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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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Can anyone give me short, cute quotes for aim?
for example
Friends are like jello..
there's always room for more
- Full House
thanks :D
for friends?
uhh..
cute girls turn heads, but me and my girls break necks..
Best Friends
will always think you're a good egg
even if you're slightly cracked
i have the type of friends, that if my house was on fire, they would be hitting on the firemen..
if your looking for differnt ones, go to
Buddy4u.com
they have soo many differnt people that make profiles!.. hope i helped
i dont know if she loves me, but she is still tied a bit to her old relationship, saddend by the rare phone calls of an old friend.
she makes moves towards me, says she loves me sincerly somtimes. given me head, made out with me
yet somtimes i think she is thinking "I dont want him to be in ove with me, because i truly dont love him"
but does she really think that way? is she really in love with me?
i was in love with her, untill i realized that i might need to get over the whole "love" things and lets just be amazing friends
HOW DO I ASK HER, i really cant just say, do you want me to love you? because that is to weakinging on my part. i have already appeared alot as the quieter more submissive friend, but i am not. so i cant ask her "do you wajt me to love you"
please help fast!!! thank!! you!!
hey, just because she gives you head and kisses you, doesnt mean she loves you. you might be her rebound.
so to find out, tell her you LIKE her not love, not yet. and see what she says. if she likes you too, ask her out, date for awhile then say i love you, if your sure!!..
any more help IM me
xo sam e kay 09
I was just wondering if anyone could tell me if when you get your beyy button pierced if you took a ring or bought one there? And how long did you leave yours in? Thanks!
they have them there. if you go to a good clean place, they will have them. you have to leave it for 3 month before you can change it. that way it is healed and such. dont make the mistake i did and change it to soon, mine got infected. clean it 3 times a day. do not use rubbing alcohol if it gets infected. it eats the skin and the skin will be smaller. any more questions IM me
xo sam e kay 09
hey, how do you make a picture that fits on your column? anything will help =D thanks in advance.
x0 katieandalyssa ♥
if you have paint on your computer, go to that, get the picture up and click on image, stretch and take it down to about 55% on Horizontal and Vertical. hope i helped
i really want a belly button piercing, but my mom would never in a million years let me get one...so i'm letting my friend do it. she's done it before, she's using all the proper tools, sterilizing everything, and she knows what she's doing. so is that safe? and if i get it done, can i use the same cleaning product for whne you first get your ears pierced for your belly button? & if my belly button gets infected, will i ever have to go to the doctor and have my parents find out? and in general, i know it sounds like a stupid idea but it's not soooo bad i guess..i mean teenagers pierce their own body parts all the time sometimes. thank for reading this, bye!
having your friend do it is a very bad idea, even if she has done it before. i would not do it!.. never!.. she could make the skin to small, not have it straight. just a bad idea.
no you can use the same thing for your ears. i would know.(11 done for my ears and my belly twice)
if it gets infected, depending on how bad it is, you might have to go to a doctor.
so in the end, i say try talking your mom into, get info. on it and let her read about it. DO NOT LET YOUR FRIEND DO IT!.. please dont..
also, if you go along with it, you have to wait 3 months before you can change the ring. make sure she uses a RING not a barbell, stupid. its so harder to clean with a barbell.
Hi i was wondering,for 14 year olds...what would be better?..oral sex or regular sex?...also for oral would it be better for the girl to do the guy first or the guy to do the girl first..or would it be better for both to do it at the sametime because i know that someone might not feel like doing something after orgasming..also is it better for a guy to wear a condom for oral or not?
thanks =)
so 14 is young for any of that.. but i would like it if you did oral, so you wont be having a baby. yes, a guy must wear a condom. and it doesnt matter who goes first, the guy would like it if you did him first, but you would want him to do it to you first, so i guess whatever you feel like at the time.
16/f so i have a really really slutty reputation at my highschool... i don't know why... the worst thing i've done with anyone at school was make-out and dry hump (but he had a girlfriend... which i didn't know about at the time) but then another thing is that a couple times i've come back to school from a weekend or something and i have hickies and stuff... but i don't think anyone notices. so... a bunch of guys think i'm a total slut... and i was wondering if there's anything i can do to show them that i'm not...
if you hook up(make out) with differnt people every weekend, then i guess they think its slutty. but if its the same guy(not the girlfriend guy) but someone else, then i dont see why they call you a slut. but if its a differnt guy every weekend, then they go around telling all their guys stories of things that might not of even happened. so if your making out with differnt guys every weekend, try not to do that so much. but ifs the same guy, then maybe try dating him to show to everyone your not a slut.. hope i helped
Okay,
So me and my bf have sex alot and just about everytime he cum's in me but if i dont cum can i still get preg.?
uhhh,, YEAH!!!1
Ok, I'm 16/m, and i was wondering how i can tell if a girl wants me to kiss her. What are the signs or anything i would need to know
when she looks at you in the eyes for a long time, and finds ways to touch your face and ways to hug you and such..
can anyone recomend me a good basketball site where it has the rules techniques and famous players plus the history of it? something that the 7 year olds that would understand if i write a reserch paper for it? please its due on monday and i cant find any good websites and pleasep ease dont say wikipedia!! thanks alklot it would really jhelp me get a good grade.. a good one that small people will understand k? and like really dood. thanks!!!
well i play basketball, and with the rules and techniques i can just tell you. so message me and tell me like what kind of techniques you need and ill just tell you.. for the history of it, i know that instead of hoops, they used real baskets, and they could carry the ball and not dribble.. haha. so just message me and ill tell you some stuff
okay so my friend..umm,bob[not really]tells me alot of things.if she tells me something about my friend fred[not really]thats like mean or something i tell fred what bob said.and i have no idea but i think bob is begining to know what im doing.i know its bad that im doing this:telling fred all the things that bob says nagitivly about her but i dont know,its just hard.we[me and fred]have been close for alot longing than me and bob have so i guess i just feel like i should tell her everything,including the things about her being mean or that bob just plain doesnt like her.and i want to agree with bob but at the same time i dont want to because of freds case.i know its gonna end bad.how do i change that from happening?.
so thats kinda labled as a back stabber, just when bob talks about fred, you dotn talk about her. maybe try to change the subject. i know its hard not to tell, but you have to, you want both as friends, so if you try to avoid the convo. with bob then she'll get the point that you dont like talking about fred. hope i helped
okay me and my best friend lets just call him louie and i have been friends for 3 years but this year i started having feelings for him and one day we started ....cybering and then i told him i liked him (well i let my other friend tell him) and like the day after he found out we cybered again only the second time was more intense and we went a lot farther then we thought we would. the next day i didnt regret it but he IMed me and told me the only reason he did it was to c if id actually do it and i never felt more like a whore then that moment. Now we still talk like we use to but i cant forget it n he always likes to avoid the topic. what do i do? and whats worse is i dont like him nemore i just really REALLY want him.
what shuld i do?
so.. you two did it?.. i think for one. hes an ass for doing that to you. and your not a whore. you had feelings and it just went to far. just, stop talking to him, tell him that you didnt like what he did to you and that you think he needs to learn respect for girls. hope i helped
okay so at my school now, im kinda really quite and shy. and i really hate it becuase i want to be able to meet new people. i was fine with it because i had my best friends and stuff, but we got in a big fight. and its over for good. i was devistated... and i was so depressed and lonely... and i still am now. but im going to go to a new school next year and i need so advice on how to meet new friends.. and how to over come being shy... and stuff like that.
if your going to a new school around your old one, & your in sports and know some of the girls, try to talk to them on the computer. thats a good way. but if its far like a school you never heard of, well that will be harder, but just be friendly, not fake, but not mean. introduce yourself to people, Hi im so and so. that will show people your really nice. hope i helped
I need a good way to convince my mother to let me get my belly button peirced. Any one have any ideas on how I can help convince her? Oh, and if you had one how much did it hurt?
well, my mom likes peircings.. lol.. so it was no big deal with her. but if your in your teens, tell her that you think your old enough to have something like that. and you promise to take care of it. i got mine done for my 13th birthday. and im almost 16. and i have two of them top and bottom. it doesnt hurt, more like a bee sting to me. after it hurts more, but its nothing like omgosh im going to die. it just hurts to bend over. which you can go without for a day. ha..
Okay, i am 13 years old and a girl.
My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. Heres some background info:
On saturday night i went to my friend domoniques house with some other girls. and my ex wen to his friends house with some other boys. They live right across from eachother. So we went to go hang out with them, and as i went to say hi to him, he just rode down the driveway on the bike he was on. so i go to say hi agian with my friend domonique and he only says hi to her. So i keep trying to talk to him the whole night, but he doesnt answer. So i decide to forget bout it, because i thought he wuld talk to me wen hes readii or w/e. mayb he just wanted to be with his friends? well anyway..he was talking to domonique the whole night, convincing him to break up with me and making up lies that i called him a bad boyfriend.
so i call him sat. night nd his fones off, i call his friend because he was sleepin ova his house, and thy ignore my call the first time. i try again and he says that ryans[my ex] sleeping.
so i call again in the morning and hes lik yeah ill tell him you called.
i never get a call back. and i come online at night on sunday to find hes breaking up with me.
he said it was b/c he was sick of the way i was treating him, and i admit that i WAS kinda meen but when he told me how he felt i stopped instantly because i didnt wanna hurt him. that was a longg time ago too. and the other reason was...he couldnt find time. hes really serious about baseball and thats basically his life.
so we broke up sunday and talked for the first time last nite. and he said that he needed to find time. so i dont know if he meant that maybe we could go out in the future?
Well if we do i know its not going to be soon. but, he asked if we were frends so i was like yeah but im not going out of my way to talk to you, you broke up with me and as much as i wanna talk to you, thats up to you. and he was lik fine same here. but i think that he mite. he was online before but i was away but my a.m said still here; he was away too. so idk?
the main thing is
should i im him when he comes back on? or let him im me?
and i know you mite think im too young to be in love but i reallyyyy am....he was lik bragging in school but i dnt kno i just have a feeling he dosent mean it. and i just want to talk to him lik everythings ok.
and another thing...should i wait a little while for him? or try and start moving on?
i want to move on as in be ok with the fact that were not together, but i do want to go back out with him.
pleasee help me
hunny, im sure you think its love, but its most likely puppy love, but not love love. and if he would do that, then you dont need him. talking to your "friend" and not you its just mean, even if he was mad or whatever at you. dont message him, show him that you dont need him.. and you really dont. hun, your 13 and have a looong way of finding someone better and that will love you. im not saying, go out and date every guy, but dont stress about having a boyfriend. your 13 and your REAL relationships wont start untill highschool. im not talking about date someone for a month, i mean a loong time. so save your love for someone that will love you in return... hope i helped
so i liked this guy(he will be called A)over the summer A told me he liked me and he would always say really sweet things (we never really talked on the phone all we did was txt) well one night A ask for some pics of my boobs so i give him the pics after he tlks me into it and just bout every night he asked for pics so i gave him the pic. he said how he wouldnt show anyone well when school starts i found out that he did show people. to make a long story short i still liked him after that and he knew it(we also messed around twcie after i found out bout the pics n stuff) so i think i am over him now. so i was talking to his friend (i will call him B) B asked for pics n i gave hime some after he talked me into it.i really like B alot and he said that we sould be special friends (like friends wit benifits)i really wanna tell B that i want a relationship cuz im tired of getting hurt but i dont wanna sound corny bout it u kno..if anyome has advice please give me some!!!
you should really tell him you want a relationship. and if hes like no no no we should be just friend, then forget him. and as for A i think he is an ass and shouldnt be given your time of day. i think it was wrong for you to do that, but hey(im guessing your a teen) and we all like to have fun. but i really think you should tell B that you want a relationship! hope i helped
Ok so i was just wondering...if we overdose on advil or something what will happen? and about how many do you have to take to get overdosed
so, i dont think you should do that. but it would depend on how much you weigh. just like drinking. the bigger you are, the more it will take. but i really hope you dont do that..
Ok tomorow is my friends get together with the most popular guys in the 8th grade and im in 7th. I know this guy wants to make out with me whcih im a liitle freaked out but thats not what im worried about. I have no idea what to wear. I have these really cute shirts but i can't decide. Please pick your favorite!
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_328235_-1_12648_12635
but this is in yellow
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_333643_-1_12622_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_332640_-1_12647_12635
Be honestt!! hurry please
and thanks ahead!
second one!. its very cute and doesnt look like you put to much into your outfit. it will go perfect with a cute skirt!!
okay so i have a real problem lying to my mom..i have no problem going behind her back and doing stuff but lying to her face is just so hard. so when she confronted me about drinking at some parties i had to just come right out and say that i did. and now, of course, she doesn't trust me, and probably won't let me go to this one girl's graduation party (i'm 15 by the way). so what can i do to make her trust me again? i already agreed to not go to any of her parties during the school year but i REALLY want to go to her graduation party. i'm trying to be good and helpful so is there anything i can do to gain her trust back you think? maybe helping around the house and staying home more weekends?
thanks for any advice!!
i like the staying home thing, thats really good. maybe have that girl come over to your house, so your mom can meet her and see that shes a good person. have your parents talk to hers. and have them make sure you dont drink. hope i helped
ok i used this tanning bronzer but i have spots (like my hands and feet) were its darker how do i remove some of it i mean i used nail polish remover and it helped a lil any other ideas?
just stop using it. it will take about 4-5 days to be gone, but thats a good way. and when you go tanning, dont put any lotion on those spots, it will get darker, mine did. hope i helped