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Q: me and this guy had a really really fun time one night (not sex) we just cuddled and kissed the whole night. I really like him alot, but im not sure if he likes me too. yeah we cuddled but he's kind of a user so i couldn't tell. ANYWAYS! that was 4 days ago, and he hasnt called me yet. would it be extrally gay if i text him while i was at school just to have a regualar convorsation an be like "whats up? im bored at school an decided to text u." would that be gay, weird, or just normal? i've never texted him an im to nervouse to call him. would it be cheesy if i did? tell me your honest opinion, please!
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Using the word gay to describe something other than a person is totally offending to some people. Please choose another word. Go ahead and text him and tell him you had a great night, and that you might like to do it again. xO ali
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Q: i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
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You should tell her parents first. Both of you sit down with them and tell them what happened. They will eventually find out. Its better to tell them now rather than later because procrastinating will make it worse. If her parents get mad at both of you, try going to your parents. If they dont get mad, try having them talk to her parents. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you!! xO ali
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Q: is there any advice on how to gain weight in your legs? I Only need it in my legs no where else. Thanx*-->ME!!
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You should consult a nutritionist or your doctor. They can probably tell you what foods can affect where. xO ali
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Q: how do become more happy and try to make my life less boring.. i feel like i do the same thing every single day .??
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sit down with a funny movie and a nice big bowl of icecream.. then go shopping with friends! that'll make ya happy :) xO ali
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Q: well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible.
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you should tell him like as soon as you can becasuse procrastinating just makes things worse. i mean if he finds out by sumone else.. he'll be even more mad at you then if u had told him. xO ali
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Q: hey um im in 7th grade and i have never made out before, the guy that im going out with thinks i have, but i haven't, and hes tried to make his move a couple of times, i've been going behind my parents back, im not aloud to have a boyfriend let alone frech kiss a guy. My parentes are strict, they wont even let him call me, but he does anyway, lol im scared that i'll like screw up and he would think im a bad kisser. I would have no idea what to do, help me out
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Lol dont worry about it. As long as hes gettin sumthin he's happy. Just do it and dont even think about it lol xO ali
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Q: id he cant trust me and hes already in love with this girl.
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Try and make him realize that you like him. Maybe after you guys talk for a while, he might start to like you. Invite 4-5 people over jus to hang out nd invite him so its not just the both of you. xO ali
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Q: hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!
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dark brown hair eh? if you want you could lighten your hair to a lighter brown and then put in blonde highlights.. i think that looks cute lol xO ali
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Q: i skate and have just gotten to the part where you are required to lift your legs high up to the side . ( you stick your arms out so you are in a T-shape , and you lift your leg up so that one of your hands are holding your feet , while keeping the leg you are lifting straight ) i can't lift my leg high enough . does anyone know any excercises that can help this ?
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Try practicing doing splits. That helps make your legs moe flexible. Or put one leg u on sumthing like a table or a ballet bar and reach. xO ali
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Q: my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he
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no dont go back out with him. because then he'll see that if he can get away with it once...he might do it again. I know its an extremely hard choice to make but dont go back out with him. xO ali
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Q: my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina
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your best friend calls you fat? tell her shes rude and she better stop or u wont talk to her xO ali
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Q: i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
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If you love him, you'll wait. Or you could make the first move because guys like it. xO ali
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Q: ok well i know this question is probably asked a million times but like how do you lose weight..like what foods can you eat other than salad? I'm soo sick of salad but thats like the only healthy thing i can think of? like and whats a fast way to lose weight like by staying inside cause theres snow everywhere where i am? thanks
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excersize and drink tonsa water. xO ali
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Q: what should i do to get abs? i mean, im very skinny, but i just want to tone my stomach. what is the quickest and most effective way for me to accomplish this? please be specific. thanks
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Q: ok my horse was injured in the hoof.today my mom talked to the vet when i was at school and they agreed to put shoes on him :'(. and we allways said we weren't going to put anyshoes on cause he has never had them cause his feet r so strong!nobody listens to me!ok so if they have shoes once they have to have them forever!am i right ?please help quickly!
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yes they will become permanent xO ali
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Q: should i have sex wit my boy friend i am 18 years old should i
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Probably not since you even doubt yourself at all. xO ali
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Q: Okay, my period is coming every 2 weeks now, like it will end at 2 weeks later it will start again..is that normal or should I be worried that I'm pregnant..b.c I read that pregnant people get 'spotting'. But my periods are like 5 days and heavy..please explain
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If you havent had intercourse you are not pregnant. If you are just starting your period, it tends to skip a lot at first. xO ali
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Q: Ok, my boyfriend and I were literally making out for 35 minuets now when I came inside I had white stuff around my mouth what in the world is this?
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We're you guys just kissing? or did it go further than that? thats the only thing I can think of. xO ali
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Q: My boyfriend went to my window yesterday but my mom was in the next room awake. Its now 2:15 and he left because it was really cold but is there anyway that i can get him inside without my mom or dad noticing i need to get him in my room! He is really nervous that he will get caught because if we do then most likley i wont ever be able to see him again and were next door neighbors! Help please!!!
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Being next door neighbors is a plus. Call him when both of your parents are asleep. If one parent is out, thats better, youll just have to keep track of one of them. Suggest to both parents that they should go out :) xO ali
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Q: is 12 too young to wear thongs?
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its not too young but 12 isnt old enough to be on this site... xO ali
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44526
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