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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.

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I have a crush on a teacher of mine and I can't get over him. What should I do?

one, how old are you? two, i'm pretty sure that a student teacher relationship is illegal, and three, if you are under the age of sixteen, stay away from him. is the teacher married? don't do anything you'll regret because in a summer issue of CosmoGirl magazine there was a girl who was fifteen and got with her basketball coach/teacher and when word got out he was arrested. just tryin ta help.

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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i am 5 feet tall exactly. i weigh 135 pounds. is this overweight?

i'm sorry to say this but yes, you are about 30 to 25 pounds overweight. i am 5 foot 1" and 105 pounds and my doctor said i am on the x normal. you might want to try a diet or exercising more? (sorry if this sounds a little mean/rude). anyways, it might be because of your build... that just crossed my mind.you should ask your doctor. hope i helped,

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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Im 15/f I always feel like I cant breathe deeply enough. I feel like every 5 minutes I am sitting there trying to yawn but I can never get myself to yawn deeply enough and it takes me like 5-10 mins just go get one yawn out. And I probably look pretty stupid too like sitting there in class yawning all the time. I know i dont get enough sleep, but even on the weekends when i get like 11 hours i still have trouble breathing deeply/yawning. It might be stress related too..but i think ive had this problem since i was little. Is this normal? ANy ideas on how to help? thx

i do not know if this is normal but if this was a problem since you were little then it might be normal for your body. personally, i would consult a doctor about it.(sry it's not the best but i tried).hope i helped!

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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I really like this guy, and I thought that he liked me until today. My best friend (who has been has friend for a long time now) told me that he got back with his ex girl friend that he missed. Now, I feel broken-hearted even tho no one broke my heart. I am afraid to see him again, because he knows that I like him.. like him. I feel ashamed. What do I do? Please give me good advice. I really need the help.

don't be ashamed. just give him time to see the girl that you really are. you should become really good friends with him first. then you will know if you just want to be friends or if you want to be more. i did that with one guy, we are friends now. he led me on in the wrong way like your guy. then like three days later his bff tells me he has a girlfriend. great right? i was afraid to talk to him at first but i got over it. don't worry. he won't make fun of you or say anything to embarrass you or make you feel uncomfortable. i'm around my guy friend all the time even though i still like him. you can do it. just don't try to give his girlfriend a reason to come after you, ok? good luck and i hope i helped! drop 1 if you need it.

xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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Our nice little group of friends is going through a bunch of crap. And, yes, I did in fact mean CRAP. The deal is simple. A lot of us have realized how extremely bad the school year has been going. We seem to be growing apart, and getting more and more agrivated with one another. The things is, we really really want to stay friends, but all of us want different things. Some of us wish that everything at school wasn't treated like one big joke, and need someone to talk to. Others wish things were like last year when we all were carefree and didn't have a worry in the world (meaning never did have serious conversations at school).

The biggest thing is that no one feels that they can talk to anyone. Everyone feels very alone this year. Especially because two of our friends moved away over the summer.

We want to have a good relationship with eachother, but are pretty much clueless on how to accomplish this goal. So, how can we bring our group back together?

Thanks

hey. me and my friends are having the same problem. maybe you should go to the guidance counselor. we never worried about anything last year either. if someone needs someone to talk to, i trust my guidance counselor the most. or you could have a giant shopping trip and then everybody sleepover at the same place. that always worked for me and my friends. but i suggest that there's an even number of people just so no feels left out or else it's probably going to be a disaster. but a shopping trip might be nice for you guys.

hope i helped!xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LyNN*

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hey are anyone related to the movie star. He plays as Harry Potter. if you r please tell me how

sorry but no. i think he's kinda cute though. he's a good actor too and a lucky asshole to be famous. sorry!

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Hey,
Whoever reads this, can you tell me if your related to Hillary Duff, you know the singer or not. Thanks a billion-

i'm sorry but no. i'm not a fan of hilary duff at all. i think she is a slut and a poser. but that's just my opinion. sorry!

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ok my boyfriend is really bad with calling me...hes so pefect but like he "forgets to call"....so last nite i was like ill call u when i get home (bc we wer out togheter for a lil while) and he was like ok....and then he was like o no wait ill call u bc i dun want mai dad to wake up if the fone rings...so i was like okay...DONT FORGET THIS TIME! and he started laffing n kised me he was like i wont forget...watch...and he even wrote CALL STEPH on his hand! and then he wrote no my hand ANSWER UR FONE....but he never called! watsup with that??? im kinda mad at him bc this isnt the furst time hes done this! ive talked to him too i sed stuff lyke o dont forget u ALWAYS forget to call me!! n he still forgets...=\

my ex bf never used to call me either...i still don't know why but mine was always busy or in trouble. yours probablywas with his friends and forgot to call. hope i helped *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do?

hey,i've never been pregnant but i know this girl who had a baby when she was in 6th grade. she had the baby and her mom was mad at first and they cried together over it but her mom was there for her all the way. i don't think you should get an abortion. i'm not saying it's homocidal but ur taking away your own flesh and blood. if you decide to go through with it, you can either give the baby up for adoption or keep it. keeping the baby may be hard work and you might need help from your parents but they will be supportive and will do almost everything in their power to help you and your baby. good luck with your decision and if you need anything else, im me on sxybellydancer91. hope i helped...*MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*

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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?

i say tell him to cut the shit n grow up or as me n my friends say...chicks over dicks!

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Okay. I go out with this kid, lets call him John, and hes the second guy i've dated this year, and people are like all calling me like a hoe and stuff and I haven't been doing anything sexual, im not into the premarital stuff, but i just think its stupid. And people are like starting rumors and crap. Its really annoying. And I don't wanna break up with him just because people are starting rumors. But, I can't stop them either.

If you like this guy John and you don't want to break up with him just because of rumors, then don't break up with him. You can't stop people from saying false things, but if you just ignore them or say that it's getting old then they'll probably stop saying those things. the same thing happened with me when I went out with someone older. I did the exact thing I just told you and it worked. Hope I helped, *niki lyn*

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me and my dad...dont get along...at all..he takes the simplest things i say..so serious..and all wrong...for instance..the other day we were trying to decide wut to do for lunch...we all decided on something but then he jus had to change his mind. when they asked me i said 'i dont care can we jus go some place cuz im really hungry' his response 'well i dont like your attitude!!' my mom tries to calm him down but his final desicion is 'well i just wont eat then!!' he gets so mad at me for the stupidest things like that..and my mom steps in and tries to resolve it but he ends up mad at the both of us..and when he gets mad..he cusses...last year i went to a school..on the bad side of town(it was a magnet skool..for higher students..but all the peeple hoo lived around there went ther too) so i heard so much language i got sick of it....so one day when he was mad..i asked him not to cuz i hear enough of it everyday..well now..he still cusses..acts like that talk never happened..and he's my sunday skool teacher! and everyone thinks i live the perfect life when its horrible..my dad keeps telling me over and over how we may not have enough money for christmas this year...ive told my mom that i hate when he talks about stuff like that..i guess he thinks im to 'mature'..last sunday..we talked about 'controlling our anger' and he wuz like 'u decide to get angry' well he decides that a whole bunch! i just want to stop the fighting..and my mom and i have sat and cried after some fights..and i want to stop bringing my mom into these fights..i want to stop the fighting..but im not sure how..oh any by the way..im only 12

the same thing happens with me and my stepdad. my mom tries to calm him down and then he gets mad at both of us. if he says i have attitude problems right before we go out to dinner he'll say that we're eating home...try counselling? hope i helped *niki lyn*

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ok, for my acting class i am going to do a newscast on like 'breaking news'. i am goin 2 shoot it in my front yard where there are a lot of bare trees and a lil' shed. i was planning to have my brother come out of the bushes and walk like the girl in 'the grudge' when she comes into the hall and down the stairs, like during my report. it will cut my report short and then he'll like chase me or summin. i just dont kno WHAT to report on! plz help! thx 143 :)

I think that the Grudge idea would be awesome! I saw that movie and that would be really cool! i think you should do the grudge thing with your brother. an idea: get somebody so be the little boy. *niki lyn*

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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.

either or...i'm not racist...i'm white n i would go for someone colored

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Ok, as u jus read, i really hate my mom. I cant stand her! 1st of all, i was i guess u can say an accident. Which makes the situation a hell of a lot worse. But newayz, i had a stress fracture in my foot. I have to wear one of those stupid walking boots 4 2 weeks. 2morrow is homecoming and i get to be in the parade and everything! Its 2 weeks next wednesday and i really dont want to wear it for homecoming, its JUST ONE DAY!!! It doesnt even hurt, everytime i hurt myself or decide if i want to go to the doctor, she always says, only u no how it feels. I put that back in her face and said i only know how bad it hurts and it doesnt. It hasnt been hurting me since monday (and thats they truth). I really dont wanna wear this stupid thing for homecoming and she said next time i piss her off, shes gonna tell me I cant go. I DONT WANNA LIVE HERE BECUASE I HATE HER THAT MUCH!!! I seriously need some help be4 one day i run away and dont come back because i have already came close 2 it!

if you want, take the boot off for homecoming. i had a brace on my leg because 3 girls fell on it in a soccer tournament and i was supposed to stay in it for about 2 months but i decided it felt ok so i took it off. one day with it off probably wont hurt your foot. but,it's your decision. hope i helped

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k well i play feild hockey, and during the game one of our team members went missing...we were looking several hours after the game. know one knows wheere she went. we were both playing on the feild and then it was half time and she was gone. her father was there and didnt know where she went either. one moment she was on the feild then she was gone? im really scared and nervouse for her.....wht do i do!

if she goes 2 ur skool, look for her the next day @ skool...good luck,

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okey the boy that i like is soo shy..he is one of the shyest boys that you ever would meet but like only when it comes to girlfriends and doing stuff other than that he is like outgoing and my best frend..he knows i like him and he sed he dno wat hed do if i kised him because he doesnt make the first move..i have thought it over allot and he sed he wudnt pull away so tomorrow morning when he comes to wake me up while were laying in my bed i am going to say "heyy can i show you something" hell sey ya and im going to kiss him not an all out hook up but i am going to kiss him a little bit..and then see wat happens..were best frneds and we flirt all the time we always act like we like eachothr but we are both shy..its just like i cant wait any longer and i am going to make the first move..do you think that its a good idea? what else could i do?

go for it...if he doesnt like you the way you think he does, o well, you're still friends... but hopefully everything will go the way you want
good luck!

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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her

dont watch scary movies,sleep with a nite light or a bathroom licht on w/ the door cracked open or if that dusnt help, u might need ta see a shrink...

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Alright, I got hired at 2 different places, and I have to pick 1. I want to take job #2 because I have never done it before. If it doesn't work out, I want to be able to fall back on job #1. But what can I tell job #1 so that I can have a week or 2 to try job #2? I don't want them to know I have another job. Hope this makes sense lol. Thanks!

take what job pays more...just tell the job you dont take that you cant work that

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what sort of crunchies do you need to do to get abs? like how far off the ground? like little ones that ur shoulder barely gets off the ground or like.. all the way up? please answer: {1}- how far off the ground works best? {2}- if i run 3 times a week and do that everyday how long (approx) will it maybe take?

try doing 20 situps...if u dont feel the burn,do more...i do 200+ every night

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