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ok, well here's the story. i'm having my 14th b-day party and i am not having a big thing, all my frends r from skewl but 3 of them kno each other and the other on doesn't rele kno the other one. i'm thinking about a slumber party but i dont want to make the last girl feel left out. wut do i do???? help plz!!!
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Well you could still do a slumber party because after a certain amount of time they will get to know each other and you will still have the hole night to have fun. Just be sure to include her in everything just as much so she wont feel left out.
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usually at a slumber party if you dont know people you usually get to know them and you just become friends. so i would have a slumber party
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hey. a slumber party is a great idea. if you do have a slumber party do the little things that will make the girl feel she's not being left out. for instance, if you play truth or dare let her be the one to ask someone "truth or dare?" first (if she's a shy or nervous girl you may not want to ask her first but as long as SHE asks the first person it's ok, she won't feel too shy and she won't feel left out). If you see that she's not talking in a conversation or anything ask her what she thinks about it or ask her which guy at school she thinks is cute (that way it'll start a conversation everyone will be interested in). Another ideas for your birthday (just ideas) are going to a coffee shop (but they'd have to pay if they wanted to buy anything... if not then you can get something and whoever wants something and you guys can just hang out there for a while) or going to the beach or having a picnic. Well um happy birthday and have fun and try not to stress too much about it because it's your brithday and although you should try to make it so that all your guests have fun it is really about YOU so HAVE FUN. Just be attentive to whenever you see that they are leaving her out or something and try to talk to her to bring her back inthe conversation and so she will have fun too. Good luck.
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well.. maybe you could invite one of her friends to come with her so she doesn't feel so alone, or just make it a point not to have her feel left out.. do things that involve all of yous and not just you 4 and leave her out.. and make sure if you go into groups she in your group and not with the people she doesn't know =]
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set up a game that yall all can play so she don't feel left out...but also. when you have a lot of girls get to gether there is always goingto be one sigled out or people or going to go off on there own. so set something up watch movies talk about boys share stoires...kind of like truth or date but w/ out the dare just ask each other questions. as long as you treat everyone equal and make sure everyone is still intact w/ each other and not being a loner then things should go well.
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