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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

advice

iam 18 years old and a 15 year old asked me out and was stupid enough to say yes becouse i don't know weather i can go to jail or not if iam an 18 year old girl can i go to jail for dating a 15 year old boy?

yes you can. but thats if you get caught. like having sex, and his parents find out and doesnt like it, they can take you to court, or if they are just mean, and dont like you two dating at all. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 but my parents are fine about it. i guess it really matters with the parents, like if the cops catch you two doing stuff in the open, well then you will forsure get in trouble. but if he will be 16 soon, my boyfriend said something like "if you are 18 and over and the person you are dating is under that, they can be 2 years younger and your in the safe zone."
so if he'll be 16 soon, ask him to wait. hope i helped

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15/F
at gym, we had to run 5 laps and i got out of breath.... i like running but i can only run so much, so i figured i should build up my stamina. i asked my mom if i could be one of those morning joggers, but she said no even when i told her i would stay on our street! if i run in the backyard, i have to dodge dog poop, trees, and my trampoline, plus i have to run in circles. i don't like running in circles.

i can't go to the high school track field everyday, and i can't join a gym or whatever.
how can i run everyday?
i really should do something to stay in shape, and i want to try running a little bit.
but where?

how can i convince my mom to let me run just on our street?

it would be so cool 'cause i have an ipod and i could use my moms athletic shoes.

what do i do

maybe just not in the morning, after school maybe, and if you have a dog, then take the dog with you. if youre dog knows how to walk on a leash, then it should be no problem running with them. but if not then maybe try a couple of times with them. but yea, ask her why not after school. hope i helped

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I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, and we have had our first fight. I had asked him to come to a friend's party with me, which he refused to do, because he didn't want to. It's been 5 days and I have not heard from him. Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me? What should I do?

call him, if he didnt want to go, then it should of stoped there, you cant force anyone to go somewhere that they dont want to to go. maybe even say sorry. hope i helped

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i want whiter teeth without going to the dentist and
getting it done. like i want a toothpaste that whitens
teeth. any advice?

the crest things help a lot. their about 20$ and you use them twice a day for 30 mins. you will notcie a change the second day. hope i helped

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okay so i was on the sims 2 site to download lots
and i saved them i just didn't know where to, so i took a wild guess and saved them in the EA GAMES/SIMS 2/ lotcatalog file. would that make sense? because they didn't show up on the game.

so my question, what folder do i save it in?

um.. i just save them in a place i know where i can find them. so if you saved them there, you have to go there, and click on them again, then do the real download. uhm.. if you still need help, just message me and ill give you my aol name and like ill talk to you while you do it, if you wanna do that... hope i helped

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I would like to know if a straight people read or watch homosexual stories. is it because they might be gay ect. Or support them?

i have no clue where to put this qeastion in what category. so sorry

im straight.. lol. and i watch those kind of movies and books. see, i dont support, or im not against it. i think of it as, you cant help who you fall in love with. but yea i watch them..

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okay well i have this crush on this kid in my class- at least i think i do. i dunno if i really like him sometimes i really feel like i like him but other times i feel like we are just friends. but i think i might just be pushing this thought that i like him out of my mind because i am scared because i do not know what to do if i like him or how to let him know (i dont want to let him know). last time i had a crush was when i was 7 in first grade i am now 14 so i am new to this and i dont ever really get this feeling.What should i do? should i just give up?

NEVER give up!.. maybe just try flirting with him a little bit.. like telling him he looks nice, and if he does smell good, then tell him.. haha.. maybe ask him to hang out sometime.. like dont do the hang out thing first, cause will just be weird, so start off with the you look nice and stuff like that, and maybe in a week, ask him to hang out!.. hope i helped

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ok , i am going on a cruise in about 15 days .. i am supposed to have my period the day it starts ... is there anything i could do so i can go swimming .. aside from wearing a tampon?

hmm.. well mny sister told me when i first started mine, cause i asked about getting a bath.lol.. she said it stops for awhile when your in water. so i tink you can go swimming for a little bit. maybe 20 mins?.. and wear a liner, so when you get out and going to your room, it wont get all over you. then wait a bit, then do it again. just dont wear a regular pad, those will float. lol. good luck hope i helped

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I am going to be going to college for fashion and styles what do I need to look forward to to get there and to be ready for it.

i say just start to make your own cloths. like instead of buying jeans with holes, make them yourself. make your own spring dresses. start just putting differnt kind of clothing/styles together to see what it looks like. and if your friends need some kind of clothing made, tell them youll try to do it. try to get into differnt classes now, you might have to pay for it, but that would help a lot! hope i helped

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i cant see your pictures?

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my 3 year anniversary with my bf kyle is coming up very soon. i want to do something special and non sexual. im only 17 and want to remain a virgin. he isn't but waits for me. i just don't know what to do for it, and what to give him. i was thinking about having sex, but i want to wait till we get married, or at least live together. but i was thinking about moving forward. we have only used our hands, but i was thinking about more than that but less than sex, it's hard for me to say it but... head. how do i do that and please him at that same time.

i never really gave it, but anything with your mouth will feel good.. lol.. i only licked my boyfriend and he liked it a lot. so im not much help. but if your to scared or just dont want to, licking makes him happy too.. lol.. sorry, but i tryed!!

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since febrary my knees been bothering me. when im walking for a while everytime i take a step it will crack. sometimes i dont even need to walk for it to crack, i can be sitting here and bending it and it will crack. once im walking for a while it will hurt a lot and sometimes it hurts so bad that id have to stop walking for a little while. another thing that hurts the most is when im sitting down for a while and im about ot get up to walk around but i cant put it stright because it hurts too much so id have to do it very slowly. i know theres nothing wrong with it because well my other knee dosnt do anything my right knee does, and its been hurting since febrary vacation. my mom called the doctor and they said just to put ice on it which iv been doig and it isint working. im getting sick of it, what can i do so it will get better.. im thinking of getting a knee brace because im going to florida and im gunna be walking around a lot and im positive it will hurt.

thanks and sorry this was long

now, this will hurt, esp. if something is wrong, but.. okay.. start to run, not speed walk, but run. and jump stop(make sure you bend your knees when you come down from your jump) and if you like fall, or it buckels, then it might have something to do with your ACL. but please message me again and tell me what happens after that!.. (i have more test you can do.. lol)) hope i helped!

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how do you make things like hairstyles and clothes for the sims 1 and 2? I remember visiting a site for both versions where they had things they made you could download to use for sims like hair and furniture.

i LOVE sims. lol..
but if you have the newer one, (the sims 2) and you did that register thing when you downloaded it, and you have a nickname and all that. then thats the only way you can download that kinda stuff. but the website is eagamereg.com(if you need to download it))
then if you dont need to and you have a name and stuff then go to http://thesims2.ea.com/about/console/index_ps2.php

thats for the sims2.. from there you can look at the other games. like nightlife and so on.. hope i helped

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hey i was wondering if anyone knows good r &b, rap hip hop pop punk country songs because i had over 1000 songs on my computer and they all go deleted so i was wondering if you guys can help me with this..thanks so much

R&B(some oldish)
must be nice-Lyfe jennings
Get Up-Ciara
Make me wanna sing you a love song-Missez
Bad Girl-Black Buddafly
Buy you a drink-T-Pain
Dont Matter-Akon
everytime the beat drops-Monica ft. dem franchise boys
Gallery-Mario Vazquez
Gimmi that-Chirs brown
i wanna know-Joe
I'm a flirt-R.Kelly
Ice Box-Omarion
Like a boy-Ciara
Sex in the kitchen-R.Kelly
Unappreciated-Cherish
Walk Away-Paula DeAnda
We Ride-Rihanna
((i have more if you want some))

Rap
Unfaithful-Rihanna
Wobble Wobble-504 Boys
2 Step-DJ Unk
A Couple Grand-Young Jock
Bad Bitch-Webbie
Dem Jeans-Chingy
Do Ya Bad-Young Joc
Errrybody Luv Me-Young Joc
Hear Me Coming-Young Joc
Honey Dip-Jim Jones
I dont like the look of it-da backwuds
its like clockwork-Juelz Santana
(( i have more))

Country((ill just give names, they all have wonderful songs))
Sugarland
Rascal Flatts

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ok so this year i am doing track and my friends talked me into it...i know i have "junk in the trunk" and my uniform doesn't fit so well tommorow i have a track meet and i dont want to look retarded in front of any1 plus i need to find sum spare shoes to run in b4 tomm. is there anything you can do to your clothes that will make them a little bit bigger for the next day!!! PLEASE HELP!!! -Delesha

put them on now. and like move your legs around. to make them loose.

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what are the pregnancy syntoms ? QUICK !

on your stomach, press down on where you wear your pants, and a little lower, without flexing, and if its pretty hard, (unless your really in shape) then it shouldnt be hard..

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ADDENDUM: About five minutes ago I asked my mom where are the summer pants (ones I didnt try on and showed her) that looks like Emmett Kelly pants (clown huge pants). She said; I hung them up in the den closet; I told her that the pants are like Emmett Kelly and she said; I know you told me that a lot please stop obsessing;. Her phone rang, she answered it and then came back to me and I said to her; I am only saying this because of the comment you made a couple of weeks ago; She said; that is your problem; I then said to her; well I like loose pants; And my mom said; Ok you like lose pants; SO MY QUESTION: Can I finally stop obsessing and accept the fact that she acknowledges I like loose pants? THIS WAS THE OLD QUESTION I ASKED BEFORE THE ADDENDUM:What I am afraid of is that because of the story below that every time I wear a pair of pants she is thinking that I lost weight and the pants that I am wearing are big,today I tried on 2 pairs of summer pants asked her what she thought as I tried each one on and she said the pants look fine. Am I overreacting and projecting what I think she will say.I am thin and A FEW DAYS AGO when I came home from work I changed into a tee-shirt but wore the same pants I wore to work. She asked me as I sat down to eat if I lost weight, and I said no, but this upset me. I said to her that she always tells me I look beautiful. She said you do look beautiful but your pants look bigger. And she told me that I am skinny enough. However, I feel as if she is telling me to gain weight and I look ugly - is this in my mind and am I overreacting. HELP" WHEN I ASKED MY FRIENDS THEY SAID THAT IF MY MOM WANTED ME TO GAIN WEIGHT SHE WOULD KEEP PESTERING ME TO EAT OR SAY YOU ARE NOT EATING ENOUGH AND SHE NEVER DOES THAT TO ME - SHE ALWAYS ASKS ME IS THAT THE RIGHT AMOUNT









go shoping with her and make her see the pants you pick out, the baggy ones, then go get tight shorts or whatever. then shell see what you like, and that you donthave an eating disorder. hope i helped

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hey-

i did somehting bad... accidental.. but bad (not like against the law bad but i tad gross and messaged up) and i lost all my friends and had to make new ones and swtiched schools, but my 'community' i guess you could call it is all linked somehow and everyone knows everyone! that measn that the word spread about me so fast that i could even blieve it! its been about 4-5 years later and people still talk bout it! and i feel so weird a stupid. like im popular at my new school i gess but when i look at people myspace i see that my 'old' friends are frieds with these really cool girls and i relize i cant be firends with them! and all the high school parties i cant go because im scard ppl will be mean or look at me or not be nice bc or wa i did ACCADENTLY 100 years ago! i dotn no wat to do! my mom doesnt get y im still hung up on it and my friends dont get it eiterh! its stupid i know but it keeps me up and idk what to do.

my friend did something last year, and people still talk about it. she lost her best friend. this is what she says..
"im happy that they make me the center of THEIR lives"
so when you hear something, just look the other way, and when they start to see that you dont care, and it doesnt bother you, then they will stop b/c you dont care anymore. hope i helped

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how far in could you go for fingering?

you really couldnt fit a fist up there.. haha.. this girl in my school, total slut, go fist by a guy, so yea, you just have to be really loose and all that.. but not everyone is like her =-p

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okay i ended my last period on feb 28 and i didnt get it the month of march, usually i get sore breast a week b4 i get it but i didnt get either of them, i've been having mild cramping. im worried about why i missed it. me and my bf never had sex. however on march 2nd and 9th he did finger me and i jacked him off and he cummed but after he cumed he washed his hands with soap and water. im really worried that im pregnant, right now i dont have sore breast nor tired or vomitting but i have been having cramping. is it really easy to get pregnant by fingering if cum was on his finger? and i didnt get my period. and i usually dont miss mine.
wats a first sign of being pregnant?

try pushing down on your stomach with your hands.. dont about where you would wear your pants, and just a little bit lower, but around there.. and if its hard, like real hard, dont flix, then there is a chance, thats just another way, unless your in shape, and have abs and all that, it shouldnt be really hard down there. hope i helped

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