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Male AND Female opinions wanted.
How long do you think [if the people are comfortable in doing so] if your dating someone is a good enough time to wait before giving them a HandJob ? A blowjob? Fingering? Sex?
And the people dating are 16.
i can't really give you a specific time limit because everyones different with this but i can give you mine and i'm 16.
4 months- hj
6 months- fingering
8 months- bj
i'm still a virgin but thats my choice to stay one...but i would give it awhile like maybe a year at least and be sure he's the right guy.
17/f
Over the weekend I met a guy. He cheated on his girlfriend with me (not sex) but at the time I had no idea that he had a girlfriend. When he told me he basically poured his heart out to me and explained how he screws everything up. From there he told me he has done hard drugs and has been involved in a fair bit of criminal activity.
Basically, he is bad. I'm not though. I'm a straight A student, a virgin, and 'good' compared to him.. although I'm really not a 'goody two shoes.' He told me a lot about all of the things he has screwed up in his life and how he just wants something to look forward to and something to go right. He immediately broke up with his girlfriend and explained to me that he rushed into a relationship with her and hadn't talk to her for three weeks. Either way, cheating is cheating. I would never put up with that. So why am I still interested in him?
Would it really be that bad to go on a couple of dates with him? Okay, he cheated on his girlfriend (first time apparently) and is practically a criminal. I'm not though. I don't do stupid things like that and I know from experience that I have no difficulty saying no. I would not rush into a relationship with him and I have no reason to trust him. My friends all think it's a horrible idea and I would feel the same if they were in my position, but he really did pour his heart out to me. He told me all about his past. He worked really hard and graduated early and will be going to college in September. I don't need to save him, there is no way to save the 'bad boy' but maybe he could use at least one good influence in his life. I'm interested in him and I want to try this. I think he is looking for another relationship to fall into so I would spend a few weeks or months getting to know him better. Perhaps from experience, could you tell me if this is absolutely a bad idea? Thank you! :)
i disagree with the answers below me.
maybe he is bad news, but maybe he's not.
everyone should get somewhat of a chance. i would just get to know him...not necesarily commit to a relationship ..or yet at least but you should really get to know him and when YOU see the tiniest sign of distrust or anything from him, thats when you call it quits so no one gets hurt.
people can change...
in 14, 9th grade
ive been with my bf for 4 mnthsss and i gave him a hj
am i like, a whore? am i too young? has it been long enough going out? i mean were pretty serious. idk i think im just paranoid. i mean i know he has no stds and he truely cares about me, and i truely care about him. im like, the only girl hes been with. i only told my best friend and shes like ahh ew never do that again! and i didnt think it was bad. she never did it before so yeah idk if shes just skeeved out by the idea. so yeah, um opinions on the situation?
should i do it again? if i do, how can i do it better? ;]
thankss
ps sorry this is all over the place haaha
i personally think you're kinda young for that...you should enjoy your youth while you still have it..but honestly, if you feel that it was right then so be it. i did that for the first time when i was 16 so thats not much better but its better than alot of these 13 year olds having sex. i say you're not a whore if you're just doing that with him, but if you go off and do it with the whole football team, well thats kinda different in my perspective. but keep in mind you're only a whore if you think you are.
so i have gym class right now,
and it's winter, so my legs are realllly reallly white :[
is there any tanning lotion or anything i can put on the that doesn't look too fake to make them look tanner in shorts?
try jergens natural glow, i heard it was good. but make sure you get the right shade or else is will look fake and streaky. you can also just take the easy way out and wear sweatpants or something. don't stress about it too much though..it's winter so pretty much everyone is white.
15/f
I just recently got a boyfriend, and it's been about a month. I'm pretty close with my parents and I want to tell them but I don't really know the right way to bring it up. Every time I think about it it seems pretty awkward. Any advice?!
hey i don't really know you and your parents relationship, but if you really don't want to just randomly open up and tell them...maybe just tell them you're hanging out with him alot...i didn't tell my parents when my boyfriend and i started dating. i just asked my parents if i could invite someone over for dinner and after they asked me about him and after awhile they figured it out on their own that we were dating, and asked me the questions.
Hey,
So last Saturday I was at a bar and I made out with this guy. Totally normal. I guess I'm "that kind of girl". I do not date. I ended up going back to this guys dorm and spending the night (it was very PG and cute).
well he asked me out on a date, and I am freaking out. I don't date, I don't know how to act.
Can someone share some stories?
Thanks
hmm well my first date story was pretty normal...we just went out for dinner and then went for a walk, it was nice =] alls to say is just be yourself and keep the conversation flowing and everything will work out fine.
so theres this guy that i met at my friends house about a month ago, he is friends with my friends brother. hes one year younger than me but whatever. we met about a month ago at her house, it was fun we all just watched movies in the basement and slept over. I found out he liked me a week later, i liked him too. we talked online and then a month later which was last weekend i saw him at her house again, before i went though he told me he wanted to do stuff with me. we didnt end up doing anything because we were never alone. he likes this girl who lives an hour away who is a junior..its kind of weird.. but anyways,
on wednesday i got an IM from him and we were just kidding around about how it was funny that he took my phone and i kept on trying to get it from him. then he told me that i "wanted it" and he was being serious. and then he told me i should of given him a handjob and he was going to feel me up. and i said he could feel me up because i dont know, i still like him. so then he said, okay next time ill feel you up and you give me a handjob k? and okay i know this is really bad but i said okay. only because..i dont know..i want him to still like me..and i feel like if i said no he wouldnt be talking to me anymore..so i just okay. without even thinking about it..:[ and then all he wanted to talk about was getting his handjob and feeling me up and how i was going to do it and all of this stuff. and where we would do it. and then he asked what my bra size was and i dont know. it was getting annoying..he asked me if i would suck it and i told him no im sorry but i dont want to. and he said, okay im fine with a handjob:] ugh..i dont think i want to do that. first of all, we arent even going out. second of all, ive only seen him twice. third of all, he likes someone else. fourth of all, he told me he doesnt know if he likes me and he is split between me and someone else and that if i do these things with him he might be with me. fifth of all, my worst fear, is him telling all of his friends about it. and he used to go to my school, so im afraid word would get out that i did that to him and people would think im a slut...i told him not to tell ANYONE and he said yeah i promise dont worry. but for some reason i just dont believe that..at all..i sort of want to give him one because i like him and i just dont know..im also really afraid that now if i dont, hell be really let down and mad and never talk to me again. im stuck. he thinks im going to give him one..and i dont know if i want to..its a lose lose situation i mean if i dont, ill be let down by him and he wont talk to me..if i do, im afraid hell tell people..but then again maybe he wont? i have no idea. and also, thursday night he was litterally begging me for a half hour for me to send a picture of my upper chest for him. i said no i dont think its a good idea incase people find out and he just kept on saying no please im trustworthy please come on i promise i wont please. and then after i said no in the nicest way possible at least 20 times, he asked me if he could use his mouth feeling me up and i just said yeah i mean i guess and he said he would. then he texted me and told me how big he was and asked if i liked it. ugh i just feel like such a slut if i gave him a handjob. its gonna end badly, i just know it. and also this would be my first time giving one..and he knows that too..ugh i dont know what to do..i like him, a lot, and im afraid...ugh im just so afraid. someone please help me.
i personally think this guy isn't worth your time. instead of actually getting the chance to know you, he's talking about handjobs and sexual things. you need to ask yourself what it is you like about him and if its worth it. just because you said you would give him one doesn't mean you absolutely have to, tell him you didn't think about it and if he doesn't talk to you anymore just because you didn't give him a handjob, then just let him go, hes not even worth it and you should find someone who actually appreciates you and talks to you from their heart, not from their dick.
whenever i curl my eyelashes before i put on mascara they curl perfectly but then once i put on the mascara my eyelashes go back to normal for some reason... and i only put on one coat so im not sure if its because the mascara is weighing down my eyelashes or not...
and whenever i curl my eyelashes after i put on mascara even if its fully dried my eyelashes stick to the curler so its hard to curl them and it makes my eyelahses all messed up and makes my eyelashes look clumpy from the mascara...
is there a specific type of mascara or brand or something that will make my eyelashes stay in place after i put mascara on them?? thanks!!
hey i use curl XXL by maybeline...its the purple one. i definetly recommend it, i apply the mascara first then curl them with an eyelash curler, yeah they do stick to it a little but not too badly...like it doesn't hurt or anything.
how do they get their hair like this? and dont say a curler becuase ive tried it and it looks no where near the same thing.
http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff28/gimmemore2007/Ashley%20and%20Mary%20Kate%20Olsen/mary_kate_olsen.jpg
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http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff28/gimmemore2007/Ashley%20and%20Mary%20Kate%20Olsen/Ashley_Olsen_boots.jpg
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you could braid your hair overnight, but make sure the braids aren't too tight and when you un-do your hair in the morning it will look like that.
Quick question for anyone that plays softball or baseball, does the shoes you wear ever get stuck to the ground, kind of. like when you walk through grass after it rained will your shoes kind of get stuck or rip out the grass or dirt?
yeah when the fields get muddy your cleats can get full of mud and grass...theres nothing you can really do but just hit your shoes together or hit it with the bat to get it out every once in awhile so you don't slip.
I think Im over him but Im not sure... Somedays I can't stop thinking about him.. Somedays I don't think about him.. How do I knw If I am REALLY over him??
you'll know when you just stop thinking about him, and move on, or meet someone else you like more.
it depends on how long you date the person... some people you never truly get over, like first loves.
i'm a 15/yo girl and when i get horny i masturbate with a back massager. i use it on my clit. i know some girls masturbate but is it normal? it seems like guys jerk off and its okay but it's weird if girls do it, is that true?
its not really weird..some girls just think of it that way because guys do it more than girls...but don't feel bad because a lot of girls do it but just don't admit to it.
i cant belive im actualyy saying this but i cant give a hand job if its not hard i just start laughing, im ok with blowjobs well if hes alrady hard but i dont no the best way to do it without laughing? how can i do it? i just dont like the flobbyness lol
haha well theres nothing wrong with that if its a boyfriend or a guy you're really close with (which i hope it is)...whats wrong with kidding around at first? lol but don't over-laugh it haha...picture it as something else or close your eyes and make out with him or something so you're not actually looking at it.
i REALLY want to be able to talk in a british accent. haha
i'm catching on to it kind of.
i can only say some words, but i think when i talk in sentances, it wounds more like elegant talk than an actual accent.
are there any free websites or videos or advice that you guys can give me on acquiring one?!
please and thank you!
hurry also haha. i can't wait to start.
basically to start talking a certain way you just need to listen to it over and over again so try going to youtube or something and typing in "british accents" and you'll get it soon enough.
my hair naturally parts to the middle, and i want it to part to the side.
whenver i part it to the side it stays that way except for my bangs.
how do i keep even my bangs to stay parted to the side??
wet your hair then take a brush or comb and brush them to the side then blowdry them like that and they should stay.
I was wondering if anyone had tips to get a clean shave around the pubic area?
I've never been able to have a smooth shave, I guess the hair's too coarse so it comes out so prickly, even right after I shave.
I use a Venus razor and skintimate gel, if that helps any.
I'd rather not wax, and I've heard Nair products don't work well, so...any suggestions?
Thanks!
hey i use shaving cream for sensitive skin and intuition razor ...it works great because the shaving cream and the soap on the razor makes it feel really smooth after.
I want a new cell. I have been thinking of 4 phones.
The Sony Ericsson w910, w760 s500i or the w580.
I want a phone that i can upload my music to, i want bluetooth and i want a cute phone. I don't want something heavy or bulky. I want it to be easy to use. I want it to be durable. I hvae been hearing that the key pad on some of the sony ericssons are not that good. If you have any of these cells please give me your opinion. I have been kind of turned off of the w760 becasue it has gps and I wont use it, so why pay extra for applications I wont use. I have also been leaning away from the s500i because of the keys. I have been leaning more towards the W910 but I am very indecisive. Please give me your opinion!
hey i used to have the sony ericson W580. the first month i loved it because it stored all my music and i thought it was so good....after the second month of having it the keys were all cracked from texting (i dont know if you text alot) and it kept freezing on me then a few weeks after that it just turned off and broke and i didn't even do any damage to it. so i don't recommend that phone at all but im not sure about any of the other ones...you can go to google and try typing in sony ericsson and see the reviews that people said.
My eyes are hugeee.
I mean they aren't like bug eyes, but they're pretty darn close.
So I can never really find a color that works.
I wear pretty purple eyeliner because black looks really heavy on me and my eyes are so dark that they're almost black so it doesn't really look the best. Any color ideas would help a ton.
:)
Thanks!
haha hey, my eyes are pretty huge too.
since you said black looks too heavy you can try brown or maybe soft black, and it will look good, just not as heavy.
what can i do to make my damaged hair healthier.
in other words what can i do to make my hair HEALTHY? products, home treatments and such..
get a trim or a hair cut to get rid of your split ends. theres this stuff i just started using, garnier fructis (shampoo & conditioner)i think its called. it makes my hair so soft, i love it and definetly recommend it to make your hair healthy and fabulous =]
Hi, I'm pretty new to snowboarding and I'm excited to buy my first new board. I'm getting the Burton Feather for Women, which is designed to help the learning process for women that are new to snowboarding.
I was wondering, if I got the Rossignol HC Zena Snowboard Bindings, would I have the ability to mount them on to my board? Or do I have to buy Burton bindings? Also, would any style of snowboard boots fit in these bindings? (I'm getting Salomon)
I cannot ask anyone in store seeing as I'm buying online (I found great deals on snowboarding equipment in an online store) and I can't find anything about it elsewhere.
Thanks for your time!
hey i'm pretty sure you can put any bindings on the board. you might have to go to a shop and have them do it for you though, because some are difficult. and yes you can wear any boots as long as they're meant for snowboarding, they should fit fine.