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ADDENDUM: About five minutes ago I asked my mom where are the summer pants (ones I didnt try on and showed her) that looks like Emmett Kelly pants (clown huge pants). She said; I hung them up in the den closet; I told her that the pants are like Emmett Kelly and she said; I know you told me that a lot please stop obsessing;. Her phone rang, she answered it and then came back to me and I said to her; I am only saying this because of the comment you made a couple of weeks ago; She said; that is your problem; I then said to her; well I like loose pants; And my mom said; Ok you like lose pants; SO MY QUESTION: Can I finally stop obsessing and accept the fact that she acknowledges I like loose pants? THIS WAS THE OLD QUESTION I ASKED BEFORE THE ADDENDUM:What I am afraid of is that because of the story below that every time I wear a pair of pants she is thinking that I lost weight and the pants that I am wearing are big,today I tried on 2 pairs of summer pants asked her what she thought as I tried each one on and she said the pants look fine. Am I overreacting and projecting what I think she will say.I am thin and A FEW DAYS AGO when I came home from work I changed into a tee-shirt but wore the same pants I wore to work. She asked me as I sat down to eat if I lost weight, and I said no, but this upset me. I said to her that she always tells me I look beautiful. She said you do look beautiful but your pants look bigger. And she told me that I am skinny enough. However, I feel as if she is telling me to gain weight and I look ugly - is this in my mind and am I overreacting. HELP" WHEN I ASKED MY FRIENDS THEY SAID THAT IF MY MOM WANTED ME TO GAIN WEIGHT SHE WOULD KEEP PESTERING ME TO EAT OR SAY YOU ARE NOT EATING ENOUGH AND SHE NEVER DOES THAT TO ME - SHE ALWAYS ASKS ME IS THAT THE RIGHT AMOUNT
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I'm sorry if this seems rude, but I see your questions all the time and you really tend to freak out over nothing. Your mom didn't mean anything by what she said. Jesus Christ. Get some confidence and maybe every little thing people say about your weight won't piss you off. I'm sure you look fine, however you are. "However, I feel as if she is telling me to gain weight and I look ugly"- oh my God, if she wanted you to gain weight, don't you think she would say so? It is in your mind. You are overreacting. And as I notice about all the other tens of thousands of questions you ask, you (or your made-up third person aliases) overreact about a lot of things. Nobody actually cares about your weight, even if you are standing behind a partition/store counter/or wearing a parka. Chill out. Nobody likes to hang out with somebody who has a stick up their butt all the time. Hope I helped :)
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go shoping with her and make her see the pants you pick out, the baggy ones, then go get tight shorts or whatever. then shell see what you like, and that you donthave an eating disorder. hope i helped<3
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she probably thinks that you are anorexic because your pants are too big. don't make a big deal about it and whenever you eat just eat in front of her, problem solved.
i hope i helped!
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