Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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I am going to have someone live here and i dont have room for another bed in my room. Im 15 female and so is she and i dont like regular bunk beds. My problem is that futon bunk beds, when the futon part is used as a regular bed, theres a part in the middle that is painful to sleep on. And i really wanted a futon bunk bed becuase it seemed like the perfect thing to use becuase i need one full sized bed for my full-sized very expensive comforter. What should i do? People with experience are very much helpful too! Thanks!!!!!! (link)
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you could try getting a mattress topper like foam toppers just to add more padding between the bed and u. or put a piece of ply wood under ur bed but i'm not sure how well that will work
modelkate11
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Hi guys,
My dad was wanting me to ask my friends something, so I figured I would ask everyone on here. If he gets rid of the AOL account we have, he's wanting to know if I will still have my Aim, and actually be able to go on it. He doesn't wanna have to pay for both AOL and sbc yahoo dsl. If someone actually knows about this, please let me know. ASAP. Thank you so much! (link)
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it won't delete it i have aim but not aol
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Hey everyone,
I want to create a calm atmosphere for my new room. What are some key elements? placement of furniture, and colors that can help me relax.
Oh and if anyone has any websites on stress busting you room I would appreciate it ! Thanks. (link)
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i like browns, black and beige for a color scheme throughout the room. try a zen theme where everything is balanced ex:two of the same table lamps on either side of the bed. if it'll fit in your room and your budget put in a chaise lounge chair with a dim lamp next to it.
hope this helps
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Does anyone know where I could find some comforters for a teenager? My moms been bugging me for so long about this and I've already seen MACYS.COM, JCPENNYS.COM AND SEARS.COM and i cant find anything that i like! Help please? (link)
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try PBTeen.com they have some cool stuff or Brylanehome.com
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I'm 17 years old and I weigh under 100 pounds. I don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. In fact I eat a lot, and I'm pretty healthy. I don't like feeling so skinny though and I want to know if anyone has the same problem and if you have any suggestions for me to gain some weight? I've always been so small and weighed so little and seriously, if I got to even just 100 pounds I would be so happy. Smallness is kind of genetic in my family but I want to gain! Help please. (link)
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i'm 14 and appx. 95 pounds. i get to a certain weight level and then i just stop gaining weight. i don't have a disorder either. i heard that peanut butter helps you gain weight. it's pretty gross to eat it without bread or something but i think i gained about three pounds off that thanks to other advicenators. if you just want to get to 100lbs then try working out cuz muscle weighs more than fat which you probably already know at age 17. also eat potatoes and pizza. and drink whole milk. i hope it helps i'm still trying to gain weight so let me know.
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okay I don't mind if I sound like an idiot. I need an answer.
My computer got a little screwed up, whether it was a virus or I did something either way I had to erase everything. Actually, it didn't do what it was supposed to do since everything is the same except for the fact that everything is huge. like my web browser, font and my all my icons are really big. I know there is a way to make them smaller but I haven't done it for so long I can't figure out how to do it. I'm sure its easy but i'll be damned if I can remember how to do it.
so yeah... anyone know what I'm talking about and care to help me out?
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right click on an empty(no icons) space on your screen and click on properties then click on appearance and toward the bottom of the pop up window it'll say font size and then you just say normal.
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ok i forget some part of my homework like EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it sucks so much! how can i remember all of my homework? i get punished all the time for it and it sucks because i loose half credit like every day in some subjects but im such a good student. please help! (link)
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our school has these things called trackers and they're like little planning books and you put your homework in but you can just go to an office supply store and buy one. it helps a lot.
modelkate11
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I am having heartburn today - I think from my garlicly dinner last night. Any quick remedies I could use here at my office. I am stuck at work. (link)
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this won't help you right now but when you're out go to the grocery store and buy apple cider vinigar. you only need like two teaspoons of it or a shot glass full but let me warn you this stuff is really tangy and the smell will make your mouth water. but it works better than any medication. my dad uses it in case you wanted to know how a 13year old knows this
modelkate11
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i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc. (link)
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1st-kissing
2nd-making out
3rd-oral sex and all physical contact that's not actually sex
home-sex
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I have a friend, well he's actually a sisters friend, but I would also consider him my friend and I'm sure he would do the same. He's in 9th grade and I'm in 10th. One day while we were out we were on the topic of God and he said he didnt believe in God. He says he thinks Jesus existed but that he was just a normal guy. He said if God existed then he wouldn't have diabetes.
Now I want to educate him about God and help him accept him into his life. I feel it is my duty as a Christian to guide him to a better life with God, because you are supposed to help the people who don't believe. He is a really sweet boy, and I told him that I was going to teach him and he said "you can try but it won't happen" so if he said I could try I'm going to make every effort too!
My problem is I don't know how to approach it. How should I start off with this teaching and showing? I've considered asking my pastor but I decided to come here first. Thanks for any help! (link)
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i understand your duties as a Christian and i respect that greatly but if someone has a reason not to believe in God then don't force him. he is probably the type of person who needs proof in order to believe in something.
like i said i truly and totally respect your religion although i am not a christian myself. i just don't think you can force something so large on someone.
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hey, whats a good name for a female golden retriever? my family is getting a puppy but we need to give her a good name... any ideas?
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Lucy
Lacy
Molly
Rylie
Pixie
Dakota
Holly?
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Girls: I have used tampons before of course, but never at school. I just started using them over the summer. We have not even 2 mins to go to the bathroom at school, and I'm worried when I'm in the bathroom changing a tampon, some girl will walk in and see me underneath the stall with one leg up. What should I do, any tips? I can flush mine, but what do I do with the applicator and wrapper? The garbage is right by the door, away from stalls. What can I do?? (link)
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i know everyone has said don't be embarassed but the truth is it is embarassing. soooo when you're coming out of the stall grab some toilet paper and tightly clench your fist with the tampon in it. pretend you're blowing your nose with the toilet paper and just throw everything away.
hope this works
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modelkate11
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Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful? (link)
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just tell him it hurts. most likely he won't want to hurt you, just pleasure you so be honest. it depends on how big your body is. if you're a small person it's going to hurt but if your not it normally doesn't hope i helped.
be safe
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modelkate11
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okay so i have to wake up at 6 tomorrow for school because my bus comes around 630.. well what are some good suggestions so that i wont be so sleepy in the morning.. like should i eat an apple before i go to school to keep me up? (link)
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listen to some music for about an hour.
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ok.. like.. i have a boyfriend and all. we have not kissed yet.. but he keeps on telling me online that he wants to... so when i go on the dates with him im always nervous and cautious and stuff. i mean i never kissed anyone before. and i don't now how to do it .. like i dun want to just like stay there frozen... like.. when you normally get your first kiss like even if you don't know how like do you just do it.. or.. cuz i am like really nervous and stuff...
im so confused
Rissa
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just go with the flow. don't make out with him or anything just keep it short and sweet.
once your lips touch it's like a natural instinct.
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I just started Junior High, (Catholic school) and I know everyone. But the thing is, I can't stand all the homework they give us. Today was my second day, and they gave us homework in at least half of our subjects. It took me 3 hrs just to do it! And between cheerleading for 2 hrs after school, and the homework. i just can't take it! And I try to stay focused, because my main goal is the honor roll this year-but in most of my classes, i have to sit next or across from all the girls I HATE. They are such bitches. What should I do? Any tips? If anyone wants to screw around with their answer, it will be an automatic 1. (link)
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sorry but get used to it because in high school you spend about six hours on homework and you get it in every subject. after you get home from cheerleading spend only about 45 minutes for chill time watching tv or something like that and then do your homework. maybe your teachers will let you switch seats in class too. if you ask to be in front then they'll know you're trying.
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Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are
A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven
Thanks for your answers ladies >.> (link)
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c or e
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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
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haha. okay i'm only laughing cuz i remember my first thong experience.
ok well me and my mom were in the mall and we were in the underwear section and me and my mom always joke about wearing thongs and stuff. i had wanted one but was too afraid to ask. but when we were at the mall she just said "well are you going to pick one out or what?" so i did and we got it but she doesn't remember that i have it. i think she was drunk when we went shopping that day but anyway. my dad does the laundry so i always wash it on my own and wrap it up in a towel and shove it under my bed. so yeah just get one with your friends or sometime when you're at the mall with your mom and if she lets you go to a different store without her then go buy one and hide it in another bag or something. just go to JC Penney or a store like that. don't go to Victoria's Secret cuz if your mom does find it then she'll really think your doing stuff with it even though it's just underwear.
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When I was little I was abused by both my sister and my dad. As I got older it stopped and the yelling died down a little but its still there. Lately my dad and my sister have been yelling more and tonight I was sitting in my room and heard things being thrown and everything. Im not sure what was going on but I new my dad and sister were fighting and probly hurting eachother and I was scared out of my mind. I wanted to jump out of my window and run I was so scared. Im sitting here shaking afraid to leave my room and I don`t know what to do. Please help meh!
14/f
Love maddie (link)
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i know this answer is kinda late but i really hope it still helps.
call your grandma or an aunt or someone and ask them to pick you up because you need to get out of there. even if you don't want to if you cry then they'll realize how serious you are. if you don't have any relatives nearby call a friend with generous parents who will let you stay with them. if all else fails call police.
any other help you can leave in the inbox.
i hope it gets better for you. you sound like a sweet person.
modelkate11
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My sister is coming to visit me from out of town. She has 2 kids ages 1 and 3. I don't have kids of my own and am a single guy, which means I know nothing about having little kids around the house. Can someone maybe give me some tips on what I might need to do to childproof my house before they get here? I don't want my nephews getting hurt! (link)
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buy outlet covers for electrical outlets. if you have area rugs that move a lot buy some of that rubber rugs. they go under the rug so they can't trip on them. make sure all of you electrical wires are covered in some way. you might want to buy a gate or two to keep kids out of the kitchen when you cook or if you have stairs.
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