you like your cat that way thats the good thing but its not his cat so he has nothing to worry about. He should get over it! l0l! ex__0h ♥

is it a good idea after you meet a guy to tell your friend to tell him that you think he's hot?

does this instill a wrong impression?

is it better to let it wait and become friends with him before you tell him he's attractive?

guys opinions on this one would rock. what would you think if a girl you just met told you she liked you, and how would you feel about a girl who didn't tell you she liked you?

Thats totally fine. After I meet a guy I 4 sure say hes hot. Thers defenetly nothing wrong with that. Im not a guy but guys love hearing that. It makes them feel better and just more "special"! ♥

hello ms. butt. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Bob asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors!

Wow! That was one of the most fun questions anyone asked me! Hehe! I defenetly dont think its weird that you like the color pink!! Thats totally HOT!! Hmm... how can I explain what sexy means. Theres a lot of ways people think sexy means. And it can mean a lot of different things. If someone tells you that you are sexy its just like saying your hot! Lots of love!! PS: UR H0T!! ♥ =]

there's someone that i like. but he told me i wasn't usually his type... what does this mean?

Uhm see, when guys say that you arent his type its a way of saying he doesnt like you and its a no. Im not trying to sound mean but thats just how it is. It also means that you both dont have the same intrests. Also the wat you act, talk, dress. Those all mean that you arent his type.

Seriously, you rated some people bad because they just told you the truth! How freaking ignorant! Well bye! ♥

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