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Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this?

he might just have a little hamster cold!!! roadents dont have the strongest ammune systems known to man so they get these every now and then....give him lots of fluids and he will be fine!!!! (oh and about him bitting..maybe he was just having a bad day!)

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im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP!

well your stil really young so i wouldnt suggest running away at this age(and running from your problems doesnt help anything) just tell your parents how you feel and why you feel that way. Dont be shy at all!!! just because your not like every other girl in this world doesnt mean thats a bad thing!

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hey can some1 pleaze tell me what song this is nd who singz it..i kno it but i forget-the lyrics are..
If I traded it all
If I gave it all away for one thing
Just for one thing
If I sorted it out
If I knew all about this one thing
Wouldnt that be something

One Thing by Finger Eleven!!!!!!!

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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/***

there would really be no reason to treat her different just cuz she likes girls....if she tried to pull anything on you then i would just tell her that your not like that and you prefer boys but other then that...just treat her like you always have

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Okay I am 14 years old and going out with a guy that is 16. we love eachother to death but then i started talking to this other guy and he is really cool too. we have a lot of similarities and i sorta think i could start liking him. what should i do? i love my bf so much i dont wanna like another guy.

if you really love him then you wont go for the other guy...loving a person is alot stronger emotion then liking a person

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this isnt really sex but my boyfriend hasnt asked me for head but i know that he has gotten it before im not scared to do it im just unsure of wut to do .. somebody help me FASSTTT

pretend your eating a popcycle or something

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Do you know of any sites where I can post my pictures for free?

you can go to www.picturetrail.com or you can go to www.xprofile.net

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hey, im from houston too!!! what school do you go to

hey girl!!!! i go to Klein High School!!

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Lately I've noticed that my friend's ex-boyfriend has been wanting to be around me alot. It's really sucky, because he was so mean to my friend! He constantly put her down & even told her she was a "fat cow". I've tried being subtle about the fact that I don't want him around me because he's so rude, but that just seems to make him hang around me more. He's really nice to ME, but that's how he was when he started dating my friend & then he just acted so jerk-ish afterward. I'm soooo confused, help!

well don't date him or anything if you know how he is in a relationship....if he starts being a jerk then just tell him to go away or tell him that the way he is acting is really rude and no girl likes to be treated like that

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Im trying to put a new audio system in my 1969 mustang, but i need the original dash harness and face plate, ive been to all the stores in my area ( sacramento mustang, vintage auto, ect) and i cant find anything, does anyone know a california based mustang part supplier i could call?

just look in the yellow pages

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whats the song it says sumwhere in it..like if i didnt tell u that i still love u i would still feel it wats the point it that? or sumthing...thanx

sorry honey! cant halpe ya! do you know the artist?

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I've got the hots for a guy named (lets just call him Bob) Bob. He seems like the perfect guy when we talk online, but when we meet in person he acts really shy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, and we're both 15 if that helps. Why do u think he acts so different online than in person, and do u think he's worth my time?

everybody (girl or guy) acts different online then they do in person!!!! it is also easier for people to say things online then it is in person so maybe he just feels shy to talk or he keeps thinking about thing yall have talked about and is kind of timid and feels he cant act himself....he could also be shy because he might have the hotts for you too!!!

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how do u french kiss i mean i am 15 and i still havent done that and all my friends have so i feel weird...please help me!!!!!!!!!

whatever you do dont feel weird or out of place...just cuz you havent frenched a guy doesnt mean anything...only that oyu havent found the right person yet....kissing is really easy!!! just kinda do what the guy does...move your tounge back and forth and run your fingers through his hair while you do....you'll get the hang of it in no time at all!

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Hey yall im 13 and i realy realy real realy like my bf and see this other girl said that she will give him head and his frend says that if i dont she definantly will and i was kinda thinking about doing it anyways but would that make me a major slut even no1 else new?
thanx confused...

hey honey! you are only a slut if you go around giving head or sleeping with lots of guys!!!! one person doesnt make you a slut at all

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how can u tell if a guy likes you or not?

he will always try to make you laugh!!!! and he will take up for you and always wanna be close to ya

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My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...

I rate!


Did I say I rate?!?!

I know that makes you wanna answer my question even more b/c I RATE!!

call the cops...don't be scared of him! he is just a human like you are and even if he does have money and can bail himself out...you can still get a restraining order and he cant come near you or he will go right back to jail. Go stay with a family member or something..if you have family far away or out of state then go there! Get a divorce lawyer and get as far away from him as possible..don't be scared!!!!!!

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

nooooo!!!!! girly thats illegal!!!!

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How can my cousin and I get this boy at a campsite to notice us? We're around the ages of 14*1/2 - 15...we are NOT SLUTTY...we are interested in just being ourselves...and we can be outgoing sometimes...but we aren't type of girls to just come out and talk to a guy. It's hard for us...last time at the campsite we sat around and watched this boy skateboard...

He seemed very sweet at times but he never approached us or anything...I think he liked the fact that him and his friend had an audience...

So if we were ever to see this boy again...(which would be HIGHLY doubtful)...what should we do? GIve him a note?? (would that be creepy?) is there anything anybody can do to help us?...

How can we get them to notice us?

Thanks. APpreciate it

go up and introduce yourself!!! they could be too shy to do anything themselves so you might have to go up to them...say you like how they skateboard or something and just strick up a convo!!! good luck honey!!!!

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when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first?

you both take turns...nobody has to go first really...just start! haha

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Can anybody give me some things or ideas for my profile... it is pretty blah right now and I need to spice it up... I will rate you!!

use lots of colors!!!! hehe color grabs peoples attention(bright colors espically)add a really cool picture of you in it...or a funny background.....do stuff that will draw people's attention

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