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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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ok well i love music but i only have like 600 songs on my ipod and i wanna download some more but i dont really know what to get. I like bands like fall out boy, panic at the disco, nickleback, alkaline trio. I dont really like rap, r&b and that stuff.

any suggestions??(spelling?)

taking back sunday
senses fail
green day
bowling for soup
finch
hawthorne heights
halifax
reggie and the full effect
trapt
lost phrophets
blink 182
fuel
incubus
simple plan
good charlotte..
that's all i can think of for right now but if you want anymore i'll pull some stings and do some searching or seomthing =]

what is going on if a girl looses white stuff down there?????

your problably just oblivation.. i think that's what it's called.. its when your about to get your period and stuff. and it releases vagital juices.. most likely you'll have it for the rest of your life until you stop getting your period =] so i wouldnt' worry too much about it =] hope i helped

hey okay i got kind of a problem here well i was supposed to see a guy that i like who is 14/m who will be turning 15 soon and iam f/16 and i wrote him a letter and stuff put it in envpole and now i can't give it to him because i can't see him on monday because i have soccer. Iam really pissed i've always wanted him to have that letter and i talked to my mom about it and she siad if i don't get a chance seeing him agian i should send the letter through e-mail and i don't know thats right or not because iam like getting all pissed and don't know what to do!!

Thanks Lo

sweetie i'm so sorry i took so long, it didn't say i had any inboxes so i didn't even check =/ plannning that you probably already did what you wanted to.. i agree with your mom.. send it through email.. because if you don't do something you might not be able to have a chance with him.. because he may not think your interested anymore =/ hope i helpedd.. if you need anythign else just let me know =]

Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :)

yes girls do have wet dreams too... that is what usually happens when your about to get your period.. it starts to come out a lot.. right at the moment i forget what it's called.. i think it's oblivation ? or soemthign like that...

ps. i SO sorry i took so long.. when i was on it didn't even say that i had new inboxes =/

i am really bad at priortizing. i have no goals btu i realy want to be a good student but i can never build up enouhg determenation and motavation to actualley try. i used to be realy good student but i am not anymore. can you help me an giv me some tips on how to be more responsibel? i am 14/female if that helps at all. thax bye!

to be responsible you have to remember your homework and school items.. lately my memory hasn't been that charming so what i do is if i think i'm going to forget i write it down in my agenda book.. and when i really want to do well i make a deal with my parents that if i get straight a's then i get something for getting there you know? hope i helped =]

Lately I've been hearing voices and seeing things that aren't actually there. I don't want to tell anybody because they'll think I'm crazy.

And also my kitchen timer's been talking to me.

This isn't a joke, I know it sounds like it is, but it isn't. I'm really scared about this.

-Possibly Crazy?

you have to see a doctor and talk to him about it.. you could have sitzaphrenia =/

If a white person called a black person a "nigga" on the computer, is this some sort of discrimination, could that person get in any kind of trouble or anything like that?
Thank you.

you can't really get into trouble, it's just like not respectful, i mean unless your a colored person calling one of your fellow race it then it's fine, or if your a wigger.. you know? but yeahh you can't really get into trouble =]

Hey I need advice asap! 18 female. I am currently about 2-4 days late on my period. Also i usually start my period before my best friend and she is already started. So here is the deal. My boyfriend and i fooled around, with him inside me...but he didn't cum inside me and he was inside me for about 2 mins at themost. What are my chances of being pregnant . i am so worried and paranoid.
Please help

theres always a chance sweetie =/ i say just be aware.. and now that your 4 days late you can take a test to check our if you actually are or are not.. i'm sorry to tell you that =/ but hopefully it will all be okay, and it will just be a false alarm

ok, well here's the story. i'm having my 14th b-day party and i am not having a big thing, all my frends r from skewl but 3 of them kno each other and the other on doesn't rele kno the other one. i'm thinking about a slumber party but i dont want to make the last girl feel left out. wut do i do???? help plz!!!

well.. maybe you could invite one of her friends to come with her so she doesn't feel so alone, or just make it a point not to have her feel left out.. do things that involve all of yous and not just you 4 and leave her out.. and make sure if you go into groups she in your group and not with the people she doesn't know =]

Me & my mom made a deal that I can get an Ipod if I raise up my grades.

Well I did, but I just don`t know if I should get a Nano or just one of those regular Ipods.

Which one should I get??

I'm just confused & I don't want to end up with the sucky one. Thank you.

depends, are you one who's going to download a lot of songs .. nano's only hold 500 while the regulars hold 1,000 nanos scratch really easy, but there cute and have a colored screen , not the most colorfulest brightest colors, but hey it's colored.. the nano's are thin, are you consumed with space.. do you need it small to fit in?

if i would you.. my personal oppinion would be the regular but it's your choice =] good luck hun!

ok so here's the deal. . .i recently broke up with my gf. it just wasn't working out. anyway, now her best friend is after me, and i don't know what i should do. i think it would look really bad, i mean, it's her best friend. i will rate for good answers

13/m

we'll if you guys are cool(you and your ex) i'm sure it would be fine.. but if your not even talking anymore that pretty much means shes hurt, and is going to get upset when her best friends would go out with you =]

guys girls how can i tell when a girl is a virgin? its it true that when virgins have sex for the first time they bleed?

you can't really tell, unless they state that they are or that they aren't, but yes virgins when they have sex for the first time they bleed because there cherry breaks and bleeds, if i'm not mistaken i think it's the next day that you bleed, but it may be right away, but i know some girls doesn't have to bleed even if there virgins they could have broke it earlier on in life, for example some girls when they get fingured to hard they could easily break there cherry, hope i helped need anything else just let me know ;]

ok there is this guy that im starting to like again. we used to date about 4 moths ago but we were never boyfriend/girlfriend then he stopped talking to me and we didnt talk that whole 4 months now he broke up withhis girlfriend a couple weeks ago and he started talking to me again for the past couple days everytime he saw me he came tell me hey. do you think that he is starting to like me again?? or do you think that hes just being friendly??

it's hard to tell hun, he could be both ways, i couldn't really tell you straight up if he liked you or not because theres no real proof unless he told you himself, but i think he could maybe be starting to like you again =] sorry i couldn't help a great much =/

is it true that when girls play hard to get that guys like that girl more ??

depends on the guy, usually a lot of guys i know like it better when they do the chasing, because if your just there and are like all over them, it actually gets annoying and they are like "um yeahh, get off of me" sorta thing ;] lol but yeahh they usually do like it better when girls play hard to get =]

well, I like this kid in my chorus class. He found out I like him because he could "tell" but I have to play juliet and he's romeo and I dont know how to act around him anymore he's acting like nothing happened which relieved me but I still dont know what to say or do.
Ill rate high

you need to relax darling, maybe he likes you too! you gotta have some confidence in yourself =] and it will make you be fine around him, just act yourself sweetie and you'll be fine =]

how do you put a tampon on? are they uncomfortable and hard to put on because I love to swim and I don't want to not be able to swim just because I have my period and I'm not usually the kind of person who sticks things up there..if you know what i mean. will it ever get stuck up there??

lol no sweetie, it won't get stuck up there =] but what you do is you take the end of the tampon hold it straight, make sure your standing up when your doing this, it goes in easier.. squat and just push the insert up and take it out.. those definitaly aren't the greatest directions but theres some websites, and yes they are comfortable, not unvomfortable unless you don't push it up high enough, and no it's not hard to put in.. i advise you to maybe ask your mother or a close friend or soemone you trust about how to put it in first so you can get more of a demonstration =]

how do you take a tampon out?

take the string and pull it gently out of your vagina, you should feel it coming out and you'll know your doing it right ;]

Is it true if i lost between 5&10 pounds.
my bra size (36c) would onyl shrink a tad bit?
Im 13, and I'm 5'0ft if that makes any difference.

it depends on your body, it's different with every person, most likely they would only shrink a bit, but they could maybe start to sag if you do because there used to your body now.

my friend is 14 and i think she throughs up often. at lunch she never eats her food and when i talk to her on the phone she always says she just through up. i always ask if she is sick and she says no. this happens almost every time i talk to her. what should i say to her?
i am worried that she is going to get really skinny and sick.

i'm afraid your friend might be blemic =/ you need to say somethign to her.. because i think she needs professional help.. i think she's trying to tell you that she has a problem when you ask her if she's sick and she says no, this is a problem and you need to ask her what's going on, because it could be hurting her health. hope i helped need antyhign else jsut ask

So today I took one of my earrings and started pressing it really hard against my cartilage in hopes of piercing it. (after sterilizing it, of course!) anyway, I chickened out. I want to know how much it hurts after... I want the truth! going to a profesional isn't an option. Any suggestions, comments, tips? thank you.

i'm going to tell you the truth and that is that it really doesn't hurt at all.. it's just really hott and it just feels like a brush burn =] hope i helped

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