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3 year anniversary
my 3 year anniversary with my bf kyle is coming up very soon. i want to do something special and non sexual. im only 17 and want to remain a virgin. he isn't but waits for me. i just don't know what to do for it, and what to give him. i was thinking about having sex, but i want to wait till we get married, or at least live together. but i was thinking about moving forward. we have only used our hands, but i was thinking about more than that but less than sex, it's hard for me to say it but... head. how do i do that and please him at that same time.
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First of all, using your hands or even oral, is all sex-- just not intercourse.
Don't give into the whim of a 3 year anniversary to have sex now. That's ridiculous.
It's not up to you to "please" him just because it's "your" anniversary. It's up to him too.
What would please both of you on a joint 3 year anniversary? Something special for both? And why not let him come up with the idea.
Why doesn't he get resevations at a romatic resturant that you always wanted to go to but never could afford? Why hasn't he planned something special in advance himself already?
Why all put on your shoulders?
I say leave it up to him-- then get mad when he doesn't plan anything at all. He'll learn next time.
Sex is for marriage and you've held on this long so it's not an option. Any dude that would take that as a 3 year anniversary gift is a excuse me, a jerk.
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You don't need to give your virginity as an anniversary present. There are plenty of other things that'll make him happy without going against your beliefs & morals. Make him dinner, go somewhere that means something to both of you (maybe the first place you went on a date, or the first place you met), get him something with a little thought into it. & if you want to try something sexual, without having sex, try a lapdance or a full body massage. :)
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If you want to make your boyfriend happy, but are not ready to do anything sexual, then don't. Just make him a nice dinner & throw a scrapbook of you & him together. He'd like that. He'd like sex more, but if you're not ready, don't go through with it because you'll more than likely regret it.
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I understand you want to make him happy, but if you want to wait then you should wait. And if he doesn't like you for standing up for your beliefs, then he isn't the right guy for you. I'm sorry if that sound brutal, but if you don't want to do something then you shouldn't do it. He should be happy that you tell him your opinion. I hope this helps.
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i never really gave it, but anything with your mouth will feel good.. lol.. i only licked my boyfriend and he liked it a lot. so im not much help. but if your to scared or just dont want to, licking makes him happy too.. lol.. sorry, but i tryed!!<3
happy 3 years!!
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