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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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Hello, Last night me and 3 of my friends went out and did some stuff (nothing sexual). And well one of these friends I've liked for a little while now. And the whole time she was looking for boys. Her boyfriend left her for another girl about 2 or 3 weeks ago. And I guess I feel like giving up. I don't know if I should or not. Oh well, I just want some feedback. Please. I'll give you 5's if I have time. (I usually do)

Thanks,
Nab.

Give her a little bit of more time. I mean, her boyfriend just left her for another girl. I would totally feel crush. Be there for her and flirt with her. Be nice. Tell one of her friends that you like her. Don't give up just yet. She doesn't know that you like her so you can't really blame her for finding guys. Just flirt with her.


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ok, I'm 14/f and dont have a lot of money and i have a ton of friends so I'm going to buy some cards and give them to my friends but what should I give as a present...that's kinda small and easy to attach to a card/envelope that could maybe fit...i know candy but anyother ideas? will rate!

Earrings, bracelets, giftcards, a cd..(if it could fit..) ,gloves. Lol..its kind of hard finding presents that could fit in an envelope..



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this year im really confused about what i should ask for, for christmas i dont really have any ideas so please help me think of some stuff thanks

callie 14/f/stl

Gift cards to your favorite store, a scarf, a jacket, clothes, earrings, cd's ,dvd's, perfume, cell phone, a tv for your room, a phone for your room, necklace. Anything like that.


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my "friend" is being a b**** to me i was just walkin down the hall and with her and my other friend and i was talkin about sumthing and right in the middle of it she says: "shut up no one likes you!" i was flabberghasted and then i pushed her cuz i was mad and she didnt really get it and i really wanted to call her a fucking bitch but it was too late for me to say anything then she walked off. and i dont get why she is saying things like that too me i always make her laugh and we have fun together and then she says sumthin like that it just doesnt make any sense to me...so wat should i do? she really shouldnt treat me this way but i still want to be her friend cuz we have been friends for a really long time...
*hurt*

Woah. Well obviously you can tell she's joking. Because she ends up laughing about it. Just tell her to shut the hell up if she interrupts you again. Talk to her about it. Even if she's joking, tell her that it kind of hurts you and that she shouldn't be a complete wacko interrupting you when you speak. AVOID ARGUMENT! Because that'll just get you guys even more madder & you guys won't talk to each other anymore.



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ok well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and i hve this huge like BUMP on my face.. pretty close to my nose.. ive had it for like 2 or 3 days and i popped it bc it was a zit when i first got it.. yah i know ur not sapose to pop zits.. but now it is like a big red bump and it doesnt hve puss or anything in it.. well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and it looks so hideous... any home remedies that will help plllleeeaasse....

If you put ice on it, it'll reduce the redness. Or i think toothpaste will. You can always cover it up with make-up.



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I went out to the movies with my frineds for my birthday. No one really talked to me they just talked to each other and left me out. How do i become more popular to make them want to tlak to me all the time especially on my birthday?

Be outgoing and funny. If no one is talking to you, go up and talk to someone. Don't just sit there. It was kind of rude that no one was talking to you on your birthday. Just be really outgoing and nice and funny. Start talking about random things and then make a joke out of it. Don't be shy. Be confident.


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hi um well i need help. im a girl age 15 and i weigh 100 and 5 pounds, i know that is not alot but im only 4,11. and i look very big not in my tummy area but my theighs. I wanna know how to lose weight and keep it off. i also need to grow! any ideas' people alwAys say _ _ _ _ _ _ _ you need to grow or they will look at me and say wow your short. i get really upset about this. i like being short but i want to grow a little bit! thank u

Ahh! Sorry i can't really help you with this. But if you go to this girls site,

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=naimee

She'll help you ALOT! She knows alot about losing weight. So if you leave her the same question that you left me, she'll give you a really good answer. =)

All i know is that you can't grow, you will keep growing, but you cant force yourself to grow.



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i wanna look at porn but i dont want it to show up on hte url like porn for you or anything lol i use to go to xanga then look at the videos but i cant find anymore please help m/15

Lol, you can always delete the URL's.

Just go to "Tools", then click on a thing that says "Options" or "Internet Options". Then you just clear your history. =)




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I wanna new sn for aim but i can't think of any. Im 14/f if that helps any. I just want a really cute one Thanks

You didn't really explain what you like. So it's kind of hard. BUT OH WELL!! =)


GORGE0US(your name)XOX

DONT TEAR MY x3

ANDiWASLIKEOMG


Hmm..maybe you should explain what you like and stuff. It'll be easier for us. Then we'll make one up. =)


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Well my name is Michael and my girlfriend refuses to call me that. She only calls me Mike. She also hates it when others call me Michael and corrects them with "Umm it's Mike not Michael." Even my mother. But she says it with more respect talking to my mom. Does this seem werid or overly possesive to anyone? Or should I just go with it?

Simply tell her that you want to be called Michael. Say that you don't like Mike. Tell her not to correct people if they call you Michael. But say it nicely, you don't want to hurt her feelings. =).



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Hey babe it`s Alma. Can you give me like the code thingy for other advice columnists to be put in our profiles. Thanks a bunch. Love ya !

♥ alma

Lol hey Alma. Duh! I can totally give it to you =)

http://cedesign.net/help2j.htm

Go there. It should be like..the first thing there.

Do you know how to do it? lol It's pretty easy. But just leave me another one in my inbox =)


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Hey do you know how to put music on xanga ?

Noo! Sorry i don't. You can either ask x0 hOlLiSteR baBe or xO`alma`Ox. Ask them =)



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is it healthy for a 5'8" teen to weigh around 115lbs. And if you know, what is a good weight for someone who's 5'8"?

Lol..shake was being sarcastic. Your fine! Don't lose anymore weight. =) Your skinny


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Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..

This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this??

You should really tell your doctor. Also, if you tell your doctor not to tell your mom, then she won't. I've done that like..once. But then i told my mom. So tell your doctor about the sex part.

For the weed question, they can find out by the pee sample. It just depends on how long ago you did it.



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I liked movies like The girl next door and all the american pie series...But I don't like stuff like a walk to remember or the notebook or mean girls. Give me movies with hot girl actors in them. Romance is okay but not if it's all really serious.

I say Duece Bigalow European Bigalow. Lol w/e. I saw it like 2 weeks ago and its uhhh....gross. lol but its funny..or you can just start watching porn..its easier..


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WELL IDIOT..IF YOUR A TEEN YOUR NOT SUPPOSE TO BE WATCHING THAT SHIT ANYWAYS.PLUS HOW THE FUCK ARE WE SUPPOSE TO KNOW WHAT YOU ALREADY WATCH ANYWAYS? LOOK AT HOW MANY MOVIES YOU ALREADY PUT IN THE ADDITIONAL INFO. SAY WHAT THE FUCK YOU WATCHED. DON'T CALL ME AN IDIOT WHEN YOU CAN'T EVEN SPECIFY..LOSER.

FEEDBACK AGAIN:
WELL ASSWIPE..OBVIOUSLY YOU CAN'T TAKE A JOKE. FUCK OFF YOU JACKASS. DON'T ASK STUPID QUESTIONS AND MAYBE WE WON'T GIVE YOU STUPID ANSWERS.

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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something?

No way your not a freak just because you haven't gotten kissed yet. Wait until highschool. But nope you arent' a freak.



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i'm supposd to get my nose pierced today, but i got a really bad cold over night, and have a stuffy nose. what should i do?

Wait until your cold gets over. Or until your nose isn't stuffy anymore. If you wait, you'll still get your nose pierced. Nothings going to change lol =)



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Ok, so i have this friend named *ang* and she was my friend the whole sumer. I was either talk to her on the phone, she was over, i was over her house, or she was at the pool with me. Ok so when school came, this friendship went down, she turned into a wana be popular girl, anging out with them, and turned into a backstabber. We still stayed friends. So i decided to take dance with *ang* and she was so happy and so was I! So tonight is our dance recitle, and she hates me. She caleld me a bitch, she gets into my email account, but then, after, she just comes back to me. and me being to soft harted i accept her apoligy. If i doont, she gets totaly mad and starts spreading bad rumors. ive told my parents, and ive told teachers, and en talked to her, nothing has worked. please help me solve this problem.

Don't be her friend. Change your email password. And tell her to fuck off. If she does come back crawling to you, just tell her off! NO ONE should deserve a friend like that. Don't invite her into anything that you do. DON'T try to fix it. If she does end up spreading rumours about you, tell everyone that its not true. Shes soo immature!



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Hey im in journalism and its my first year. Finals are here already.. and were making a year book in that class, so far im doing pretty good but i need quotes.. for like sports,graduation, prom and stuff like that for a year book type.
Does anyone know any websites i can go to, to get really good quotes for the year book?

http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/

http://www.xanga.com/LiVe_LaUgH_LoVe_Nd_Be_LoVeD

For the first one, just look at the side. It will have different catagories.



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Well i have a aguy thats liek me...& these is the shit he dose

-calls me
-talks to me all the time
-loves to take me to class
-oves to sit next to me in classes
-always writing me notes...& i write him note...

I can tell he likes me...but i don't like him like that...what should i do if he askes me out??

Just tell him that you would want to be friends instead and that you don't want to ruin what you guys have now. Easy. =)



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