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...should i?
ok, so i like have this guy friend... and i like really like him alot, more than a friend. Last night i went over to his house with my best friend and he invited her crush over too... it was weird because like for a half an hour they kept asking us who we liked... if it was someone else i probubly would have told them... but now they are going to keep bugging us and i usually crack under that kinda pressure.. but i cant crack this time because im afraid it would be weird... and he wont like me as a friend anymore... because he doesnt feel the same. what should i do.. i mean im not like pretty.. im not ugly... im not popular.. im not a geek... but i dont think that he will feel the same and i dont know if i should tell him...
should i...
[a] not tell him and say i dont like anyone
[b] tell him and possibly kill our friendship
[c] stop talking to him
[d] try to see if he likes me first
which one.. or do u have a diff suggestion..
plz i need help
sry if this is like wayyy too long but i really am confused and it would be great if u helped
thankz a billionz
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I would try to turn the tables around and ask HIM who he likes. Normally when they keep bugging you about who you like, it means they like you too. I would choose D first, but if that won't work...go for it! It may change the friendship, but its worth the risk.
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I agree with xoxhayley on this--
It might be good to not tell him right now, because guys hate pressure about who they like. If you say, "i like/love you," he may feel obligated to return those feelings...and either lie about it (saying he likes you too), or just completely drop the friendship.
It's more likely that he'll back away if he's not ready though.
Keep him as a friend for now--you're only young once!
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tell him that you like him..or ask him who he likes but usaully if someone keeps asking who you like,they like you,but not all the time
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You definitely need to tell this guy that you like; trust me, it won't ruin your friendship because if he has been wanting to know who you like, then this isn't going to ruin it. Even though that you mentioned that he doesn't like you like you like him, he could possibly like you but not show it. You could just not tell him that you like him but then he will just keep on asking you. I was in a similar situation like this and I didn't want my best guy friend to know that I liked him because he didn't like me and I didn't want it to ruin my friendship with him but when I told him, he actually really didn't care and we ended up dating for a while. This didn't ruin my friendship with him. So yeah, you need to tell this guy that you like him because you will need to tell him one day. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well honey i know what your going through, but by the way- it wasnt long at all lol, i understand. So, i think that you should hangout with him a little more now (w.o saying anything yet) and then maybe drop little flirty hints. If somthing doesnt go right, then back down.. cuz you said that it would be really tricky. BUt, if its going good and he's laughing and everythings great, then i suggest that you keep doing that until you find the right time to tell him. NEver avoid how your heart feels.. you definitly need to let the person know because at any time,somthing could happen- like a new girl or somthing. So hangout and get more close, hint some things, and then finally sit him down and be really cute/romantic maybe about it and see what he says. Maybe he feels the same way! but you never know unless you talk. you might regret not letting him know. But anyways, i hope i helped, good luck =D
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Why not just ask him out to the cinema or bowling something like that you only live once go for it
lol
roxie
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