My best friends hang out in 1 group and always have but now 1 of my friends, Nicole hates One of my friends,Aimee and she is turning Megan against her and is so ubsessed with Ehris no one eltse can talk to her with out Nicole listening in, now I think lilly is going on there side to and when I ask people for advice they say its none of you buisness they arnt hearting me but they are because they are hert ing aimee and I'm the one she comes to when she needs a shoulder to cry on, and when she is hert so am I. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Groupies=Nicole D., Ehris U., Megan W., Lilly P., Aimee R., and me Lindsay W.
advice~gurl answered Friday December 31 2004, 1:13 pm: Alot of times friendships aren't made to last. I know this for a fact, something on this order happen to my group of friends.
I would advise you to stay friends with Aimee even if everyone else is hating her. Atleast whe will know that one of her friends is a real one. If this really bothers you I would say infront of everyone (Even Aimee) if you can't get Nicole alone, Tell them that Aimee is a great friend and they are hurting her with this stupid, childish behavior and You can't stand to say Aimee so hurt and alone. Tell them that if you have to you will end your friendship because it is not worth it if you start hating a friend.
Now that could get help or perhaps it wouldn't but you tell them what you said in this question about you being Aimee's shoulder to cry on and when Aimee is hurt so are you. I don't see much mending of this friendship really I don't.
Just stay nice friends with Aimee is no one else will.
Sherry answered Friday December 31 2004, 12:49 pm: This is totally cnfusing. But I'll answer because no one else is. Hopefully I can help out a little. OK soo basically your group is choosing sides and splitting up. How about getting everyone to talk about it. This sounds really gay but have everyone say what they want to say without being interuppted. Like getting everything off their chests..nd then at the end you can all talk about it. See if you guys can make up..if not...and everyone still hates eachother..well then theirs nothing you can really do! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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