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Guys ~ How do you get them to notice you??
How can my cousin and I get this boy at a campsite to notice us? We're around the ages of 14*1/2 - 15...we are NOT SLUTTY...we are interested in just being ourselves...and we can be outgoing sometimes...but we aren't type of girls to just come out and talk to a guy. It's hard for us...last time at the campsite we sat around and watched this boy skateboard...
He seemed very sweet at times but he never approached us or anything...I think he liked the fact that him and his friend had an audience...
So if we were ever to see this boy again...(which would be HIGHLY doubtful)...what should we do? GIve him a note?? (would that be creepy?) is there anything anybody can do to help us?...
How can we get them to notice us?
Thanks. APpreciate it
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Well.. if you dont really know them... and are shy.. and they are shy.. NOTHING can happen.. if both people are afraid to communicate soo here is what i would do.. go up and kind of ask a silly ?'s or if he is skateboarding.. ask if he can teach u a trick or something.. or see if he can do a neat trick.. hehe.. im sure he will like that alot.. then there ya go an ICEBREAKER.. keep it up
KYLE
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go up and introduce yourself!!! they could be too shy to do anything themselves so you might have to go up to them...say you like how they skateboard or something and just strick up a convo!!! good luck honey!!!!
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OK if you like these boys all you have to do is just be yourself ... dont try to change who you are, and i think that they would kinda no if you like them if you watch them. dont give them a not, becaus ethat is kind of childish. you shuold just go up to them and start a conversation.
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Im just like you but last year i went to a 4 day concert and tons of guys were there sum approached me sum didnt then i was just like well i have nuthin to loose so i went up to this kid n was like u kno your really cute he smiled and said thakyou we ended up hangin out the whole week and we styll talk there was other guys i would approach and say your cute and theyd just look at me like i was smoking suttin but thats ok cuz i took a chance and if they dont want to talk to me there loss so next time you see a guy just say hi my names .... and start talkin if he has a sateboard ask him to teach you suttin try and forget that your shy around guys*if that makes sence lol*jus talk to him liked youd talk to our bestfrend make him have fun
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Aw, easy!! Guys can be stubborn headed sometimes .. don't get me wrong, us girls love the guys .. but lets face it, they're too dumb to see the obvious!! Lets see, if the guy hasn't approached you yet, it's either, one - he's not aware that you like him and is too afraid to come up to you, two - he's flat out not interested, or three - he hasn't noticed. So girl, get out there and go for it!! If he's not boyfriend material, well then, hey, you guys can always be friends!! =]
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Grab a skateboard and then fall off it. See if he asks you if you want help. Maybe he can give you some pointers?
If you aren't willing to make an ass of yourself and fall off a skateboard, well then, give him some glances and smile at him. Try to tone down any creepy smiles, that tends to frighten boys away. He might walk right up to you and start talking.
He might be shy also though, so if neither of you are willing to make some sort of move, well, ya, then I don't know throw a rock at him and hope for the best.
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When he is skateboarding ask him what he can do and if he can show you.. that should start it from there. So keep watching and applaud to be a nice joker about it all. I dont know if i would give him a note but that would be memorable so you could do that..-trix
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