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Everytime im around people i get nervous and i worry to much about what to say. Do i have some kind of disorder
Well we need more details to really determine that but my guess is your just a little shy. Speak up, or practice what you'll say to people before hand. If you need any other sort of help, let me know.
i have really really REALLY sweaty armpits and i need advice on wut kinda deoderant would actually work for me.. its really very embaressing and its really embaressing to ask u all rite now so please don't reply and make fun of me... neway cya hope u can help
No I understand... well hoping your a girl cause that's what I know on giving advice on. First of, don't be ashamed! It happens. Second, take control. Suave or teen spirit stick works really well, and the first thing you should do when you get up in the morning is shower and/or clean under your arms with a cold washcloth, scrub for atleast a minute, no dabbing! Then, once you do so take your deodarant and spend like literally 1 1/2 minutes on just scrubbing the deodarant into your pours, 1 1/2 minutes for each armpit. I mean, I know it sounds like a lot of work but it pays off. Make sure you get the deodarant with no residue so you dont have gross white stuff there...
gl xox
I have a crush on a teacher of mine and I can't get over him. What should I do?
uhh.. well i guess a crush is a crush and there's nothing to do besides.... learn it would NEVER work out. gl
So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong?
This sounds a little like an eating disorder to me. Like really, you might not want to admit it, but that's where eating disorders begin. Well, all Im saying is diet carefully, and maybe you were overstuffed, but its better to eat in porportion. This is what I mean by that, when you dont eat your stomach shrinks, so that the next time you eat a normal portion you feel overstuffed and like you ate a lot more than you did. This is why its important to have food normally. Well, good luck, and maybe you should talk to a friend/parents about this :-)
Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?
Well, your gunna have to do the right thing and let her go out with him without disturbing the relationship. Sorry, but you would want a friend to do the same in a relationship like that. Oh no, feelings are feelings, your not a bad friend for liking him, just dont interupt. Really, at your age, people don't last for long really, I mean usually. I would just keep your flirt on and maybe one day he'll know.
:-) Good Luck.
lately i have been feeling depressed!!...HONESTLY! i have nothing to be upset about...its just i dont even know!!...im not sure why i feel this way, but i just feel all shity and lazy, and i just wanna sit there, or lay in bed and start crying without thinking of anything!! does anyone know what is wrong with me?!
Maybe life is wearing you down. I suggest really you dig to the heart of your problem and see what happens directly before you wanna lay down and be depressed and cry. I think your having emotional difficulties you can't locate. Maybe you've got somethin up against your self you cant put a finger on. If you really can't figure this all out, seek psychological help. It may seem like a big deal but it isn't , everyone needs it from time to time.
Good Luck!
Feel better hun!
i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize...
Sure, just get shoe racks and stuff like that, and maybe some friends over for a saturday or something like that and do a major clean up. Maybe after watch a movie or go to the movies or something. :-D
Ok I am 13/f and i dunno what to be for halloween,
a fairy or a dead bride? I already have fairy wings, but i think it would b cute to be a dead bride. what do you think? thanx.
~i rate~
I think a fairy would be cuter. Dead bride and all thats just kinda scarey.
Hello, My name is Serena and I am 14 years old and I attend a good high school. Anywho, I do have a question. I know this might sound a bit offish, but I just don't know what the meaning is... I like to go to this site every now and then, and I like to read the questions, however, I sometimes see a question with a person stating their age with this: 13/f. Frankly, I have no clue to what the f in 13/f means! Can some of you all please tell me? Thank you so much! Love much, Serena L., New York
They are saying they are 13 years old, and they are a female. If they were a male they would say
13/m
Or however old they are. And some people may add on a stae here and there, for example if their from New Jersey:
13/m/NJ
Hope I've helped you out.
I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP!
YOUR FINE! You sound liek you have a really nice figure. And guess what, all short people wanna be tall ! No ones perfect trus me
what do guys likes to get for there bdays?....he likes bike and anything with wheels...wat should i get him?
hmMm movies . . . magazines . . . football / basket ball . . . hat if he wears them? gl xox
Hey!I was wondering if you can get colored contacts even if you don't need them because I only want to change the color of my eyes.Also, I would like to know if I would have to make an oppointment with an optomitrist(sorry about the spelling)before I get them?Thanks!
yeah you don't need to have contacts to get the colored ones. My friend was gunna get them and she doesn't need glasses she just didn't like her eye color. Although, she chickened out cause you have to put eye drops in your eyes everyday and stuff and its not all that easy. But glad you want it!
good luck xox
Whenever I get upset, lonely or just feel bored, I always go and eat chocolate. It's starting to become a problem and I do it everyday. How can I cut down on the chocolate?
Grant yourself an amount of chocolate your supposed to have a week. For example 2/3 pieces a week. If this isn't working, then you're just going to have to ask the chocolate eaters in your house to hide it so you can't find it.
i am in 9th grade. which college is best. penn state, michigan state, florida state,california state,or st. vincent? i rate all well.
I'd say their all pretty good. I mean really college is college, but I heard Cali State was good.
Hi, I'm a dancer and we are making up our own hip hop dances and I want a cool song to dance to. I also want a song that would be easy to make dance moves to. Any suggestions?
how bout Lose My Breath? I think that would be an awsome song to bop around too, lol pretty easy too its sooo dancable to lol.
what are some fun things to do after homecoming dance that dont get to expensive?
dinner, friends over watch/rent movies, ice cream, huge party, go to the movies, may seem stupid but drive out of state ??, lol whatevr you want!
i know you can practice to hit higher notes, is there any way to pracice my lower notes? i can go high, but i cant seem to hit low notes in singing.
Well some low notes aren't good for your voice. Like if your soprano you can't help your voice, and you dont wanna wreck it so stick to high notes. But if you really wanna practice just keep doing voice warmups, stressing the low parts, do it in your room or when your home alone so you're not distracted.
latley my friend is really bugging me i mean all she does is talk about her other friends and i noticed she is different around them. she makes me feel as if i am stuiped it bugs me i dont want to talk to her becausee she will give me an atitude what should i do.
Tell her. If she gives you an attitude just dont talk to her for a whole day, she'll wanna know whats up and get up in your space and make sure she's sweet. If she won't stop... she's gonna lose a good friend
~ xox
i feel bad for my friend people are giving her a hard time and calling her poor even though she isnt even near poor. so i try cheering her up but it isnt working anymore i dont know wut to do someone if yuo have any ideas pleas tell mah
Well you need to tell her what counts. Tell her money DOESN'T matter anywhere near compared to attitude. In life if you don't have a kind heart, and a sweet attitude, you will get NO where. Those people wind up poor, cause no1 wants to work with that, deal with that, and pay people like that. Plus people who have less appreciate everything so much more. Maybe it looks good to be "rich" but really they're never satisfied, people with less appreciate even the small stuff. Plus, tell her anyone who can't except her for who she is obviously lacks security otherwise they wouldn't pick on her, they'd find something else ta do. Good Luck hun ! xox
My ex bf and I are still friends. There's 3 boys that r really mean to him and the 3 did somthing last year and this year in the bathroom. They blamed it on him. Now the whole school thinks my ex is gross and that what those 3 boyz did in the bathroom he did. ( the things are that there was pee all over the floor, and "chocolate" 'get it' on the walls) UGH! So... what do I do?
Tell them it wasn't him !! If they dont believe you then they are jerks. But the truth is you don't know for sure if you werent there, he could always just tell you that so he doesnt think your gross. And how old are these people ne 1??! gOsh.. yell at them for there immaturity!
gl oxoxoxoxo