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I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????



* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too

Just tell him that you made the wrong mistake of going out with him since you thought you liked him but now you don't. Break up with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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And its causing my legs to hurt in pain. Ive been exerising for two days at the same place. I cant walk properly without having some kind of balance, and I've crawled most of the time even up the stairs. My mom thinks I'm faking it just because I dont want to go exerising again. I dont, because the pain will only get worse. Is doing the same exerise helping me or hurting me?
I'm 15, and female.

The reason why your legs are hurting is because you were probably out of shape and never exercisesd for a long time so it's working. The pain will go away once you get used to it. Just tell your mom to let you not exercise as much. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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how do you delete aim screen names? i want to delete my old sn and get a new! how would i go about doing this?! i rate! :)

Well you really can't actually delete your screen name but you can delete it from your computer. When the AIM thing that pops up before you sign on where it has all the screen names, scroll to the one you want to delete and press the "delete" button and then press "yes" and then your screen name is deleted. After that, you can click on "Get a screen name" on that window and you can make your new one! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I have chlostrophobia and my parents don't really know. Is this something i should ask my doctor about or is it just something normal?
Plz help. I keep having moments where i can't breath.

You should tell your parents because there is some medication that will help you not have so many moment where you can't breathe. Also, your doctor will just put it on your medical record so your parents will know. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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my best friend likes me and he asked me if i want to go out.What should i say?

Well if you like him, then go out with him but remember, it may affect your friendship with him. If you don't like him, then just tell him that you don't want to go out with him because it may ruin your friendship with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i was looking at a list of sumone elses favorites that made me a favorite... and i click on my name n i got this messege "No column was found with the specified username, or there was an error in the username specified. If you'd like this name for yourself, register at Advicenators.com and start your own free advice column! " what does that mean?

There username probably has spaces in it so that's why you couldn't get to their column. Just copy their name and then paste it in the link. Remember to add the spaces too! That's what it means, don't worry. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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ive been dating this guy for about 2 weeks, and weve gotten really close during the winter break. we went to a movie, and all he did was hold my hand. i really like him, and hes said that he really likes me to. i want to take out relationship to the next level, but how should i tell him?

Just tell him "I think we should take our relationship to the next level." You could also show him too. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?!

Sweetie, just IM him. How are you going to embarrass yourself online? Just IM him and say "Hey, it's (your name), what's up" There's nothing embarrassing about that. Besides if you do think you said something out of the ordinary, just tell him you sent him the wrong IM or something. Think before you type something. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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What is there to do when you're bored? I know I've got stuff to do it's just that I don't want to do any of it. Hehe.
If anyone has any ideas tell me. Oh yeah, Is it possible to go crazy from boredom?

You could clean your room, watch TV or a movie, go out somewhere, exercise, go on the internet, read, write, do your homework, listen to music, dance, have a sleep over, and so many other things. No, it isn't possible to go crazy from boredom, you just think you do. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I am new to the finering thing, and I was wondering if there is neway or nething I can do to increase the pleasure for her.

Try fingering her with more than one finger? I don't know just ask her I guess.
-Karen

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Ok. Well There's 3 Boys that i really like, the one i like the most, has a girlfriend, so i guess he doesn't count. But i still really like him, i also like 2 other guys, and the one asked me out, and i like him, but not as much as the one with the girlfriend, but he has a girlfriend, so i dont know if i'll ever get him, and the other dude, i just found out likes me. What should i do ? Sorry if this post is kindah confusing. ! *`' .

From what I have read, you are saying that guy numbers 1 and 2 have a girlfriend and not guy number 3 likes you? Why don't you go out with this guy and just give him a chance. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high.

You just have to ignore all their opinions about your boyfriend. They can't change the way you love this guy. Just tell these people to mind their own business because they aren't the ones going out with him! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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okay i've been telling this guy i like him and he's been showing interest! one of my good friend's says he likes me because well she talked to him! and everyone in my class is telling me that he likes me! we are talking more and i aam getting to know him better! any ideas for him and i to move forward and maybe move into a relationship?! people say i flirt like crazy and especially him! what else can i do?!

Start calling him and making plans with him! That will show him that you're interested in him! When you think it's the right time, just ask him out! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do?

Try to buy or borrow a camera or voice recorder so when he starts harassing you, you can record the voices or the actual harassing being done to you by him. You really do have to tell your friends or family. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I know there is a site for those icons that are like twice the size of the little ones. Could someone please tell me site for them? thanks :)
p.s if you don't know wut I am talking about here is an example of one : http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v351/lilbrunette227886/9930-1100487991-41981d3746739.gif

thanks again xo0x

You're talking about journal icons right? Well go to Xanga.com and search for icons. Also, if you got to AOL Hometown and search for "cute journal icons," so many pages come up. There really isn't a site of them, people just make and collect them. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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what are signs that you are pregnant?

When you get morning sickness (throwing up, having a fever, etc.), missing your period, having different mood swings, gaining weight, eating more than you usually do, and so many others. Just go to Google and type in "Signs of Pregnancy" in the search and a lot of pages will come up. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Is there anything i can do for a sore tailbone? Plz Help!

The only thing you can do is to just ice it and just rest on something comfortable. You can also take some pain relievers. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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If you have sex with a condom inside out, do you think that you could get pregnant? and has n e one here ever had sex with an inside out condom and gotten pregnant? I would love the help. :)

I don't think it would matter if the condom with inside out or wore normal. It still holds the sperm so you won't get pregnant unless the guy actually wore the condom inside out right after you had sex and then did it again. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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16/f
well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do?

Just tell this guy that you don't like him and that you like his cousin. Just tell him that since you've known him for so long, that you can't love him as a "boyfriend" but only as a friend. Try to hang with his cousin more. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
and
p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!!

Sweetie, you don't deserve to be bossed around and to be a slave to this girl. She is definitely using you and I think you should tell your parents the truth about the whole stealing thing, even if it does get your friend in trouble. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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