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I used to cut. Not going to go into details, I used to cut and once I thought I went too deep. I've since realized how stupid and dangerous I was being. However, fo whatever reason, I feel the need to do so again. I don't want to, but I'm tempted and I don't know why. Can anyone please help? Please, no jack asses sayin crap about me bein a stupid "emo" and no bad mouthing me just because of something I used to do

You're weak. You'll probably cut again. If you were weak enough to do it once, and you're near that now, its going to happen again.

You should realise you're weak, and realise there are other things.

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I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :(

He doesn't care about you. Sure, you should feel bad. You just need to know, he's useless if he would treat you like that.

I recommend a firm punch to his face next time you see him.

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I want to lose weight and I was reading somewhere that you just need to burn more calories than you take in for the day. Is that true? So if I eat, let's say, 400 cals a day and try to burn that much or more w/ exercise, will I lose weight?

Diets are for lazy people. They'll make you paranoid. If you want to examine the back of labels on food for the rest of your life, sure, do a diet.

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i found this guy on the internet.. and we met up and i like him.. ALOT! i mean hes sweet nice cute everything i want in a guy.. but i dont know if hes into me.. he says that he wants to see me again and really soon.. and everything but does he like me? I DONT KNOW BUT I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!

We dont know if he likes you either. We've never met nor talked to him. We're just as clueless as you are.

You should seriously think about what you've done though. Internet hookups make women like you end up dead in a ditch and raped.

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OKay, so one thursday night I went over to this guy (muh friend) house wit muh friend and we all drank wit his friends nd smoked nd shit and well me and Ewell like eachother and I dunno..he wants to be wit me but Im juss scared b/c of past relationships..so we ended up havin sex and I was real scared b/c I was drunk as fuck and at first didnt realize shit and then I realized he NEVER used a condom but I know he pulled out and everything and he never said anything went wrong and HE WOULD IF HE DID soo yeah.. So then on the next night (Friday) muh ex (friend) picked me and muh friend up and dropped her off and I went back wit him to his house and we had sex..Now I might sound like a HOE but believe me IM NOT..I juss lost muh virginity this year and it was from the one guy I went wit Friday night..I loved him and still do nd shit soo yeah..but now when we get together we do hookup soo I dunno..I cant lt go..The other guy..Man I didnt even wanna have sex wit him but I was drunk and people do stupid shit.. I feel so fuckin down about it but I cant change it now..now when I chill wit him Im afraid to even kiss him b.c I don t want it to lead to sex..and he doesnt have a prob wit that soo yeahh.. but anyways back to muh whole point..well I knew I was gonna be gettin muh period between the thurs*Saturday.. Saturday I got muh period.. Now here it is aug 1 and I had a normal period and everything and it ended nd shit but now I feel sick (not in the morning) or im not hungry sometimes but I eat and I dunno..I feel bloated but I already had muh period..Is it possiable to be pregnant if I already got muh period after those 2 nights wit those guys? Could I have gottin muh period still and now that its over could I be pregnant? im scared as hell im only 16 and I dunno..im scared as fuck and need advice...QUICKKKKKK!!! Thanks

Thats why you dont do drugs. Let that be a lesson to you. You'd think people would learn from others mistakes.

Just who are you trying to convince with all this "i'm not a hoe" stuff? Listen to yourself! You're arguing with yourself. Trying to tell yourself. Trying to tell yourself I am not a hoe.

I am not pregnant.

He pulled out.

He wouldnt lie.

You should be scared. You need to think.

Quit asking us for help.

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I have a 10 gallon tank and I have 6 fish. Little ones. I know that the perfect temperature to have in the tank is 74/76 degrees. Right now, since it's so hot where I am, it's up to 80. I've tried everything to get the temperature to go down to normal, icecubes, removing warm water and adding cold. The temperature will go down for a few minutes then it just shoots right back up! I have two questions: 1) Does anyone have any other ideas on keeping the tank cool other than what I've been trying? and 2) Is 80 degrees DANGEROUSLY high for my fish? They are regular fresh water tropical fish. I have 2 Neon Tetras, an Angelfish, a Honey Gourami and 2 Zebra Danios, if that helps any. Thanks in advance!

Its amazing how much time people will waste on small insignificant items. Hours. Countless hours.

You're a slave to these fish. For a couple mintues to an hour a day. You're thier slave. They rule you.

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HEY DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE TO GET CUTE (PREPPY) ClOTHES FOR THE FIRST DAY OF SCHOOl? MY BUDGET FOR AN OUTFIT IS lIKE $30. CAN SOMEONE HElP PlEASE? I TYPICAllY lIKE STORES lIKE BEBE, HOllISTER, FOREVER 21, CHARlOTTE RUSSE, WEATHER VANE, ETC. BUT I CAN`T SEEM TO FIND ANYTHING IN ANY OF THOSE STORES THAT FITS MY BUDGET! AND DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY IDEAS ON CUTE NEW ORIGINAl STYlES TO WEAR? MAYBE SOMETHING THAT JUST WENT IN STYlE? THANKS

Do you know that those clothes mean nothing? Why do you HAVE to follow a certain style? Why dont you wear what you'd like. If certain pants look cool buy them. Even if they dont go with your fake image you're trying to fit into. Why be like everyone else?


Why are you trying to follow style? You may buy clothes and they'll be cool for a month. Enjoy the 30 dollars well spent I guess.

You're gullible. Admit it. You're buying what you're being told to buy. Do you know this? Do you realise this?

How about this, make your own style. Follow it. Stand out a little, or are you too afraid? Is that why you're buying these clothes? To fit in?

Quit wasting your money. Quit being a sucker.

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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?

*melissa 15

In a matter of time this decision you make will be forgotten. Possibly within a week of you doing it.

Why would she get mad? He'd still be going out with her and you'd sit in lust. She has no reason to be mad. You should be mad you weren't fast enough to go out with this person.

Just remember what you decide to do wont matter within a year.

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What are some websites for stores that sell clothes that aren't preppy, but aren't gothic. somewhere in between?
not hot topic, pac sun, tillys, or torrid.
thanks

Do you think anyone cares what you wear besides yourself? Sure, to a point they do. They view your clothes as you. What you wear is who you are.

If you wore rags. You're someone no one wants to talk to.

If you wore expensive clothes. You're somebody everyone thinks is snobby.

If you wore abercrombie. You're someone everyone thinks is just trying to fit in with the rest of the crowd.

If you wore black on black. You're someone who everyone thinks smokes pot and likes Marilyn Manson.

After that no one cares. They dont care about your personality. Maybe your 15 friends do. The people who dont know you dont care about you.

You'll go on to waste a lot of money on these over priced clothes and get older and find out you could have spent it on having fun. Going to a movie, buying a game. Not spending it on clothes to create a fake image.

You're not what you wear. Quit following a certain fashion style. You're buying what you're being told to buy. You're a sucker.

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My cousin called again last night and she said her and her brother 'hit it on'. They fucked each other last night (her brother is 1 year older and he downloads porn, I found out...so he wouldn't care who he faucked). She thought it felt so good...she's willing to fauck someone for REAL...is that okay? I mean, after being so horny, you WANT to be faucked? Is that normal?

Its normal. What is not normal is siblings doing that.

Its normal to want to, but for two of the same family....

You may want to report this to the parents if this gets out of hand.

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i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks

He's selfish. Ditch him.

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I was with this guy Caleb for about 5 months then right before we hit 6 months... he dumps me and says he don't know why. I hooked up with another guy named Derik a week later and we've been together a month but Caleb is on my mind 24/7. A few weeks ago me and Derik had sex. I did it to prove to Caleb I wasnt scared and I told him if he gave me another chance I could prove I loved him but all he said was I still love you and want you back but its complicated then I never heard from him again cz his phone is off. I didnt tell him what I did but now I dont know what to do and how to get over Caleb or get him back and what to do with Derik. Any advice? I'm willing to listen .

You're with Derik. You have no business with Caleb.

It didn't work the first time, it wont work the second.

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I really like this guy and we met at work. We became close and we flirted a lot and emailed each other. I told him that I liked him and he was cool with it and said he just wanted to be friends. He has always kept his word. He started to act funny though and I don't know how to percieve it. He called me babe and turned around to see the expression I had on my face and had a great big grin on his face. When he told me he was getting another job I was happy for him as I think he deserves the best. Gave me a pix of himself that he took at 1am, and emailed me. Since then I haven't heard from him.Should I give up or give more time? F-40's

You could give up. Or you could email him. From the sound of it, you should give up though. He's probably bored of you. Or found someone else.

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I went away with my friend a couple of weeks ago, and she was being a jerk, and now I don't really wanna be her friend anymore, what do I do?

You've already answered your question. Now do it.

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I really think my life is worthless. I'm nothing special and i feel like such a waste. The only person who i can talk to, who keeps me going, who i have spent 3 years of my life being dedicated to, and loving .. could care less about me. I

f i can't have him i don't want any body else. I feel no point in living. I truely love him and he's the only reason i get up in the morning. I feel like just ending my life now, but i could no way do it, and i would never. This sounds immature and child-ish. But it's not. My feelings will never change.

What can i do to make everything better?

To be honest with you. You cant. You've come to realise the truth.

If you died right now, do you know not even .1 percent of the world would care?

To be honest; the guy you love will soon dump you. Its great you've had a relationship for 3 years, he is now bored of you. You've already admitted that.

I'm sure now you've realised when you grow up you'll be working some crap job. You wont be a million dollar anything. You wont be a movie star. You wont be a rock star. You wont invent something. You'll sit at a desk for hours a day and wonder why you work there.

We're all part of the same heap of trash. We're nothing.

You need to stop caring. Let it all go. Its your life; you only have one of them. Quit giving to others, be selfish. Its your life, not theirs. Dont care about what goes on around you. Do what you want. Keep your close ones happy and dont worry about anything.

It all doesn't matter in the end. You wont save the world. You wont make an impact on a mass amount of people. No one cares what you do. Who you are. Or what you can do.

Know this.

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13/f does anyone know the amount of calories someone who is trying to lose alot of weight is supposed to take in a day. i know for the average teenager it's like 1000-2000.xoxo

Diets make people paranoid. Constantly checking the back of every box they see. Cant have this, cant have that. Screw diets.

Quit being lazy; go outside, run, go to a gym.

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Anyone know of any good websites???

gamernode.com

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ok.. so i want to get a new pet.. but i cant decide what to get. i wanted a snake but my mommy said no. And now im thinking of maybe a turtle.. any sugestions?.. Ok here are the rules.. No rodents (moms rule) No cats.. (blech i hate them) No Snake (:-() No dogs (already have the best one ever) and no birds (they suck) oo ya and no fish (boooring!)
Thanks for your suggestions!
Oh.. and no rocks either.. i already have one :-)

Just know any pet you buy will die long before you. Save the pain. Dont buy anything.

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Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?

Thanks xo0ox

Ignore it and you'll regret it. She'll get your guy and you'll sit there watching her date him. Do something about it and you'll still regret it. She'll stop being your friend and you can watch her talk behind your back.

Both ways end up bad for you. Its more a decision of who you want to remain with longer.

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hey alright to cut to the choice i really like this one kid that i meet at my work (community center job) and he seems kinda of shy and nervous but in front of his friends he isnt that i no of. i havnt really talked to him but he loves to play pool and so do i he cute funny and i mean i dont really no his personality to well but everytime i see him its likes i get all werid and i mean i like him alot and stuff or something like i start to get shy because i havnt talked to him or anything well i am to scared to go talk to him what do i do?? please help me sorry soo long

You do nothing then. Since you're too scared you can watch the realtionship you have with him now dwindle into nothingness. Then you can look back on this great tradgedy and remember you did nothing to get a realtionship going with him.

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