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So I will try and make this as short as possible...
I have this guy friend called ryan, who I am close to, && he has told me he really likes me as more than a friend. Firstly I dont feel the same way as he does && I have told him this. We are still friends && it hasnt effected our friendship but I can tell he still likes me. && lately I have been hanging out with ryan and his friends, one called steven who I think likes me. He flirts with me && stuff and I am starting to like him. ryan doesnt know that we flirt b/c he isnt around when we flirt. i dont want to hurt ryan but I also dont want to ruin my chances with steven over it.
to make this more confusing for me, i like steven but I am not sure whether to trust him. he knows ryan likes me but he said that ryan says this to so many chicks. he didnt flirt with me until i told him i only liked ryan as a friend. he never bitches about ryan to me, but he speaks to me about him.
what to do?? :-/
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follow your heart.
make a pro/con list for each of them.
sometimes that really does help, even though it sounds kinda dumb.
hope i helped :) good luck.
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Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 1/2 has cheated on me twice and it took me a long time but im starting to trust him again. Well a while ago his best friend kissed me but it wasnt my fault it was like a 2 second peck and i had no idea he was going to do it plus i told my boyfriend right after it happened. Well my boyfriend told me that i had to stop talking to him and i understood and i did. then my boyfriend didnt like my best guy friend ( we've been friends since 5th grade (im now in 10th)) and he made me stop hanging out with him. Well the other night we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt trust me and he goes through my myspace all the time and he has people watch me and then he got on here and was at my home page and asked me why i put on here that i liked someone else and i was like what the heck are you talking about??? and he called me a liar to my face then i got on and found out he was reading a question that someone had wrote to me and ugghhhh! im so frustrated ive never ever gone through his stuff ever and hes cheated on me!!!! HELP!!! what do i do???? sorry this is so long i just need help! Thanks in advance. (link)
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nobody knows whats best for you except yourself.
i mean, ask yourself are you truly happy with him? is he to controlling? could you move on without him? and getting over a guy takes time, and it is possible, even in the worst situations. trust me i know.
you shouldnt stay together just because you have dated for a year and a half. sometimes it takes a while to find out if a person is not perfect for you.
a boyfriend shouldnt tell you who you should and shouldnt hang out with. i would dump him if i were you, but i know that it is easier said than done. try asking him to go on a break for a little while and give him reasons why.
good luck and i hope i helped. and if you ever need to talk to someone don't hesitate you can email or IM me whenever!
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what can be used as a fake penis that is a household item? I cannot buy toys. thank you.
any other household items that are pleasuring in any way? (link)
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electric toothbrush....i read that on fml. haha.
thats the best one i can think of.
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This is my second time getting my period and the first time i wore a pad to gymnastics and it was uncomfortable, and this time im going to wear a tampon should i wear my underwear underneath the leotard just in case or do u think i'll be safe (link)
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just put a pantyliner on your leotard, just for a back up when wearing a tampon :)
and also if you are super heavy, take ibuprofen (about 800 mg)and it thins your blood so your flow is not so heavy! and it also helps with cramps!
hope i helped!
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What are some stores that carry flare leg jeans? And not boot-cut or jeans that say they are flare but look boot-cut. all i see are skinny jeans and I hate wearing those! I used to be able to find a pair of flares at gottshalks from time to time but they are closing down. thanks (link)
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forever 21! they are very trendy and have wonderful low prices.
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I want to know why i fart through the viginal after childbirth and what i can do to stop it (link)
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its called a queef, and you can't do anything about it!
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Hello. I just had a beautiful baby girl six weeks ago and I'm wanting to lose the baby weight. I havr=e been doing some jogging. What I'm wondering is do you have any other exercises or descriptions of some yoga postions to help the process of losing weight move along a little faster? (link)
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jogging is good :) your on the right track!
you want to do that at least three times a week for 30 minutes. the more you exercise the faster you will loose weight.
jogging is cardio, which burns fat. you might also want to do some strength training for muscle tone, which burns calories while you are sedentary (like sit ups, push ups, resistance bands, etc.). and i know jogging almost everyday could get kind of boring, so try switching it up! jog one day, taibo the next day (you could rentbuy a work out video), power walking another day, and then kick boxing. there are many others alternatives to, like jump roping. though being a mother sometimes can be exhausting enough!
along with exercise make sure you are eating healthy and in the correct portions. some people need structure to help them loose weight. my grandmother looses a pound or two a week on weight watchers, so i highly recommend that diet, i have tried it myself and it is not that hard! they guide you through the whole process. i have also checked out the book "the carbohydrates addict diet" and have tried that. i did loose weight, but it is an extremely rigorous diet.
or if you prefer to not follow a set guidelines then just make sure you try to eat the least amount of processed food you can and increase the amount of fresh vegetables you eat.
i hope i helped! good luck!
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i just realized something about me, haa. i sometimes forget to eat for like a day or two, and then when i eat, like even when i'm full, i keep eating. and then don't go another day or whatever until i eat again. i know thats not the greatest thing in the world to do, but is that even a disorder? i'm not doing it on purpose. i just forget to eat or something.
& then we were learning about depression in health, and i had like 4 symptoms, but i think there kinda common. like i'm always really tired, and i sleep alott. & i don't do much. & i usually don't really know what day it is ever. & i'm usually really out of it. & i have mood swings, like i'm either really happy or sad & kinda just whatever.
is that bad? or is that normal? i'm 16? i've never really noticed it before. anyone get what i'm talking about ha? (link)
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i mean if you are really really concerned about it you could go see your doctor or a therapist.
but you might just be a hypochondriac.
either one.
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so there is this really hot kid in my school (let's call him Joe) Joe is really quiet and doesn't socialize very much. Well, every girl loves him and this one girl (call her Amy) made a fake myspace with a pretty picture of a random girl and flirted with Joe until they started dating on myspace. Well, my friends and i don't know joe very well but we feel like this girl is really crossing the line. Joe is kind of depressed and the fake myspace girl claims that he has talked about killing himself. I really really think i should do something, but i don't know what! (link)
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www.hopeline.com or 1-800-suicide (same foundation) suicide prevention.
and so it www.twloha.com is another one.
look at those sites :)
good luck.
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Am I overreacting? I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 31 and we are both divorced and we both have 2 children each when I met him he seemed like a family person but know he indicates he's not. all he wants to do is go to clubs, be with his friend, I feel like why are you even with me he has custody of his child that is 5 years old, we've been together for 2 years and a half but. I'm the type wants to have a family and settle and hes not but yet he wants his child to have a home with a really family. His ex wife is another person that only believes in clubbing and she was another man and that is why she abandoned her child and she is another one of my problem she has a boyfriend but still wants to get back with my boyfriend and writes notes to him saying I love you plus calls him all the time and i believe that my boyfriend feels bad for her.I get angry and im always in a bad mood and my boyfriend says im overreacting. i feel that he doesnt see evrything ive gone through with him plus when he talks with his ex wife he always tries to talk to her in private when before he used to talk in front of me, plus if it was for him my house would be full of guys from ages 20 to 28 in my house. But he tells me he loves me...what should i think. (link)
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it sounds like you are better off with out him.
i think he is partially using you as a babysitter.
i think if you left him it would be a huge stress relief on your life.
hope i helped :)
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so me and my mom arent the closest people in the world. last wednesday we got into a realy big fight to the point to wear she pulled my hair and she told me she thinks about killing herself. and i told her she wasnt the only one. i know people are probly going to think wow shes crazy and t doesnt do anything for her but anyway. to the point, i realy want to go on birthcontrol because i have been wanting to hae sex for a while. im no a vrgin but the last time i had sex was 2years ago. i have fooled around here and there but never all the way. i dont realy know how to tell my mom that i want birthcontrol because im afraid that she will blow up on me. i just need someone to give me some ideas to tell her. and she doesnt know im not a virgin. thanks.
oh btw im 15/f in case you havent guessed.
-Tamera. (link)
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you can get birth control without parents consent
you just have to go to a clinic.
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So I have a second generation (the newest) ipod touch. It came with a Nike + Ipod workout app on it that I loved. Now, its gone from my ipod, I searched my recycling bin and everywhere but I cant find it! How can I get the same new app or get my old one back??!! PLEASE HELP. Here is a link to show you what the app looks like:
http://gizmodo.com/5049441/review-nike-%252B-ipod-touch-workout-app
ps, I typed in Nike in itunes and Nike + ipod workout but nothing comes up! (link)
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did you try going to the app store and re downloading it?
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He moved, but i stayed with him (link)
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oh okay.
well i'd honestly go for the other guy that lives near you. long distance relationships are not recommended by me :)
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My name is mark i am 29 and my girl is 26 and i am a freak in bed and i dont think my girl can handle all of this because i want to have sex at least everyday or every other day even 3 days its not just about me i make sure i please her rather its oral or what ever but she does not do the same for me what should i do??????? A man in need of passion in the deep abyess of her soul!!!!!!!!! (link)
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she might not be the one for you.
or maybe shes not yet comfortable enough with you. give it time.
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Okay me and my boyfriend had sex about 4 days ago,and im spost 2 be on my period this month.my boyfriend came in me ALOT.and when i say alot i mean ALOT!.if i still get a little period does that mean i could still be pregnet??
please help thank you (link)
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your not gonna know four days after.
your paranoid.
every girl gets paranoid and thinks they are pregnant.
and pregnant is not spelled pregnet. :)
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17, guy, no gf for 4 years
Ok this is an unsual one but the girl i once liked.. her BF just cheated on her about 5 days ago i finnaly got over her after realising shes kinda annoying and not really my type (I started liking her randomly for no reason and i didnt know her, then i got to know her and regretted it a bit) anyways just in case i start liking her again (which will probably happen kus im a lonley bastard) how do i stop those feelings? i dont know her enough anyways and our "friendsip" hasnt really happend even though i tried thankas for ya answers (link)
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ignore her.
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Hey everyone, im 15/f. and i have a boyfriend that lives across the country, and it kills me that i never see him. But we talk everyday, and msn and text, call, email. Everything. I trust him with all my heart, and i belive that he would NEVER cheat on me. Its just that i never see him, and it kills me. So i dont know what to do. Also, i LOVE my boyfriend with all my heart. But i have had a crush on someone at my school, and they like me. Should i stay with the one i love, and never see? Or be with someone i only like, and see everyday.?
Thank sin advance. (link)
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If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be. -Anonymous
i say give the boy that lives near you a shot.
how did you boyfriend wind up on the other side of the country anyways?
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Can practicing a sport for school 6 days a week cause stress? I feel like I want to cry all the time, I get really bad headaches, I'm always tired, I always feel sick, and my body's always sore, and I'm starting to think it's because I have lacrosse practice for my highschool six days a week. (link)
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yes, you are probably exhausted.
make sure to take some time for yourself to relax and unwind, but i know its hard when you have a busy schedule like that. i can relate.
the only real solution is to quit, but thats not really solving the problem. make sure you are getting enough carbs and sleep and are drinking enough water!
hope i helped!
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whats the best method you have found for bikini line maittnence?? Something that will make it clean and bump free. Whenever I do mine, it always gets itchy and then bumps show up and its really annoying. Help! (link)
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waxing :)
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I'm completely depressed. I'm a 21 year old female college student at an out of state college though at the end of the current semester I will be moving back home to finish school at a university near my home. I have a great boyfriend but for some reason I just feel like I'm a walking zombie. I miss him and I miss home even though my family at home is basically in an all out war started by my younger brother's dabbling in pot. I haven't seen a psychiatrist or any other doctor because I don't have the time being in school constantly and working and living somewhere where I basically know zero people and zero about the city. I wake up wishing I could just sleep forever. I don't know how to communicate how I feel to my boyfriend and now he's just getting frustrated with me. I have a problem with anger here too but it's mostly because I can't express what I'm feeling and what the problem is because I don't know it. If anyone has any advice that is helpful and isn't a criticism I'd be thankful for it. I just need help right now, not judgment. (link)
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well, to start off if you ever need someone to talk to feel free to email me at jessipaige1@gmail.com
and sometimes you can do simple things like exercising that makes you feel better. when you exercise it will relieve a lot of your stress and send endorphins to your brain making you happier.
but sometimes its a little more serious than that and you might want to take a mental health day and set up an appointment with a psychiatrist.
also you might want to take a day off to destress. i know you think you are too busy to do that but it will make you feel a lot better in the long run if you take time to have a long warm bubble bath or read or draw or write. anything relaxing that you enjoy doing.
i hope you feel better :)
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