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Hello! My name is Paige. I have been through plenty of experiences, so i think i give good advice. You can ask me anything from family stuff to sex. If i dont know the answer to something, i will try my hardest to find the information. I will NEVER reject questions people leave in my inbox, in fact i LOVE getting them! IF YOU SEND ME AN INBOX MESSAGE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR EMAIL IF YOU ARE AN UNREGISTERED USER! I wont sugar coat anything, i will be straight forward and truthful with you. Talk to me in my forum!
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im 13/f
and everyday i would wear flip flops and i noticed tan lines on my feet
how do i get rid of it?
You could get one of them self tanners and blend it. But that could turn into a mess.
You can go to a tanning bed without flip flops so it will be even.
You can layout without them.
Good luck
ok im 13/f
this one guy in my school is cute
i keep flirtin wit him but i dont think he knows it
i make him laugh and he makes me laugh
ugh i luv the way he smiles
ok u get
how do i know he likes me without askin him cuz it would just be akward...
just tell me how i would know he likes me
Guys usually find a way to let a girl know that they like them. Does he seem to be where you are even though there's no reason for him to be there? Does he look into your eyes and hold the look a little more than necessary? Is he polite to you? Has he asked any of your friends about you? If you want him to notice you, do the things to him that you wish he would do to you. If he doesn't respond, then you know he's not interested. In that case, move on.
&&
Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing.
Good luck
When I get upset/depressed/sad .. I get cold. My hands are like ice.. and I'm shivering... my teeth chatter and my arms have goosebumps.. and I feel.. dead.
Is there something wrong with me?
Even when it's warm or hot inside... I'm shivering.
Everyone has their own different way to handle being upset/depressed sad. Im sure its normal. I know somebody where everytime they got upset their eyes got reallly red without crying. It was strange but thats how she her body handled being upset. Im pretty sure its normal =]
Good luck
ok, i don't know it this is the right subject, but ihave a problem. ok my vagina burns like really bad. i have no idea why. then i get this sensation where i have to go to the bathroom really bad but only alittle pee comes out and then it burns. i haven't had sex so i don't have a STD, but what do you think could be the matter?
please respond ASAP
-Thank YOu
As somebody said below. yes, it does sound like a UTI. I would go to youre doctor asap to get it checked out and to get medicine. They can be very uncomfortable.
Good luck
i have this weird joint pain inbetween my thumb and pointer finger on my right hand. what could this be?
thanks
It could be anything. Go to youre doctor to get it checked out if ur that worried =]
Girls, do you think that facial hair on a 15 year old guy is attractive. I know that girls don't really like mustaches. But do girls like anything, or should I just stay clean?
I would say stick with the clean. But, its totally up to you of course. =]
well theres this one girl and i like her alot, and she knows but she like doesnt know if she likes me back or not, and i really like her, what do i do? like im so confused
hmm. well, i think you should wait and see what happens with you and her. Basically time will tell. Its not good to rush a girls feelings
Good luck
14/M okay sry but this is a long one, okay i have been talking to this one girl harley for like a month and i like this girl paige and on top of that i like this other girl samantha... well harley and me were getting along pretty good and kissing and stuff but now she like never calls me or answers my calls and paige is so confusing i can't tell if she likes me but i really like her and samantha likes me and i like her and wants to go out with me... what do i do? (if you need furher details just ask)
I would see how you and samantha are. Just forget about Paige if shes confusing. And forget about Harley too. Its her loss. Just see how you and samantha are and just see what happens from there =]
Goood luck
k well today i had dance practice at school for tryouts. i take dance, and it always takes me a while to learn dances. well now its even harder because we only have 3 days to learn the dance. so today we had to go into groups of 7 and do the dance in front of everyone else, and i got soo nervous and froze up and forgot basically the whole dance and i looked retarted. haha k well the tryouts are on friday, and im so scared i'm gonna freeze again. that alwayss happens to me when i'm nervous, and i don't want it to happen on friday. i reallly wanna make the dance team, so what are ways i can not be as nervous and remember the dance? thankss
Just try to do your best. Thats all you can do. Uhm, if i was you i would just pretend like youre practicing alone and act like nobody is watching you. Or you can always pretend everyone is in their underware. I did that once for being in front of people [worked pretty well]] haha but seriosuly just try your hardest and think if you make it you can make the dance team and how happy you will be =]
I just thought of somethng else. If you have a good luck charm of any sort you can bring that! It may help you. =]
Good luck
I'm 13/f and I'm in 8th grade. I've been in band since 6th grade and I enjoy it (but sometimes i really don't like it). I want to be in band in high school yet I don't because it can be really stressful sometimes with all the competitions and stuff. I also don't want to do marching band but they make you and being in high school band is very time consuming...but I still like playing. Also, my best friends who were in band this year are quitting, so I won't know anyone. My question is...should I continue playing since I enjoy it or quit?
Well, i quit band before marching band started. [[but i had my own reasons]] I wouldnt quit if i was you, since you enjoy it. Because u wil regret it in the end. When we have pep asemblys i always look at the drummers and think wow that could be me, and think about how dumb i am for quitting. But, if you like it then dont quit. You'll honestly regret it. && you dont know anyone? Thats how you make friends! Its always fun meeting new people. Give it a shot and see how you like it. And i dont mean like 2 days, give it a REAL shot =]
Good luck
okay.. i really need help. i have REALLY STRAIGHT HAIR, and ive tried soo many thiungs to get it to scrunch. what are the best ways to scrunch hair. i dont want any products that can damage my hair. please help. thanks so much
My hair is the same way! It sucks. But, i found a couple things that actually work. Theres this stuff in a purple bottle called "sprunch" I forget wo makes it Its very very awesome && it smells great! With that use DEP gel or LA looks both the blue kind and light blue for DEP. After you get out of the shower wait like 10 minutes with ur towel on your head. And then brush your hair and then flip upside down and you can put the gell in first if you want, and start scrunchin then fip back up and scrunch more, and then spray that stuff and scrunch and keep switchng and flipping upside down and all. And it should be good. For even more put it up in hair clips. and take em out whenever you want. For even more while their in the clips blow dry ur hair a little. That will be even more of a better outcome. But, yeah i covered the basics.
Good luck
ok i need to know if this is considered cheating...I am "cake" and one of my guy friends is "d". I talked to him and I know he likes me.
[21:02] Cake: hey
[21:02] d: hi
[21:03] Cake: how's it goin?
[21:03] davis9088: pretty good
[21:03] Cake: thats good
[21:04] d: yea i guess
[21:05] Cake: :P
[21:05] d: i need a hug
[21:06] Cake: aww sry
[21:06] Cake: *hug*
[21:07] Cake: wish i could hug you but i can't really have people over right now
[21:07] Cake: so thats gonna have to work
[21:07] Cake: haha
[21:07] d: what
[21:07] Cake: *hug*
[21:10] Cake: so how's it going with that one chick that turns 18 soon
[21:10] d: good
[21:10] Cake: cool
[21:11] Cake: so you guys are gonna hook up soon maybe?
[21:11] d: umm what do you mean
[21:12] Cake: you said there was some chick that you were talking to at your lunch break
[21:12] Cake: did you guys hookup?
[21:12] d: she won't fuck me
[21:12] Cake: oh
[21:13] d: shes a good girl
[21:13] Cake: so is that all you are lookin for haha
[21:13] d: n
[21:13] d: i don't care that i'm not gunna get laid
[21:13] d: thats kinda why i like her
[21:13] Cake: thats cool
[21:14] d: and if i ever do get to have sex with her awesome
[21:14] Cake: i feel neglected
[21:15] d: why
[21:15] Cake: my boyfriends playing WoW
[21:15] Cake: :P
[21:15] Cake: and he' like hardly talking to me
[21:15] d: whats wow
[21:15] d: never mind
[21:15] Cake: World of Warcraft
[21:15] Cake: oh ok
[21:16] d: well i'm talking kinda
[21:16] d: i still wanna see ya
[21:16] Cake: yeah i have to like pounce on him to get him to talk to me
[21:16] d: punc eon me
[21:17] Cake: yeah but pouncing leads to much more
[21:17] d: hmmm
[21:17] d: i'd like that
[21:17] Cake: silly boy
[21:18] d: so do it
[21:19] Cake: what's your favorite part of sex?
[21:19] d: i'm not sure
[21:19] d: i love it when the girl fels great
[21:20] d: how she asks for more
[21:20] Cake: usually guys are very sure haha
[21:20] d: i just love it
[21:21] d: i dunno why
[21:21] d: i just wihs i could nut up in her
[21:21] d: instead of worry about pullin out
[21:22] d: gosh
[21:22] Cake: yea
[21:22] d: i so wanna do it now
[21:22] d: your so mean
[21:22] d: why doyou have to get me hard
[21:22] Cake: i was just curious
[21:22] d: do yo like to be eaten out
[21:22] Cake: nuh uh
[21:23] d: so yo jus tlike se
[21:23] d: sex
[21:23] Cake: many kinds
[21:23] d: tell me what you like best
[21:23] Cake: humm
[21:23] Cake: thats acually pretty hard
[21:23] d: hmm
[21:24] Cake: i like it when he's first putting it in
[21:24] d: do you like having sex with or without a condom
[21:24] Cake:it's way better without a condom
[21:24] d: so a girl can tell
[21:24] Cake: yeah
[21:25] d: so when could i see what its like
[21:25] d: i wanna have sex with you
[21:25] Cake: you couldn't handle me
[21:25] Cake: haha
[21:25] d: are you sure
[21:26] Cake: no
[21:26] d: y ou couldn't handle me
[21:26] Cake: but i know i can't have sex with you
[21:26] d: why can't you
[21:26] Cake: boyfriend
[21:26] d: how big is he
[21:26] Cake: big enough for me
[21:26] d: soo
[21:26] Cake: i've never measured him before
[21:27] Cake: i dunno
[21:27] Cake: pretty big
[21:27] d: what happens if we had sex
[21:28] Cake: hum
[21:28] Cake: i dunno
[21:28] Cake: i would end up telling him
[21:28] d: well thats cool
I dont think its cheating unless you actually do something. But, i think what ur doing here is definetly not cool. But, yeah i dont think its cheating unless you actually do have sex with him.
Best of luck
Hehe hi everybody, i may be the only guy in this column.
I am wondering... my girlfriend likes it when im neat and tidy... downstairs, but its a major hassle and really quite dangerous if you ask me. Would this Nair shit, the mousse or whatever be able to help me out or would it burn uncontrollably? i mean for everywhere, not just above the waistline.
Thanks everybody
I am sure you'll be fine if you get the nair for binki line. Like younggranda said the regular stuff will BURN you so bad. It even burnt my legs when i tried it. So badd idea. But, yeah try using the one for the binki line =]
Good luck
hi
im very young and scared.
I had sex one time with a condom, and then another time i got close to having sex [like we did it for 3 seconds] without a condom and he didnt cum in me, one day i woke up with a stomach ache but i didnt throw up.
And lately i think i gained like a pound or two.
Im really scared but how would I know for sure if I am or not without seeing someone?and by the way , i only got my period 2 times in about a year and a half, so i wouldnt consider myself having my period.
Im very scared and Im so young, please help!
Im sure your fine but get a pregnancy test just to be sure. Sometimes fake themselves in believing their pregnant. Just because they are so scared, and that causes stress && stress makes your period late. So, just take a test just to be safe. And ur "so young" yea if u are i dont think you should be having sex. But everyone make mistakes, just learn from 'em.
Good luck =]
I have a sore breast, it started about six months ago and i have already been to the doctors about it.
They reffered me to a clinic who said there wasn't a lump and refused to give me a mammogram, the doctors said it was just due to my age.
She also said it should go away by itself in a couple of months, that was 3 months ago.
Should i be worried, should i go back to the doctors or am i just being paranoid? There is a history of cancer in my family but not breast cancer.
I just need some reassurance that its okay!
You shoud definetly go back to your doctor. Not because anything is wrong, just so you can put ur mind at ease. Thats stupid that they said "its ur age" Just go back and tell them you want to know whats wrong.
Good luck
How do you get over someone that you lost your virginity to but you have to live with and theres no way around it? (((WE ARENT RELATED OR ANY NASTY INCEST SHIT LIKE THAT))) Basically i fell inlove with this guy we have had sex but hes a man whore and he doesnt love me he was just using me. So like how do i get over him?
Well, i know how you feel because i was in a situation like this. What you should do is GET RID OF ALL CONTACT THAT YOU HAVE WITH HIM. You cant talk to him, because you will just fall for it all over again. Try not to think of him. Do things to keep your mind off of him. Anything, just try to have fun. Hang out with friends more, family ANYTHING you can do to not think of this guy. Now, its gunna be VERY hard..im not gunna lie. Just keep telling yourself you will be better off in the end. Your getting somewhere because your asking for help, so thats a good thing. Just try really hard not to think about him. If you want anymore advice just send it to me in my inbox && i will try my best =]
Good luck
I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night?
Well, its all in peoples opinion. If somebody told me they had sex with 2 guys in one night. Yes, i would think they are a slut. Thats bad bad judement. Sex isnt something you should just throw around, especially in the same night. Even if alcohol was involved, that is definetly no excuse [[not sure if their was, im just saying]] But, yeah i would think. But, people do make mistakes...Thats just rather big.
Good luck
I've been kind of bummed lately. I am 14, I have never kissed a girl, or even had a girlfriend.
I have plenty of friends (enough to make me happy), and I have no problem talking to girls as friends, but not other than that.
I have had plenty of girls that "liked" me, but most of the time it didn't work out (for random reasons), or they just didn't seem right for me.
Unlike a lot of guys, I am not just in it for sex (that would be great, but it's not my first priority). I just want someone to be with.
It will happen. I know a girl that was 18 and didnt have her first kiss yet. Its just patience. Once girls see how youre not in it for sex, they will realize that youre one of those rare good guys. Just wait and see what happenes. In the meantime FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!
best of luck
i want to get my belly button peirced
and im 13
and my mom said i can
but im afraid it will hurt
like really badly
and im getting it with the needle cause you can get aids and all that stuff from the guns
so does anyone have it!?
and does it hurt!!!?
Ive had mine for a couple years now. And believe me it doesnt hurt as much as you think. Its really a pinch. Its wayy worth it in the end!
I cannot seem to get 'close' to guys. I never have been able to, I've always been much closer to girls and all of my close freinds are girls. I never found that too odd before as I thought it was fairly normal. That is, until I realized that 'normal' teenage girls are spposed to be boy-crazy or something. I never have been.
However, all of my major crushed (except for one) have been on guys. I've always liked guys, and always thought that I would be with a guy. That is, until recently. One of my close freinds is bi--possibly a lesbian, and I've started to like her a bit. I can't tell though if my head is just tricking itself or...or what. I'm just really confused.
She's always been open and I've never had a problem with that. She's very nice, funny, and sweet. I do have a boyfreind right now though. We never talk about much...it's always awkward, and I don't really like him so much anymore. I haven't dated much in the past so I don't have a lot to compare it to. I would like to be sure though, and I would like to know your opinion on this to help me reassure myself and straighten my thoughts. =) Any advice would be appriciated.
All teenagers question themselves about this. It is very normal to wonder what you are. You probably wont be able to answer it until youre in your 20s. But, its not anything abnormal. Alll teenagers are going thru this, or will go thru this. Try and date more guys and see what happens. Just ask yourself if you can see yourself in a relationship with a girl, and ask yourself if you could picture yourself messing around with a girl. Sooner or later it will all come to you.
Good luck