Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
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Alrighty... My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. And we have a wonderful relationship. A wonderful, sex free relationship. Just because I want to wait until I'm married. And I'm pretty stuck on it. But since we're going to be sophmores in high school. Everyone gives him shit about it. When people give me shit I'm just like ahhh lol whatever... I dont care. But see, He doesn't tell me all the time that people give him shit about being a virgin. This all came up when one of my guy friends was all like "dude, you've been in a relationship for 2 years and you're still a virgin? You are wooped... blah blah blah" And he tells me not to worry about it... But I kinda wonder how he's feeling and if there's anyway I could do something about it. I mean yes, we are sexual... But I don't plan on having sex any time soon... Thanks for your time :) (link)
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Dont worry about what everyone says. if u don't want to have sex... dont let it get to ya that ppl think thats wrong. its completely your choice. i think its GREAT that u r waiting. i wish i would have.. but i cant now. just stick to your values and dont listen to all the bullshit ppl give u
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Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do? (link)
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Just tell him u really love him. If hes in a relationship right now.. u might just talk to him in private about it. Make sure there arent a buncha ppl around that might tell his current GF and get him mad at u. Just talk to him... its the best thing to do.
If u need anymore help.. drop one in the inbox!!
Hope I helped!
**Jeanine** AIM- xoxjeaninexox08
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this past week i went on vaca with my friends and 2 of our guy friends happened to be staying in the same town as us. we hung out with them like every night. one of the guys there was the guy i liked(lets call him jon). one night down at the beach we were all laying on a blanket and i was laying next to jon and after like 15 minutes he was like "can i put my arm around you?"..so obv. i said yes. the next night after walking around the beach we all layed down on the blanket again and me and jon ended up next to each other and for a while i was just laying on his arm cuz it was well...just there. after a while my friend reached over and put his hand on mine..well a few minutes later we ended up just cuddling and holding each other and the rest of our friends left. the night was great but the problem is i dont think he kjnows i like him A LOT and i know he doesnt like me...i like him so much and i doubt that night meant anything to him and now im just confused and dont know what to do (link)
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Just tell him how u feel. It will make things easier. Then u can find out if he likes u too... from there... its all fate. LOL
If u need anymore help.. drop one in the inbox!!
Hope I helped!
**Jeanine** AIM- xoxjeaninexox08
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hey i need help really quickly.. i have a digital camera but i dont know how to get the pic and like put it on the computer from the camera!?! if anyone knew that would be GREAT! xoxo!! (link)
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the camera shoulda came with some software that u have to load onto the computer. After u get that installed... look to see if the camera came with a cord to connect it to the computer. Take that and hook it up to the computer and to the camera.. u might have to open the program u just installed or it might open when u hook up the camera. It just depends on what kind of camera it is.
If u need anymore help.. drop one in the inbox!!
Hope I helped!
**Jeanine** AIM- xoxjeaninexox08
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I moved to Tennessee about a month and a half ago from West Virginia,and I am still in love with this boy in West Virginia.He tells me he still thinks about me all the time,but he also talks to this other girl,and I don't know what is going on in his head,and we have been out twice,but had some problems.I really don't know what to do,because I live in Tennessee now...please help! (link)
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I know EXACTLY how u r feeling. My boyfriend just moved to Tennessee today.. and I live in Illinois. I still love him sooo much and I know he loves me. The best thing to do is just move on. Stay friends with this guy, but don't put yourself through the pain of loving him and not being able to have him. Trust me.. it will make things SOO much better for u.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox or AIM me xoxjeaninexox08
**Jeanine**
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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx
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Im 14 and I had sex as a 1 month anniversary present. I think that if u feel completely comfortable with the guy u r with, and u know ur ready, then u should go for it.
Have fun and be safe though!!
Hope I helped!!
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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx
* a curious george * (link)
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If u feel comfortable doing that stuff, then go ahead. Its completely up to u. I had sex for the first time and I had only been dating the guy for a lil more than a month. We're still together too. If u really love him and u know he loves u.. then u should do what u feel comfy doing!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
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Can you let me know a good way to keep pimples away? I use Clearicil face wash and Clearicil face cream afterwards - which pretty much dries the pimples out. But, I STILL get them. Any advice?
Age 14 (link)
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I use a face wash Called "Ponds-- Deep cleanser and make-up remover with cucumber extract".
Its like 6 or 7 $ at wal*mart. I really like it cause it gives u a few ways to use it and it really works. Its just a 10 ounce tub of white cream. Also try Oil of Olay daily facials. They too are kind of expensive though. Its about the same price and works just as well.
If those are too expensive, try St. Ives apricot scrub with Micro beads... that works pretty good too!!
If theres anything else u need... just let me know!!
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I have this crush on a guy. He's really sweet and were really good friends. Only problem he lives in a different town. It's the same state but different towns. Neither of us can drive so we can't see each other and the only way we can talk is on my cell phone. I want to go out with him but I don't know about the long-distance deal. What should I do? (link)
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its better not to get into a long distance relationship. It seems like they never work. Thats cause they are sooo complicated. U never get to see each other.. and u never really know what the other person is doing. Unless u want to take a risk like that.. i wouldnt recomend a long distance relationship.
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Ok, can anybody tell me some good exercises for toning and strengthening my inner thighs and my calf muscles? Also, do you know any good excersises to make your tummy smaller? Mine is not too big, but it's popping out and I wanna get rid of it before it's too late...but I don't wanna look like a man either. (link)
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Just do some Pilates.. or crunches.. Search Pilates on the internet.. They REALLY work.. we learned them in PE class... they really help tuck your tummy and work your abs
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this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate (link)
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Who cares if they make fun of u... Tell them they just jealous cause they cant look like u!!
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Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions? (link)
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Girls ALWAYS love flowers!! Jewelry is awesome too!! My favorite thing to get is Flowers tho... just because they are SO beautiful. or u could get her flowers and just put the necklass with them... and suprise her even more!!
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how many sheets are in a toilet paper roll? i always wondered everytime i use the bathroom (link)
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Look at the package!! it will most likely say... or if u get bored enuff.. count them for yourself. that would make a great project for a rainy day!! LOL
Let me know if u do decide to count them... u got me wondering the same thing...
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okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies? (link)
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DEFINITELY GO FOR IT!! If u know u can sing, then sing it loud and proud. I wish I had the voice to sing. Who cares if u mess up a lil bit, You'll be so good, no one will even notice if u do make a mistake!!
GOOD LUCK!!
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There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do? (link)
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I know what your going through. My boyfriend is the same way. I've just been able to tolerate what he does. As long as he's not hitting u or doing any physical damage to u.. its ok to be with him.
But if U feel like u want to leave him... then thats probably best for u. U seem to know what u want, so u should just do it. It will be EXTREMELY hard at first, but with the support of friends, you can make it through the pain. Trust me.. I know how it feels!!
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what's good make-up that i can wear 4 going back to school? (link)
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Its going to sound cheesy-- but Mary Kate and Ashley is good. Also try Revlon, Covergirl, or Maybeline Products. They're all my favourites!
hope I helped!!
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im kind of going out with this boy secretly.i feel terrible about it.but if anyone ever found out they just wouldnt accept us.well we barely talk to each other anymore i dont know what to do.he always seems to be really busy.If we do talk its like for 10minutes really late at night.how can i spend more time with him or talk to him more with out anyone finding out?please help me.. (link)
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I know this isnt the best thing to suggest, but sneaking out at night is probably the only way. Or i guess during the afternoon, if u live by a friend, say your going to your friend's house, and then just stop and see him first.
The other thing u could do is tell a few people u trust so u dont have to be as secretive about your relationship with him. if others dont accept u 2, then tell them to kiss your @$$. u shouldnt care what they think. if u care about each other, then be proud of what u have!
I have the same problem right now so I know what u r going through. Limited people know about me and my BF, so i sneak out at night ALOT. i've even stayed the night at his house before and didn't get caught. Its not the best thing to do, but it works.
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I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him? (link)
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I am in the same situation. U had better talk to him before u do something u regret. I let my boyfriend do too much, and now I regret the past week. If u dont talk to him, hes gunna keep trying to pressure u into something, and you will most likely give in to the pressure! DONT DO IT!! SAVE YOURSELF UNTIL YOUR READY! YOU WILL REGRET EVERY MOMENT OF IT IF U DONT!
if u need any more advice, just drop one in the inbox!!
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Jeanine
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my b/f's birthday is in the middle of august.. should i get him something since weve only been goin out 4 a lil while (a month)? if so, what in the world do i get him?! (link)
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Cologne is what I would say. Pick out something that u think smells good. I would recomend Adidas if u dont mind spending $20 on a small bottle of it.. Calvin Klein or Tommy Hilfiger are also REALLY good smelling colognes!!
If u need any more help.. drop one in the inbox!
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Jeanine
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Can anyone give me the lyrics of the song "Superstar" by Jamelia?? (link)
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try searching for the lyrics at www.letssingit.com or go to www.lyrics.com
those are my 2 favorite sites to get lyrics
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