im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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hello i would like some advice on how to controll my greasy hair . it gets very greasy very quickly and its making me stressed so could you please give me some help thank you . (link)
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u mite have to take a shower at night and in the morning and if u put in any gel or greasy stuff like that i would stop!
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okay i am horny all the time...i cant control it HELP (link)
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this is normal its hormoans its what happends when your growing up!!!!
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wow what to say. i still like this kid named alex, and im goin out with a guy that i dated before alex so lets call him my number 2. okay well i said yes to number 2 on thursday and it was infront of the entire class and i didnt want to say no and loook like a BITCH, and hurt his feelings so i said yeah. now yesterday [friday] in school me and alex we "bonded!" and i had the best time and being with alex just felt so right. being with "2" is kind of weird and i dont like him. but he really likes me and all my friends say i should stay with him hes a nice guy but i dont want to stay with a guy that is obbsessed with me and i dont like at all and makes me feel uncomfortable. well yeah thanks! (link)
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your in a pickle well its tough another week with 2 will show you how you really want to end up with either alex or 2. so try that!!!
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Okay, I need help. I've been with my current boyfriend for a year & 7 months. Everything used to seem so "perfect", but for the past few months, it has all went downhill. He hardly ever calls as much as he used to, he seems to prefer texting rather than talking on the phone. We see less and less of each other. He never attempts to cheer me up when he knows that I'm upset or have had a bad day. If I disagree with him or express my opinion, it's like he always has to start an argument with me about it. When I'm around him, it seems like everything he does complety annoys me. I have had several talks with him telling him how he has changed and does not act like the same person he used too and that he doesnt treat me the same. All he can ever say to those things is that he is sorry and that he will change. But, nothing ever changes. It's always the same over and over.. and he tells me that he is just human and makes mistakes. But, I don't really agree with that. I know humans make mistakes, but you don't keep making the same mistake over and over when you KNOW that it's wrong. I don't see how he thinks we are going to keep a relationship if we hardly talk and he can't attempt to make me smile when I'm upset, etc. What does this mean? Does this mean we were never really in love or does it mean that we are falling out of love? I'm so confused and I really need some advice. (link)
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when people are growing they also grow out of love! its verys sad to say but when your young and have been going out as long as you two are now that one of you are just thinking that they should get out there and search for new people! it would break my heart if me and my bf broke up! tell him you guys should see other people if you seem not to be happy without him and he feels the same way you can always get back together but remember someone only gets 2 chances other wise it deff. wont work!!!
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15/f
Me and three friends (my besties) are going to a theme park next week and two of us have a bet with each other:
I know its not totally morally right and w/e.. but its just for some end of summer fun.
Each guy you flirt with and flirts back you get a point for. 5 points if you get his number.
This park is a number of hours away from home.. so its not like we're ever gonna see any of them again...
It's for bragging rights, so its not a big deal...
Any tips? Convo starter? Anything to help me win :]
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haha good game. any way find a cute guy when he looks your way smile then if he smiles back go up to him and say hey! and he will obviously say hi back then just talk about how you couldnt not notice how cute he is... cheesy i KNOW but it works.
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Well My Ex Boyfriend Passed Away At Age 17 He Meant The World To Me I Neva Got To Tell Him How I Felt That I Loved Him..But When He Died He Took My Heart With Him Do You Think Ill Find Love Again He Is All I Think About So I MEan I Dont Know I Cry Over Him Everyday.. (link)
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im so sorry for your loss. But people always say that you can never forget the ones you love, so no you will never forget about him but there is always someone else out there that will love you and you will love back!
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I hardly ever ask questions about love life. But I really need advice. I would talk to my best friends about this matter, but one of them will just tell me to go for it without listening to how i feel about it, and the other will just tell me NO because of the guy. I'll tell you everything that happened up until now, and i won't leave anything else out so i get get a truthful-straight foward answer from you guys.
Just for a warning, this is probably gonna be long.
I'll take you back to a few months ago. lets say..may. Well, back then I was currently with my first boyfriend (lets call him Joe) and things weren't going very well. I was doing things I really didn't want to do because I felt like I was trying to compete with his ex. Even though he didn't have contact with her. Well, Joe met my mom one weekend, and she let us go down in the basement to watch a movie. Lets just say she walked in on something that she wasn't supposed to walk in on.. After that, me and him had a serious talk and were going to try to change our relationship around, and if it didnt' work out, we would end it.
It went good for a week, then around memorial day, joe, danny (his best friend), and hannah (my best friend) went to hannahs house for her family cookout. [[ Danny and Hannah are going out btw ]] Everything was going good, but then Danny and Joe went for a walk and were talking for a while. I wondered what they were talking about to Hannah, and Hannah said Joe was going to break up with me. I thought she was saying it as some mean joke, like she has been for the past week. So I just pretended to be mad and shurgged it off. Well, Joe and Danny came back and we all talked.I thought that everything was going good, and I guess it was.
Then the next day, I went to hang out with Frank (my other best friend). Frank told me that Jimmy (his best friend, and one of mine) told him that Hannah was saying that Joe was gonna break up with me and such. So Frank talked to Joe about what was going on. Apparently, Hannah knew everything going on before I did, but wasn't going to tell me because Danny made her swear not to tell. Which kind of pissed me off. But anyway, Frank got the inside scoop on why Joe wanted to break up and such. Looking back on it I guess I knew what everyone was talking about, I was just in shock.
So later that night, I called Hannah to see if she would have the guts to tell me herself. I asked her what was wrong and she told me to talk to Joe about it. I told her that I knew and pretended not to be mad at her. So, I ended up calling Joe later and flipped out on him about telling every single person in the school. He told me that he didn't think of me as the same person. We ended up deciding it wouldn't work out so we broke up "mutually". I didn't really care until the next morning when I was an emotional wreck the whole day. I was talking to my good friend Jade about it, and Jade told me that she heard from her friend Amy that Danny said that Joe told him that he wished he asked Amy out sooner instead of me when we started having problems.
Well, I was even more of an emotional fjewirjfl after that and tried to figure out what the heck was going on from Joe. Joe told me that Danny lied. But Danny told me that Joe lied. I ended up getting mad at Amy. And then Jade hated me for telling Joe what I heard. So that went on for a good couple of weeks. I still liked him for about a month after we broke up, and I told Joe how I felt, he told me he doesn't like me anymore and ended up getting into huge "sob" stories on how his other girl friends broke up with him. So I don't really talk to him about it anymore.
Me and Hannah aren't that good of friends anymore because she's all hypocritical about Danny. and honestly i hate Danny with a passion so I just don't bother getting into huge discussions like this with her.
The problem is, its been three months and I'm still afraid to let go of Joe completly. I havn't really accepted the fact that he won't come back. I faced it, I gave back the stupid stuff he gave me. But I still have this feeling in my gut that he still likes me? Or maybe I just want him to like me back.. I can hear people getting sick of me with dwelling on this for so long. I'm sick of it myself. I want to move on. and whats even worse is that Jimmy likes me. I want to like Jimmy so bad, but I wouldn't go out with him because of the fact of Joe. And I don't beleive in using people.
Part of me wants to Call Joe. Just to set things straight. Should I? What should I do? I'm really lost right now.
sorry for the confusion. I just don't know if I should set things straight again with Joe (relationship or no-relationship) or give Jimmy a chance.
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what you need to do is call joe. Get it out of your system. jimmy sounds like he would be a good thing for you too because hes a new guy! start a new relationship. but first you need to talk to joe find out some thing if he doesnt like you then your question is ova with but if he does tell him sorry hes not worth it but if you think he is then try once more he only gets 2 chances just put that in you head.
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I have a verizon Audiovox CDM-8910 cell phone. I recoreded a song i wrote on the phone. Is there any way to set it as my ringtone? I need like seific directions, because i'm pretty cell phone stupid lol. (link)
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well if i were you i would go to a verizon store either online or in person or on the phone!!
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16/f does anyone know of a store that sells sorta mini courdoroy skirts? i go to private school with a basic dress code so im not looking for ripped jean skirts, but shortish skirts that are a material other then jean? links to websitres for ordering would be much appriciated.
p.s price doesnt matter.
thanks so much! ive been looking everywhere! (link)
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holister has some skirts go to there site!
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First off,
you should know that when we were younger my friends and I always made eachothers mixed cds, looking back we all noticed that we could tell eachothers specific moods and what was going on through the music/lyrics.
So now, I feel like Im losing them, one told me flat out that she doesnt want to hang out with me anymore and hates my boyfriend.. who she used to love?(as a friend) and I was wondering if anyone had any good songs pertaining to this to put on cds for them to let them know that i feel like im losing them, and I miss them, and im sorry that none of us made an effort. (link)
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why dont you rite your own lyrics! put the paper of lyrics in a cd case give it to them and see what happends from there!
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I just got a new light colored bed set, and im so afraid of getting blood from my period on it because it will stain it. How can i make sure i dont get blood on it? I use tampons, but i tend to sleep in pretty late, so its a while until i change it at night, so it tends to leak out. I'm sooo tired of getting it on my underwear and staining them, and i reallllly dont want it to get on my new bed set. So any ideas?
It would be much appreciated, thanks! (link)
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either wear a pad! and put a towel or towelssss under your self.
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Ok.. I am new to this thing. So i dont know exactly what Im doing, and I cant believe I am doing this! But I need help. Me and my boyfriend had sex, used a comdom. I am just a couple days later for my period BUT I am having really bad stomach pains, my lower back is killing me, Im having vagina pains, feeling sick in the middle of the day and bad headaches. Could I be pregnant?.. (link)
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wow the only way you know your NOT pregnant if you dont have sex! if you are worring about being pregnant then you are not of age to be having sex! marriage is the way to wate!!!! then you dont need to worry about stuff like this. if you do not get your period in another 2 weeks take a pregnancy test. in Health you learn a lot. so start listing to stuff!
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i know i'm PMSing since i'm going to get my period in a couple days, so i'm starting to PMS. i'm REALLY irritable and i am mad right now for no reason. i could scream and cry i'm so pissed, even though it's for no reason! i'm in such a bad mood and no one wants to be around me because i can be such a bi*** when i'm PMSing. what can i do to not be so aggrivated? (link)
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try not being mean that works everytime you think your gonna get mean or somthing walk away that way its all good>!@
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15/f...ok so i've heard the expression "dead fish in bed," as in just lying there and not doing anything. What are some ways to not be a "dead fish in bed?" thanks in advacnes. (link)
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lying with fishes u mean !! its a italian thingy! watch God father
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i have milk coming out of my breast and could this be a sign of pregnacy i have also been sleeping more and i havent gotten my period the last month it was suppose to start on the 22 of july my last one lasted like 2 weeks could i be pregnat?????? (link)
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here are some symptoms i can give for you of early pregnacy!
1.Your breasts may provide one of the first symptoms of pregnancy. As early as two weeks after conception, hormonal changes may make your breasts tender, tingly or sore. Or your breasts may feel fuller and heavier
2.Fatigue
Fatigue also ranks high among early symptoms of pregnancy. During early pregnancy, levels of the hormone progesterone soar. In high enough doses, progesterone can put you to sleep. At the same time, lower blood sugar levels, lower blood pressure and increased blood production may team up to sap your energy.
3.Slight bleeding or cramping
For some women, a small amount of spotting or vaginal bleeding is one of the first symptoms of pregnancy. Known as implantation bleeding, it happens when the fertilized egg attaches to the lining of the uterus - about 10 to 14 days after fertilization. This type of bleeding is usually a bit earlier, spottier and lighter in color than a normal period and doesn't last as long.
Some women also experience abdominal cramping early in pregnancy. These cramps are similar to menstrual cramps.
4.Nausea with or without vomiting
Morning sickness, which can strike at any time of the day or night, is one of the classic symptoms of pregnancy. For some women, the queasiness begins as early as two weeks after conception.
Nausea seems to stem at least in part from rapidly rising levels of estrogen, which causes the stomach to empty more slowly. Pregnant women also have a heightened sense of smell, so various odors - such as foods cooking, perfume or cigarette smoke - may cause waves of nausea in early pregnancy.
Food aversions or cravings
When you're pregnant, you might find yourself turning up your nose at certain foods, such as coffee or fried foods. Food cravings are common, too. Like most other symptoms of pregnancy, these food preferences can be chalked up to hormonal changes - especially in the first trimester, when hormone changes are the most dramatic.
Headaches
Early in pregnancy, increased blood circulation caused by hormonal changes may trigger frequent, mild headaches.
Constipation
Constipation is another common early symptom of pregnancy. An increase in progesterone causes food to pass more slowly through the intestines - which can lead to constipation.
Mood swings
The flood of hormones in your body in early pregnancy can make you unusually emotional and weepy. Mood swings are also common, especially in the first trimester.
Faintness and dizziness
As your blood vessels dilate and your blood pressure drops, you may feel lightheaded or dizzy. Early in pregnancy, faintness may also be triggered by low blood sugar.
Raised basal body temperature
Your basal body temperature is your oral temperature when you first wake up in the morning. This temperature increases slightly soon after ovulation and remains at that level until your next period. If you've been charting your basal body temperature to determine when you ovulate, its continued elevation for more than two weeks may mean you're pregnant.
Are you really pregnant?
Unfortunately, these symptoms aren't unique to pregnancy. Some can indicate that you're getting sick or that your period is about to start. Likewise, you can be pregnant without experiencing any of these symptoms.
Still, if you miss a period or notice any of the tip-offs on this list, you might want to take a home pregnancy test - especially if you're not keeping track of your menstrual cycle or if it varies widely from one month to the next. If your home pregnancy test is positive, make an appointment with your doctor, nurse practitioner or midwife. The sooner your pregnancy is confirmed, the sooner you can begin prenatal care.
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okay WHAT THE HELL. my friend ALWAYS find me on advicenators! like seriously. wtf. i don't even tell her it's me! how does she figure out which questions are mine?!
thanks in advancee. (link)
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you guys must be close or shes really absurvent! they way you type or say some things mite be a great give awaY!!!
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never thought i'd be asking this question but i just got my period today and saterday i'm leaving for splash lagoon water park and i'm going to geauga lake! i've never put in a tampon and i need some advice on how to.. does it hurt? and you can go swimming in them right? a visual or something would help a lot!
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ok no it shouldnt hurt usually the box the tampons they came in show you how. Yes you can go swimming in with them but make sure that you change it at least 4 to 8 hours!!! important! and to insert them you can either stand up with one leg on the toilet or stand. the insator the plastic outside what you do is just shove it up your vagina slowly until your close to you thumb then push the otha end in if a lil bit of the tampon is out then you did it wrong! what you really should do is ask your mom how to do it and if not an older sister or a frined ant any one its not that embarrasing really.! hope i helped good luck!
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In between my fingers, my skin is red and a little flaky. There's also little bumps, kindof like scabs but not really. It gets very itchy, and when I stratch it the the bumps, pop? and inbetween my fingers it gets all pussy and sticky and nasty. What is this? What kindof ointment should I use to make it go away? (link)
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eww i get this on my middle finger haha go figure! its just like an allergic reaction or something like that you really need to watch out for it! and dont scratch!!
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What exactly is it? How do they do it?
And do you guys believe in it or not?
I'm not pregnant and I will never get an abortion, I'm just curious. I don't know much about it, I only know they kill the baby but I think people should only do it if they get raped.
I'm 14/f by the way. :) (link)
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I so dont believe in it. its gross and i personally think its murder. what the doctors do its rip off arms or legs then the head! its really torture.
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So it's summer which means for sports I sweat and break out more. Wondering if there is any really good working creme or face masks that work to elminate the break outs. (link)
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when you sweat you should quickly go and wash your face!!!
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