Hola pplz!
Look, i love to give advice to ppl who just need help and it could be anything.
You can email me any question ud like and ill be sure to get it back to you as soon as possible!
Luv yaz
xoxo
~becca~
Member Since: December 30, 2004
Answers: 38
Last Update: January 1, 2005
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Ive been going too catholic school for 8 years now and im gunan graduate this spring..and go to highschool this one hs is a rele good school but uglee inside and not that big and its catholic again mi mom and dad r divorced but both remarried and my mom wants me to go to the catholic school but i personally wanan go to the public school nd liv wit mi dad jus during the week and mi dad thinks i should experience public school i mean i dont wanna leave all of mi ppl but im soo sick of being told what to do what to wear and all that and this other school is soo pretty and so much more to offer...what should ii do go to public school or go to catholic school and upset my mom...?
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Tell your mom you want to go to public skools and tell her why, i mean like you can wear what u want and everything but hopefully shell understand thats its your life and thats what you want to do!
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~becca
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This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!! (link)
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If they are your close friends then just talk to them or try to make plans w/ them..and if they dont, or just suddenly got sick of you,(hope the didn) but then just make new friends that you can make plans with
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~becca
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i just turned 16 and havent started my period is this unusual? (link)
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Just be patient, itll come sooner or later, but im sure ull get it..your just a late bloomer and i have a lot of friends who had that same problem but now thnk g-d they got it. anyway..all you have to do is be patient! :)
hope i helped
xoxo
~becca~
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theres this friend I have.. she hates being fat.. she gains weight really quickly.. recently shes been purging.. I tell her the stuff that can happen from doing that and i want to help her stop.. shes been doing ok but she made herself throw up again on christmas and boxing day cuz her parents made her eat alot and she didn't wanna screw their xmas up for them.. I want to help her but i really dunno what I can do for her now...she doesn't listen to what I say about what could happen to her health cuz shes sticking pens down her throat and stuff.. her parents force her to eat meat and she hates meat so she wants to throw that up too.. please give me advice on what I can tell her to help her stop or what I can tell her to tell her parents to be more understanding about her being a vegeterian without letting her parents no what my friend is doing.. thank you so much for taking the time to read this. I hope that you reply to this with helpful advice.. it would be greatly appreciated.. thanks - happy holidays! (link)
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If your friend still doesnt listen to you, i would talk to my parents about it, or hers and tell her parents that shes a vegitarian and that they should support her opinion on what she thinks about meat anyway..you can talk to a counsler or do some reasearch on bilimia and show her what shesgetting herself into..hopefully shell listen and stop but one last thing, what your trying to do shows that your a good friend :)
Good luck
xoxo
~becca~
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My best friends hang out in 1 group and always have but now 1 of my friends, Nicole hates One of my friends,Aimee and she is turning Megan against her and is so ubsessed with Ehris no one eltse can talk to her with out Nicole listening in, now I think lilly is going on there side to and when I ask people for advice they say its none of you buisness they arnt hearting me but they are because they are hert ing aimee and I'm the one she comes to when she needs a shoulder to cry on, and when she is hert so am I. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Groupies=Nicole D., Ehris U., Megan W., Lilly P., Aimee R., and me Lindsay W.
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OK im a bit confused since theres alot of people you mentioned, anyway..ill try to give you the best advice i can, ok so i think you should all talk to eachother w/ absolutely no interuptions becuz well let the person speak their mind and i belive that would help but im not 100% sure..anyway all you have to do is talk and i hope it all works out :)
xoxo
~becca~
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Hey! I didnt know what to put this under so ya..I am going to be 14 on Febuary 23rd and I dont know what to do for my party? anyone have any good suggestions on what we could do to be kept occupied? lol I have a big *green room* aka living room that we could hang out in but i just dont know what we could do? I am in the country but not like farm country and have a nice size backyard! I will rate high if you give party tips!! thx much!! ♥Andrea (link)
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Since you have a big living room i would make it a dance floor and put misuc and everything, you could also have in the backyard a fire or w/e so people can hang out, or like um..you could play football outdise or something i mean you can do alot of stuff, but i think you should do a dance party cuz dats alot of fun..trust me! anyway..hope its fun:)
~becca~
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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help! (link)
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First of all, why do they hate you, i mean if its because of your rules or w/e then when he/she gets older he/she will understand that your only doing this because u love them, and thats what all parents do, including mine. but ill admit it i hate them at times and well i still love them and nothing will change that but i bet your kid feels the same way..you should talk to your kid and see how he/she feels, because im pretty sure that would help.
Good luck
~becca~
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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do? (link)
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Its kind of pathetic how jealous your so called friends are i mean really, turning their back on you just becuz ur rich and you dont even brag, anyway..they dont sound like good friends if i were you i wouldnt give a shit about what they are doing, and sooner or later youll find nice people who wouldnt turn their back at you.
Just hang in there.
~becca~
xoxo
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OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him? (link)
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Im going through the same thing right now, and well i like this guy but i dont wanna go out w/ him anymore becuz well we had a great friendship b4 i ever said yes and i just realized that but im afraid to break it off becuz i have a feeling things wont ever me the same, but the way im gonna dump him is by telling him..Im really sry but im not ready for a relationship so i still hope we can be frens and im just really sry if i hurt u in anyway.
Ok im done, hope i helped
xoxo
~becca~
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Im 15 and have been best friends with a girl in my school, we wnt on holiday together, played netball together, got drunk together for about 3 yrs. Now she starts hangin round with this girl i kinda like but not particularly, somedays she cool and hangs wit me but otha days she goes off with this other girl and just leaves me. I told her i thought she was being unreasonable and things worked out for a while. Now though its all starting again and as its school holidays i never hear from my friend cos shes always with this new freind. It was her birthday (my friend) 3 days ago, i txt her and asked if she was doing anythin for it and she sed she was havin a party, not invitin me, just telling me. So i txt her and sed thanx 4 the invite, she sed wel u r invited. Jus 2 anoy her i said well i cant go anyway and she starts goin on about how i would have made all these xcuses anyway bcos her new freind will b there and i cant handle them two being friends, she ended her text with see you around. I have done so much for her in the past and now she just throws it back in my face. Do you think i should just leave her completely and never tlk again or jus try and b freinds with her, even though she likes her new freind better? (link)
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This "friend" of yours doesnt realy sound like a good friend what i would do is just be on ok friend with her meaning u like u can still talk 2 her but like i wouldnt ignore her completely, find a new friend who will probaly b a better friend than her and shell c how stupid she is for ever leaving you out.
~becca~
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16/f.
The other day me and my mom went to her best friends house, they have known each other since before i was born. She has two step-sons, one is 15 the other is 16. I have known them forever, and done a lot with them over the years but they live with their mom who lives an hour away from their dad and step-moms house and they are hardly ever at their dads house anymore so i hardly ever see them.....anyway, the other day they were there and we hung out while my mom and their step-mom talked while we went down to the basement and the 16 year old, we will call him Sam, anyway sam and i sat together on the couch and i have had a crush on him for so long, and we were watching tv and he laid on my shoulder and started playing with my hand and interlocking our fingers and everything and i had holes in my jeans and he started playing with them and he laid on my lap and watched tv and kept playing with my hand and i think he tried to kiss me but i didnt try to kiss him because i didnt know....so my question is, i dont have his number but i have his brothers which i an also good friends with and do you think if i call and ask his brother for his number it would be stupid and sound desprite....i dont know if i want to do it but i keep thinking about him...and yes my mom and his step-mom are good friends and see each other a lot but we dont see each other a lot...like the last time i saw them before that was about 6 months ago...i know i will see them again but i just dont know when...do u think i should call his brother and ask for his number...but sam knows his brother has my number but he hasnt tried to call me or anything so do you think i should wait till he maybe calls or wait till i see him again....i dont know...i know i sound like a little kid but i have had a crush on him since i was little....please help...thanks!!! (link)
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Duh..get the # and just go 4 it, whats the worst thing thatll happen?
Go! What are you waiting 4!!!!!
Hope i helped :)
~becca~
xoxo
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah (link)
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Sarah, I dont think it would be inappropiate because she needs a friend and telling her that your there for her will make her feel better..but i dont think you should do it in front of people..thats the only thing, but if i were you i would go u 2 her.
hope i helped
~becca~
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Hey guys. Sherry here. My little sister (10) got like white stuff on her underwear like a few weeks ago and yeah I knew it was normal but she told me just today that she got a really small red spot on her underwear...I never got these spots before my period or anything so do you think she'll get her period soon? She's really young though so idk! thanks:) I'll rate! (link)
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Im pretty sure shes getting her period even though she is young, well not that young cuz i got mine in 5th grade(11) i know its pretty soon but i think shell also have it at that time.
But dont worry, like you said its normal
~becca~
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Hope i helped :-)
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I hate reading. We have to accumulate so many points per quarter.Like we read a book then we take a test on it and you get points for the book depending on how many questions you got right on the test. But i hate reading. I don't like any kind of books and i think ive already read all the books in the library! Maybe not..but still..i hate reading! Does any one have any tips on how to like reading? Or any good books to suggest? and our quarter 2 cut-off date is jan 7th..i have no points!! i need to get 13..any tips on how to get my reading done? (link)
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I have that same exact system and it really sucks!!!! I know i dont enjoy reading that much either but there is only one series of books that i like to read about over and over again! And its da famous series of unfortunate events, a really really really really ect. good series!
I know if you read it, youll like it
Hope it does
~becca~
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i feel like im growing apart from some of my close friends..is there any way to prevent this??
Signed,
Missed Friend (link)
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Just get together with ur close frens, like go to the movies,shopping, call them and invite them to your house or w/e. Just hang out. If this doesnt help there are plenty of other ppl that would probal wanna b frens wit u, so suck it up.
~becca~
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i have a friend who has liked this guy for 4 months...she obsesses over him...he is friends with my group of friends and recently i have started talking to him...he is really nice and really hott...i dont want to admit it, but i like him...he told all his friends that he thinks im hot and that he wants to go out with me...i feel bad because this is making my friend pretty mad...i want to go out with him really bad, but i dont want my friend to end up getting hurt... what should i do... (link)
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If i were you, i would tell me friend how i feel about this guy that you like him also and u wanna got out with him and hopefully ur friend will understand and get over it..if she doesnt and is like really mad at you then you should apologize and try to make her feel better. This exact same thing happened to me and im going out with the kid right now, i called my friend and talked to her for like 2 hours and she forgave me, and now she likes someone else and we are still good frens! So all you have to do is talk to her
Hope i helped!
~becca~
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my boyfriend said we were going to hangout today and he called me last night and told me hed call me today....well he hasnt called me or anything and its 3:30 already...i called him at 1:30 and his brother answered and said he was in the shower...and hed have him call me back...im mad because hes home and stuff and he hasnt even called me....its like...we only hangout if i call him....why doesnt he call me? but when were together its amazing....i love him alot...he said we'd do something today....=\ (link)
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Just talk to him about it and tell him the whole truth..just tell him how you feel and itll all work out for the best and maybe hes just shy.. also find out why he hasnt been calling you it.
~becca~
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i really hate my dad.
no, really.
i sincerely dislike the man.
i am incredibly opinionated and very vocal about my opinions, which he hates.
i know i am smarter than him, he hates this also.
he yells at me for no reason often. condemning my use of the computer. stating that i'm on it too much.
my sister, on the other hand, watches TV all the time. he says i lack social skills because i'm on the computer "too much."
he's not around when i'm not on the computer and doing other things.
but yet i am still on the computer too much according to him.
i fight back all the time, but i hate it. i hate him.
i cant stand this anymore.
i want out.
due to his working situation i dont see him except for some weekends. (my parents arent divorced).
when he tries to punish me, he fails. he really cant. i have more power than he does in our family.
i'm 14, extremely mature and intelligent, if i do say so myself.
i dont want to kill him (in my head i do, on paper it doesnt look so good) but i'd like some way to come to peace with him.
i am NOT going to shut up and stop being opinionated however.
any advice on what i should do?
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Well..you just need to sort things out with your dad. Give him a chance and if that doesnt work, see a counsler and talk about how you feel, because im pretty sure that would help.
Hope it works out!!
~becca~
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