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i did somehting bad... accidental.. but bad (not like against the law bad but i tad gross and messaged up) and i lost all my friends and had to make new ones and swtiched schools, but my 'community' i guess you could call it is all linked somehow and everyone knows everyone! that measn that the word spread about me so fast that i could even blieve it! its been about 4-5 years later and people still talk bout it! and i feel so weird a stupid. like im popular at my new school i gess but when i look at people myspace i see that my 'old' friends are frieds with these really cool girls and i relize i cant be firends with them! and all the high school parties i cant go because im scard ppl will be mean or look at me or not be nice bc or wa i did ACCADENTLY 100 years ago! i dotn no wat to do! my mom doesnt get y im still hung up on it and my friends dont get it eiterh! its stupid i know but it keeps me up and idk what to do.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
my friend did something last year, and people still talk about it. she lost her best friend. this is what she says..
"im happy that they make me the center of THEIR lives"
so when you hear something, just look the other way, and when they start to see that you dont care, and it doesnt bother you, then they will stop b/c you dont care anymore. hope i helped<3
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If people can't get over a simple mistake, then that just shows how immature & simpleminded they are. Why consume your time with people like that anyways?
If you've found new friends, then why dwell on the past? Yes, you made a mistake, and you realize it, so you're already more mature than you were then. If you can accept the mistakes you've made, then you're one step closer to getting what it takes to survive.
Go to the high school parties, & have fun. Don't worry about what people are gonna say to you. If they say anything, just brush it off because YOU know that you're BETTER than that. Don't let it get to you. If you do, it's gonna show that it still makes an impact on you, & they're just gonna do it more.
I've made a ton of mistakes in my life, & if people still remember, then they're lame. And if they say something to me about it, they're even lamer. I accept that I made mistakes, and I'm a better, more adult person because of them. I'm 16 years old & sometimes think as if I'm older. Not many kids can do that.
Also, who cares what people think of you? People are always gonna talk -- give them something to talk about. Whether it's something bad or good, you're in control of what happens & what people say. I don't care what people think of me, and it's only made me better. I live with no regrets. I do what I want, and if people have something to say, I let them. I could care less what they think of me & my actions.
As long as I'm happy -- that's all that matters. Just the same that as long as you're happy, then that's all that matters. Do what makes you happy, do what you love. Don't care what people say. Accept your mistakes, live with no regrets & laugh everything off. If you can do that, you can do anything. I promise you.
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Woah, those people are retarded; they must have no other lives.
Ok, the thing is, you can`t just keep transfering, because then you are just running away from your problems.
Don`t be afraid to go places!
That`s a HORRiBLE reason to isolate yourself; if YOU honestly know it wasn`t your fault & you didn`t mean to then that is call that matters.
ALSO, for the nexxt person to give you a dirty look or whatever, go up to `em & be like;
What do you want from me?
& BE CONFiDENT!!
That`s all.
Don`t let these people take you don!
& Who CARES if you can`t be friends with some people? first of all, you CAN, and second of all, you can make such cooler friends from other places.
You should travel[;
But yeah!
Join a club or something because it sounds to me that YOU are the one isolating yourself and punishing yourself.
<3L.
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