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Hey my name's Hayley, I'm 15 years old and i love to give advice and help! :) Don't be afraid to ask me anything ;) Thank you and I hope you enjoy everything.
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ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it?
Do what YOU feel is right and how you feel when your with him, and without. Only you should decide if you want to break it off. You are young and its not the end of the world, i mean it mite seem like it, and it has only been a month. Your friends probably just think you too are cute, or its cool to have a boyfriend but its how you feel. and if you arent going to do it because you feel bad- Don't, because you should really do it now before he gets more attached and you'll break his heart more. See how things go.. and if nothing sparks, then i suggest breaking it off. Remeber, try to be friends afterwards, and there are mayn fish in the sea. ;) Hope i helped, good luck
Can you get your belly button peirced at Claire's? i heard that from a friend but i dont think you can. thanks for your help.
No, well at least all the claire's around where i live you can't. They only do ear peircing. Body peircing is different. You would go to a body peircing & tatoo place. Thats where i got mine done, hope i helped.
Can someone help me, anyone who's read The Odyssey. Book IX (9) :
1. What does Odysseus compare the Cyclops to?
2. Why does odysseus refuse his men's reguest?
3. What is the Cyclop's attitude toward the gods?
4. Why do you think Odysseus lies about the ship?
5. Why doesn't Odysseus kill the Cyclops at the time?
6. What does Odysseus plan to do to the cyclops?
Hey, i read that, but i sorta of forget it, so go here and you'll find all your answers
http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/odyssey/
hope i helped, rate me please :)
Today me and my friend are going shopping in Boston! Yay! Does anyone know of really good stores? I there an Urban Outfitters in Boston? I live near Boston but I dont shop there so I really dont know any places? Oh yeah, any place to find a good semi-dress? =) Thank you!
Hey! well i live near boston too, and im going shopping for a semi dress too soon. I don't know if theres an Urban Outfitters but there are a lot of stores, sorry i couldnt help much but i wanted to say that i know what your talking about haha.. have fun goodluck
Well, I'm not exactly sure how to put this, because I doubt this question has been asked on here before. I have this boyfriend, and its a long distance relationship, I live in Oklahoma, and he lives in New York,I've known him for more than a year, and we met online, yes, this sounds unbelievably stupid of me, but trust me, I am not a girl who falls for a guy quickly. So, I've met his parents over the phone, seen his family on web camera, and hes sent lots of pictures. So, after we fell in love, now, to give some background, I've never felt this much in love before, I waited a year to start talking about personal things. We started getting, well, really really close. You know, we started to talk about sex, and whether we were virgins or not, and then, it got farther. It took me a while to get into it, but we started to talk a little dirty over the phone, I felt it was wrong because I'm only 15, but I went through with it because my other 4 sisters had been like this with guys at a young age. Not that I wanted to be like them, the main reason was I really loved him, and it truly felt right. But, lets just say that it went farther, farther than any of my sisters have went on the phone, I know its pathetic to freak out about going far on a phone with a guy, but heres the point. I am thinking that my family knows, which is really bad. My sister had made some rude comment mentioning it, and my mom was talking to me about it. She was saying that it one thing to be talking nasty things on the phone, but any farther than that is to the point where any of me or my sisters should not ever be able to talk that guy again. I love my boyfriend so much, I cry and get horrible chills at night, thinking hes going to be taken away from me, so I made a decision to stop talking this way on the phone. But, I have 2 questions.
1-Do you think people suspect or know?
2- Do you think doing this with him was wrong? And can anyone give me some advice what to do?
Also, I've already told myself that I won't go down the path of having sex at 15, I truly think that this was a better way to express our hormones, and if we met, we would continue expressing it this way until we were old enough. Please make note of that.
Sorry for the length of this question, but ratings are promised to you.
~*Carissa*~
Well i understand this. I wouldnt know much about that far of a long distance reletionship and that you've never met before.. but whatever floats your boat. Anyways, your family might know if there are a ton of signs, but most likly they don't because its just your mind making you think that. Your putting suspicton on you, its very normall.. its just the way people act, so i wouldnt worry about it.
No i don't think this was wrong, but i do think you should meet! but phone sex is okay, i wouldnt worry about it. Just make sure he knows that your like not an 'easy' girl, and that you don't do that with just any guy. Keep everything the same and just make sure know1 is home or awake when you do the phone thing. Good luck hope i helepd
I want to have kind of a spa - afternoon at my house, maybe with 1 friend over. But I was wondering - what should we do?? I have a hot tub ..anyone have any other ideas that we could do to be pampered? Please help!! =) Thank you ..ill rate high and give feedback!
Aw i love those! me and my friends do them all the time. We usually do a face mask, eachother's nails and or toe nails. Do eachothers hair and have fun with that cuz hair can be crazy haha. THen makovers? maybe whiten teeth? do your eyebrows.. thats all i can think of.. have fun !
Kind of a dumb question but...
How do you make pancakes with a mix? Like what do you add? I lost the box and I can't remember...
Also, where can I find info about the history of pancakes? I've already googled it and asked jeeves but i can't find anything. (It's for a project)
Tres merci!
it depends on the kind of pancakse you are making. Whatever kidn it is (bisquick, betty crocker) type that into google. then thee should be instuctions. But i'm sure you either have to add water, and then eggs and oil maybe- like i said, it depends on the kind.
For the history, this sight mite work-
http://www.pancakesontherocks.com.au/history.htm
.. your right, there arent a lot there..haha but i hope i helped
Hey, My best friend and i were wondering were both girls and she's 13 an i'm 14. We have experimented once and we loved it. My best friend doesn't have a boyfriend and either do i. We've experimented 2 or 3 more times. Does this mean for right now were each other's sex partner right now. My best friend and i do act like were a couple when were around each other. We've mentioned a few times that we should be a couple. Just because we experimented 3 times and we've liked it that it means my best friend is my previous sex partner? Help some girls out, please!!
Well its for you too to decide if your 'couples' but i would definitly say you would be bysexual and have somthing for eachother unless you do it just for pleasure. But yes if you do do somthing sexual, she obviosly would be your sex partener. and you too are 13 and 14 which is young for this .. but whatever floats your boat, hope i helped
well whenever this kid i like, matt, stands near me or walks by i always feel like i have to be talking to one of my friends. what does this mean?
i totally understand what you mean, i feel the same way with my boyfriend too somtimes. But it means that you want him to think that your socially active and people like you, and basically you have friends. Its very normall. Good luck with Matt
i need to loose weight. i am 5'4" and i weigh 138. i really want to loose 15 pounds by the summer. Yesterday i started a 900 calorie diet adn i have been doin 200 crunches. Is there anythign else you can think of?
Well it looks like your off to a great start! The most important thing is your determination. Just keep your mind straight and everything will come into place if you have a routine or somthing. But always keep active. The diet and crunches are also very good. Try eating less portions or just better foods. Try to only eat when you should.. but just when you feel like eating. But if you keep your mind to it, i'm sure you will see progress ! hope i helped, leave one in the imbox of you want :)
ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap
aw honey i understand completly. I was in this position, and when your ready- you will know it. If your unsure, then i suggest waiting. Its a fact that its more special if you wait, and your boy will respect you more. If you use a condom then your safe. Maybe if you want- go on birth control,but thats totally up to you. Definitly use a condom. But make sure that you two definitly talk it over and make sure your making the right disition. .Things to think about- do he respect you, love you, care about you, and do you trust eachother. Hope i helped, goodluck, and be safe :)
hey i know this is a strange question, but how likely is it that a guy would put a condom on inside out? Because I kind of think my boyfriend did but I don't know if he would have to be really stupid to do it, or if like he noticed but he felt dumb so didn't say anything. Also if a condom is on inside out is it less effective? Thanks for your help!!
i'm sure a lot of boys make this mistake, so don't worry about it. Next time if he does it again, maybe let him know he's doing it wrong... he will learn, it was probably an embarresing mistake, don't worry about it, eveyone makes mistakes. and if your having sex with him you must be really close so hey who cares? and no i dont think it would be less effective. good luck with everything, and its a good thing to be safe :) hope i helped
I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do???????????????????
You need to think of what is best for you #1, and #2 is what your heart says to do. If you reach into your heart it will tell you the answer. This does sound like a really hard situation but since you have so much feelings for Seth than you could move on from Jared and he happy with Seth. The only true answer is how You feel, but i wish you lots of luck and don't play both of them, but try to stay friends with the other one, and just devote your love to one of them (preferbly seth because you love him a lot) and maybe let jared down easy. Explain the whole thing to Seth too. But i wish you the best of luck and i hope i helped :)
i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death.
Don't hold back if that the way you feel! you shouldn't let things like 'not sure' things keep you away from somthing that could be amazing and that you love... i say definitly talk to him again if thats the wa you truely feel. The friend issue might be a little problem, but not if you talk to her probably. Well goodluck, i hope you too get back together because it sounds like you really like him.. which means- go get him back!!! hope i helped =D
well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??
yea well i know what you mean- and you can't just avioding it forever, because what are you going to do for the next 2 years until your move away or whatever?.. so next time, just be like 'mom buy me some pads or tampons' and she wouls say okay right? .. i would hope so.. so probably just assume's you have it and didnt care to tell her, so it won't be awkard. and it will kill 2 birds in 1 stone because now she'll get the stuff for you, And you told her! so goodluck.. and if that doesnt work, then i guess use your friends or get money from your mom and just buy them, but since she's your mom, she needs to buy things for you- especially those, good luck hope i helped
Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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aw don't worry.. this is really normall. I went throught the same exact thing and i was nervous too, but its really good tht your ready because thats the most important part. So for h/j's and b/j's .. well theres a first for evrything. at first it might be weird but you will get used to it (that sounds really weird) but like if you too are close (which it sounds like you are) then it helps a lot. Just get a few tips from maybe your other friends if they've done that. but like kiss him a little too and do what you think he might like.. lol, its kinda too weird to explain *how to give them*, but i'm sure you'll be fine. And for eating out.. i agree that it might be a weird concept but since you too are ready and are probalby close then don't worry about all that stuff. and if your not comfortale with it, then just tell him. But yea you do just basically lay there lol and enjoy i guess. and then the rest will come as it happens... ehh lol well sorry that all sounds a little weird but i hope i helped. good luck be safe have fun =D
hi i'm in 7th grade and i recently took the SATs for the talent search (not for college lol!). well i took it and got a 1060 which i think is actually pretty good for a 7th grader. but 3 people in my grade got like 1100 something and this boy even got a 1370 (which is unbelievably good! that's almost a 1400!). idk..but i'm just so mad, i mean how come i couldn't get those scores? am i just stupid!! my sister also got a better score. i always thought i was pretty smart since i got good grades a lot, but now for the first time, i feel stupid. what's wrong with me?
aww don't worry! Try on thinking of yourself and not comparring yourself to others. I think its a pretty good score and now your just know what you want to work on. And DEFInitly- do not say your stupid. I don't even like know any of my frinds who would take an SAT and i'm in high school. You have it going well for you, the people who got better than you are robably just saying that to brag, don't listen to them. Be your own person and don't get hungup on those type of things, you'll do better next time! good luck with everything hope i helped
Hey, I really want to get better at dance. Like, ballet? I can't get my leg high enough and my 5th position stinks. My teacher is getting on our case because most of us can only get to 3rd position. So does anyone know any exercises (tried and true) that me and my friends can do to get our legs higher and get our 5th position good? Oh and only if you know what I'm talking about or are/have been a dancer. Thanks so much!
Hey.. i dance 4 days a week and have been for 11 years, and i know what you mean. Soo when you say you dont have a good 5 position, that means you need to work on your turn out. So, lay on your tummy on the floor flat out, arms to your sides. Then bend your knees (which is awkward) and make your toes touch. This sound hurt and feel uncomfortable at first, which means its working lol. So lay there and like read or watch tv or somthing because its working it. Now for your legs to get higher, you should work on your flexibility and your strength. Your flexibility is somthing that your work on for a while, and doesnt just come( like you know). So just do all your leg stretches-splits, lunges and what not on a daily bases or somthing like that. And your strength needs to buid in the top of your thigh to hold and throw your leg up. So what you do is stand with your legs hip level apart and do squats bending your legs (knees) for like 2 minutes or however you want. It burns after a while lol and you also know its working. Now for your piroettes practice just staying up in relevea because thats all it really is, except turning. Spot your head, don't bend your knee, try to think of going stright up, and just use your plea and relevea. Good luck, hope i helped =D
ok, so i like have this guy friend... and i like really like him alot, more than a friend. Last night i went over to his house with my best friend and he invited her crush over too... it was weird because like for a half an hour they kept asking us who we liked... if it was someone else i probubly would have told them... but now they are going to keep bugging us and i usually crack under that kinda pressure.. but i cant crack this time because im afraid it would be weird... and he wont like me as a friend anymore... because he doesnt feel the same. what should i do.. i mean im not like pretty.. im not ugly... im not popular.. im not a geek... but i dont think that he will feel the same and i dont know if i should tell him...
should i...
[a] not tell him and say i dont like anyone
[b] tell him and possibly kill our friendship
[c] stop talking to him
[d] try to see if he likes me first
which one.. or do u have a diff suggestion..
plz i need help
sry if this is like wayyy too long but i really am confused and it would be great if u helped
thankz a billionz
Well honey i know what your going through, but by the way- it wasnt long at all lol, i understand. So, i think that you should hangout with him a little more now (w.o saying anything yet) and then maybe drop little flirty hints. If somthing doesnt go right, then back down.. cuz you said that it would be really tricky. BUt, if its going good and he's laughing and everythings great, then i suggest that you keep doing that until you find the right time to tell him. NEver avoid how your heart feels.. you definitly need to let the person know because at any time,somthing could happen- like a new girl or somthing. So hangout and get more close, hint some things, and then finally sit him down and be really cute/romantic maybe about it and see what he says. Maybe he feels the same way! but you never know unless you talk. you might regret not letting him know. But anyways, i hope i helped, good luck =D
Alright, theres this guy and we were talking and i was like what are you doing this weekend? and he was like nothing.. then he was like you? i was like nothing.. then i was like do you wanna do something this weekend? he was like yeah sure! so we are going to the movies and we are inviting friends and all but.. he seems like his is into me and stuff but on his profile it says "looking for a valentine" i mean hes always like i cant wait to go to the movies so i can hold your hand or i cant wait to go to the movies so i can kiss you and stuff.. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!??!
Don't follow what profiles say! guys barly know whats in their profile in my opion. Don't even worry about this! If your that hung up on his profile then say somthing to him.. ask him yourself but i wouldnt worry about that at all. Good luck
Ps. when you go to the movies, drop little hints on him and cute things to let him know you like him, but don't be too over him cuz guys like girls who arent like OMG I LOVE YOU ;)