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New school
okay so at my school now, im kinda really quite and shy. and i really hate it becuase i want to be able to meet new people. i was fine with it because i had my best friends and stuff, but we got in a big fight. and its over for good. i was devistated... and i was so depressed and lonely... and i still am now. but im going to go to a new school next year and i need so advice on how to meet new friends.. and how to over come being shy... and stuff like that.
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I know how you feel. I am super shy around people I don't know and i'm moving and going to a new school next year. My plans are to join clubs, and try talking to random people, and try finding people that are also new to the school.
Just try to talk more and sometimes people may come up to you to get to know you better. :)
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Get involved.
In soccer, or drama, or find an after school activity that meets your interests so you can meet people with the same interests and intentions. You'll get along if you all like the same thing, hopefully. As much as I hate to say this, your true friends are the ones you had since 2nd grade, or elementary school, or sometime way back when etc. I went to a new school this year, and I know I have ONE TRUE friend. I've been friends with her for NINE years, since kindergarden and we know we won't backstab each other because it was just be so out of what we both believe in. I'm not saying you can't find friends at your new school, you CAN find them. But before you start scheming for new friends I suggest you try to get back together with your old group of friends.
Be yourself.
I myself, have not overcomed shyness either and I know it's really hard. But at the beginning of the year, I started being a little more friendly and weird in a good way to one of my best friend's guy friend and we clicked instantly and we're great friends now because of it. Be friendly, outgoing, and just who you are! I know this one girl who was the weirdest girl, SO judgmental, so loud, so crazy, and she was herself and everybody loved her for it. But she snapped a lot too. Anyways, bottom line: If you're not yourself around people they won't like you for who you are or for the right reasons etc.
Compliment somebody, talk about bands, movies, where you're from etc.
Hope I helped.
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Join clubs & do sports. Put yourself out there. Say hi to everyone, even if you don't know them. People will talk to you though. They shouldn't just neglect you because you're new.
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if your going to a new school around your old one, & your in sports and know some of the girls, try to talk to them on the computer. thats a good way. but if its far like a school you never heard of, well that will be harder, but just be friendly, not fake, but not mean. introduce yourself to people, Hi im so and so. that will show people your really nice. hope i helped<3
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