about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

hey, for one i love your advice, but i was wondering what the best way to get rid of pubic hair is? i tried using nair, but im allergic, and im too embarrassed to ask my mom to take be to get it waxed at a salon..so yeah what do you do?? because i have a nice body but im always too embarrassed to wear swimsuits becauase of my nasty hair, help please!

Thanks! There are a lot of ways that you can get rid of pubic hair. You could shave it. Make sure you use shaving cream and it will be easier. Shave the way that the hair is growing so you dont get any razor burns or bumps. You dont have to go to a salon to get it waxed you could buy you own. If you go to Sally Beauty store there is a waxing kit you could buy there. I suggest that you get the one where you have to heat up because the other ones do not work. ♥ ex_oh

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hey i was just wondering if anyone knew the age you have to be to work at hollister co. there is a new store coming to the closest mall to me and i called and applied as a sales associate and they called and i forgot to ask them if there was a certain age you had to be to work there and i have a meeting thing tomorrow and i dont even know if im old enough to work there! i know that you have to be 18 to work at a&f but if anyone helps me on this ill rate 5's

16-18.. They usually accept more 18 year olds. ♥ ex_oh

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sorry.. how do u give a blow job? not to be weird but like step by step lol

Uhm.. yea .. you suck on the guys dick.. pleasure him whatever way you know. He'll enjoy. ♥ ex_oh

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is masturbating a sin? or bad.. or what.. or is it just for pleasure?

It is a sin.. and if you are Catholic or Chrisitian you can go to hell since its a sin. Its in the Bible. I mean 98% of the girls do it and it is for pleasure! ♥ ex_oh

Uhm Shake only said dont belive in it because he does not belive in God. Read his column and you will understand. Dont take his advice at all!

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hi..okay well one of my bestfriends (mary) is saying that i am replacing her and that i dont hangout with her anymore wich isnt true becuz i do..and like i became really good friends with this other girl (beth) and mary is like saying that i replaced her with beth and that i hangout with her all the time and stuff and i dont like hangout with her and i mean i hangout with beth alot but its becuz she always asks me to hangout and mar never does...and shes saying that every1 is saying that and like wat should i do?
thanks,
julie

You both have different opinions. You are going to keep thinking that you dont ignore her and she will think you do. I know how it is and you probablly are just a little tiny bit. They way you can fix this if you invite Mary to do more stuff with you and Beth and just hang out! They will be friends and all 3 of you can always hang out together. Then Mary wont feel ignored and left out anymore. ♥ ex_oh

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if you get fingered, is your cherry going to get popped?

Well.. that depends. Yes, it could happen but rarely. Your cherry can pop by pretty much anything. Sex, tampons, fingering, masturbating. ♥ ex_oh

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I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
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Wow.. Ive read some of the responces and yes we are all like that! In fact it happens to me also.. everyone gets scares like that. Its because of what has happened to other people and you just see if off movies and such and it gets stuck in your head. You are defenetlly not crazy or weird at all. It happens to many people. You should sleep with a lamp on. I mean I hate dark any dark places I just hate it. So I always have my lava lamp on and just read a magazine or something before you go to bed. It helps a lot!! Sleep with a stuffed animal if it helps for confort! ♥ ex_oh

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what does getting your cherry popped mean??

You really cant explain what it means but.. when you have sex your cherry will pop and it will bleed. It also means that you just lost your virginity. ♥ ex_oh

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I've been losing alot of weight lately & I hate how it's leaving stretch marks. Any pointers?

Cocoa Butter lotion. =]

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okay well here's the thing...i am kinda overweight and my boyfriend is REALLY skinny....so like im afraid that when we "do it" he wont be able to find the "tunnel" because my flab kinda hangs over it and i think he might be grossed out....?

Im sorry.. but honestly what is your question. I would really want to help tho.

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Does anyone know what song they we're playing in the last episode of the O.C. season finally when Marrissa shot Ryan's brother because its a really good song and it's bugging me that i cant remember

I remember it and its called An Honest Mistake by The Bravery! It is a good song. ex_oh

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if you have ever seen the ring 2 then in the movie, when the little boy was in the hospital the lady that was talking to him stuck a needle in her neck and killed herself. why did she kill herself????????? was it bcuz the little posessed boy tell her to?? tell me!!!

I knew everything that was going to happen before I watched it. Samara was in the little boys body because she wanted Rachel to be her mommy. Since he was in the hospital he wasnt allowed to see her since they thought she aboused him. So Samara made her do that so she could leave. ♥ ex_oh

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i know this is gross but is it bad if your poop is really green? (two days in a row)

L0L! No.

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i no this sounds stupid but, how do u acctually give a guy a handjob? i rate high!

Its not hard at all. You just take your hand down his pants and move it like up and down.. and just pleasure him! ♥ ex_oh

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hye teza you might know who this is but shh ok well this perosn i always fought with and hated and i thought i was so way over him but i just relized im not..and all my friends are sayin i shouldnt forgive him and he said sorry and blah blah but i dont kno what to do i love him so much but i love my friends too... and he has put me down alot but then he has helped me alot so im liek going to go crazy some of my finreds said if i forgive him they will be mad at him and idk..he is so amazing but has done alot of stuuf. help me!!!!! lol II LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

Yea I know who this is.. ♥ I know how you feel tho. Sometimes it is hard to get over someone that you loved for a really long time. I mean every realationship has to have their ups and downs.. thats what makes it better! You argue and then you make up. This is your life and the guy you love so your friends should not be involved. Then again I understand why they are. Your friends just dont want to see you upset and down and thats good that they care but they shouldnt just say dont go back out with him .. blah blah blah! I mean you honestlly cant help it. You could give him another chance. It wouldnt be a bad idea but I just dont want to see you hurt over him at all ! You also need to tell him he needs to stop saying and doing rude things to you. If he helped you and made you feel better a lot thats really awesome and it just means he will always be there for you! Now if you just step up and tell him once again he has to understand. Hes a guy and most guys are like that but they care and they are just hard to understand.. You know what I mean? ♥ L0L Just give him another chance.. you can take the risk and if you get hurt you just know everyone is here for you!! Boys come and go!!.. Member that!! I love you to death!!!! ex__oOh

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whats in the middle of a jawbreaker because i dont know what it is

Nothing.. its made out of sugar so the whole thing is just sugar. ex_oh

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hey my name is precious,female,13.well i have these two guyfriends.they are so funtwo be around!But i like Both of them more than just a friend.when i'm wit josh we are so goofy i feel like i can float!when it's just me and cory we tease each other like girlfriend/boyfriend.but i told both of them i liked them two diferent years i messed BIG time! i need some advice!

You dont have to make one of their your boyfriend right away. Take things slow and just stay friends with them. You could always be that way. Do they like you and do they feel the same way as you do? If they do then one of them will end up getting hurt and thats defenetlly good since you are good friends with both. Thats why I think remaining friends would be a good idea. Maybe later on you could step up but for now just dont rush into things! ♥ ex_oh

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Please don't skip this cause it's long. It's good and here I go okay I have this boyfriend that left for the summer well technically were not really going out but we didn't break up we just decided it wouldn't work out long distance. We were just going to get back together once he came back well the thing is since he left we've been going through some rough times I really do love him and were crazy about eachother we've been going out for eight months. So here's the problem this other guy came into play which happens to be a really good friend of mine and we were talking and he wants to go out again. And please don't be like then you really don't love the other guy if your even thinking about dating another guy cause c'mon girls we all do it. But see I really wanna be with the guy that I've been with for eight months but see I don't know if there is ever gonna be anything between us because of all the fighting we've been doing. So I'm thinking getting with the second guy might not be such a bad idea. So please help me which one should I pick? I'm so damn confussed. here's some background info. The guy I've been with I cheated on with the second guy.I've dated both guys. Plus the first guy has cheated on me too. Im 14 the first guy is 15 and the second guy is 16. The two guys know about eachother and hate eachother.

Hmm.. my opionion is the second guy. See.. just because you and your boyfriend fight alot doesnt really mean anything. All good relationships have to have their bad times but sometimes it could be a bad thing. If he cheated on you thats not good but you cheated on him with the second guy. I mean to me.. that kind of shows that you like the second guy just a little bit more. Let things cool down with you and your boyfriend and if still doesnt work out break up with him. There are up and downs and staying with him would be good also. You could work out anything between you and your relationship will work out if you are really in love with each other. If you think that the other guy will treat you better then defenetlly go out with him. Its better for you to be happy. I know that you might love your boyfriend a lot and want to be with him but then again you want to be with the other guy. What you should do is just not go out with anyone for about a week and then you will constantlly be thinking about one of the guys. Who ever that guy is is the right one for you!! Good luck! &hearts ex_oh

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Hey me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years nearly 5. But now its all changed and i miss her so much i just want things to go back to normal but my other friend is very jelious if we do anything together help!!

will rate hight!!

Include your other friend in things that you do so she doesnt feel jelous and left out anymore. Talk to your best friend and just tell her you wish things were back to normal and then ask her to hang out!! Everything will be normal just take it slow.. ex__oh ♥

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hey i really would like to know where i can buy some sunglasses like.. the nicole ricci type! .. and they're big and the outsides are thick and white and the actual glasses parts arent black but kind of a dark brown! and i dont want them from somewhere really expensive like dior or something haha but around like $40 $50 or even less..i know there's some girls out there that know exactly what im talking about;) please help! i'll rate everyone that answers with a reasonable answer with 5's

Forever 21 has some of those. Buckle does also. The ones she has are designer but you could get it for even less!! American Eagle and Aeropostale have it as well!! I saw some there!! &hearts' ex__OOh

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