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Q: is there any new songs you guys know because im starting to get kinda late on what songs are new right now
you can name anything i like it all.. thanks
i rate 5 for all answers!
Here are my favorite songs.....

Everytime we touch, Cascada
Gasolina, Daddy Yankee
Yo, Chris Brown
Stupid Girls, Pink
Check On It, Beyonce
Pump it, Black Eyed Peas
Photographs, Nickleback
Grillz,Nelly
I'm N luv(wit a stripper), T-Pain
Stickwitu, Pussycat Dolls


Q: this may sound weird but i want my teeth white
and i was wondering what toothpaste you use and if it works! thanks i rate 5's

also any other suggetions would be nice
Try colgate simply white or Crest Vivid White. For extra whiteness you should try that Colgate Whitneing Mouthwash. good luck!!

Q: ive looked everywhere and i cant find quotes to the abc show "hope and faith". can someone please tell me where i can find some?
Hey I love that show! hehe

go to this website and under the summary of each episode is a link to qoutes from that episode.

http://www.tv.com/hope-and-faith/show/17012/episode_guide.html

Q: I'm planning a party for my friends- guys and girls- and there's going to be dancing. Like you would dance at an actual school dance. Could anyone give me some really good slow and fast songs? That would be great. I need a ton. Thanks in advance. ♥

Jess

top 20 songs for dancing!-

1.my humps, Black Eyed Peas
2.Gasolina, Daddy Yankee
3.Goldigger,Kanye West
4.Everytime we touch, Cascada
5.Stickwitu, Pussy Cat Dolls
6.Check on it, Beyonce
7.Boom,Boom,Boom,Boom, Venga Boys
8.Pump It, Black Eyed Peas
9. Laffy Taffy, D4l
10. Dance Dance, Falloutboy
11.Run It, Chris Brown
12.Grillz,Nelly
13.Im N luv(wit a strpper, T-Pain
14.Rip the wings of a butterfly, H.I.M
15.Stupid Girls,Pink
16.Yo,Chris Brown
17.Grind with me, Pretty Ricky
18.Becuase of you, Kelly Clarkson
19.For you I will, Teddy Grieger
20. and finally..... that song that is like "jump on it,jump on it" i forgot what it is called but i love it. hehe

Q: What causes guys to get boners? What are they thinking about also? (obviously sex but like what else?)
Some times when boys are young they get boners at random times. Like while taking a test or at their grandmas house. hehe Its just part of puberty. But when they get older, the get it when they see sometihng that turns them on.

Q: there is this girl at school that i really like.
i don't talk to her much but i really want to get to know her. i am quite shy

please help me!!
Well, if you are in the same class as her, you could start a conversation by asking her about the homework or something. Just keep having little simple conversations and soon they will build up to deeper more meaningful ones. Remember about things that are important to her to show her that you care. Good luck!

BTW- since valentines day is coming up it might be nice if you make her a nice card. DOn't make it too sappy or it might scare her.

♥ if you need more help I'm always here!

Q: Hey :)
Okey, so it was hard for me to ask this at school since no one gave serious answers, and I'm doing a poll for a school assignment.
If I say "favorite sports team" what is the first thing you thibnk about ?
And it doesnt matter which sport it is. Just give me the names of a bunch of your favorite sports team - or anything else that comes to mind when you hear that.
Thank you loads.
New York Giants

Q: 14/f

A couple of nights ago at a school dance, the boy I like and I were getting pretty close. We danced together like the whole time (only fast dancing though). I was asking him about who he liked. I told him to tell me online but he said he was grounded so I'd have to call him to talk. I told him he could just tell me in school. However, now I want to give him my number. But how do I go about doing it? He's not in any of my classes so it may be awkward. Thanks in advanced.
Wow!!!! I was reading this and i was like " hey this sounds like my friend____" and then i was like "holy ****" it is her!" haha

well i think you should get one of your bestest buddies to give him your phonenumber. becuase i we have special connections . luv you!

Q: why would a guy that you're just friends with get mad if you ask about a friend of his? I had just gotten hired at a new store. I found out from my guy friend that another one of his friends got hired at the same company. I asked him what department he got hired in, and if he knew that I was working there as well. Then my friend got angry and said "why do you want to know"? It almost sounded like he was jealous.
Is this a normal reaction? Or does it sound like he's possesive of me, considering that we are just friends.
He probably likes you a lot. That is a normal reaction and he probably wants to make sure you are not interested in his friend.

Q: Hey guys! Well I need a foundation what kind is the best kind? tell me the name and if you can maybe you could find a picture on google so I can see how it looks like and what to look for! Thnx I'll rate!

Try Covergirl Trublend. I love it

heres a picture-
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.totallyfreestuff.com/ScreenShots/4000/4353.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.totallyfreestuff.com/index.asp%3FID%3D4353&h=197&w=150&sz=18&tbnid=WV20s3lEzWNayM:&tbnh=98&tbnw=74&hl=en&start=7&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dcover%2Bgirl%2Btrublend%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26ie%3DUTF-8%26sa%3DG

Q: okay ive died my hair like 4 times in the last 3 months and my hair is kinnda unhealthy like i put stuff in it about once every 2 weeks and i do straighten it. what can i do to make it more soft and healthy?(dont say dont straighten it because i have to)
I know a girl jsut like you and she is balding becuase of all the damage. Try not straightening it as often OR Instead of straightening try blowing it out. Also try getting an intense moisture treatmant from the salon. If that is too expensive i would also recommend that biosilk thing. Also don't dye it for a while and trim your ends often. Soon it will be healthy again. Good luck!

Q: ok I have a boyfriend and everything. but I want to get my 2 best guy friends something for valentines day. because they're sad and loney cause they dont have girlfriends, and i just want to get them something so they feel special. my question is, i just want to get them something small, something nice, that says i care. I STILL WANT SOMETHING WITH THE THEME OF VALENTINES DAY, but nothing with hearts or anything that would make my boyfriend jealous. any ideas?
Get them a nice card thats funny but caring. Then write a sweet funny note inside.Make sure it is not to too caring or your boyfriend will get jealous. So to prevent that get him a nice gifts that shows him that you love him! ♥ good luck!

Q: how do i improve my looks and updo the things im lacking in?

-weight
-way too light eyebrows
ect.
You could try dying your eyebrows but if you are not allowed to you can fill them in with an eyebrow pencil. Make sure the color is not too dark and use short strokes so it looks real.

As for your weight, try eating healthier and working out. Good luck! ♥

Q: Well this is my first time babysitting by myself w/ younger kids. I have done a little 6 year old with my friend, but now i have a 2 year old girl and a 4 year old boy. Im sorta nervous b/c i just saw when a stranger calls! lol. So my question is: is there anything i need to know before i go? How much to charge, emergencies, cautions, questions to ask the parents? ill rate! thanks so much!
Okay this is everything you need to know.

I would recommend charging from 5-10 an hour. When you get there you need to ask the parents about the kid's bedtime, allergies, what food they should eat, if they can watch TV, go on the computer and things that they are not allowed to do. Make sure you don't let them near the bathroom, fireplace, and kitchen by themself. If anyone calls don't pick up the phone or answer the door. MAke sure you have the parents number and the numbers of grandparents, neighbors, police, firemen, EMT"S and Poison Control. GOod luck! ♥

Q: Heyy,i just want to know....

is there anything i could do to stop split ends from the straitener? or any srpay to put on befor/after straitening hair?
thanks! :]
try trimming ur ends every month and that Frizz-ease straightening spray.

Q: Im a 13 year old girl and i was wondering if anybody knew any good work-outs for abs. i'm not considered over weight or anything, i just have a little bit of stomache fat i would like to get rid of. any ideas other than yoga would be great
thanks in advance
Try crucnches/Situps that works the best.

Q: Hi this is the girl who asked about becoming less stiff.. any particular (and simple please) yoga pose(s) you'd suggest?
To become lesss stiff I would recommend...( btw they might be hard in the beginning so start off slowly , and for pictures go to http://www.yogajournal.com/poses/936_1.cfm)

Upward Dog:
Lie prone on the floor. Stretch your legs back, with the tops of your feet on the floor. Bend your elbows and spread your palms on the floor beside your waist so that your forearms are relatively perpendicular to the floor.
Inhale and press your inner hands firmly into the floor and slightly back, as if you were trying to push yourself forward along the floor. Then straighten your arms and simultaneously lift your torso up and your legs a few inches off the floor on an inhalation. Keep the thighs firm and slightly turned inward, the arms firm and turned out so the elbow creases face forward.
Press the tailbone toward the pubis and lift the pubis toward the navel. Narrow the hip points. Firm but don't harden the buttocks.
Firm the shoulder blades against the back and puff the side ribs forward. Lift through the top of the sternum but avoid pushing the front ribs forward, which only hardens the lower back. Look straight ahead or tip the head back slightly, but take care not to compress the back of the neck and harden the throat.

Then try the "Child's Pose"
Kneel on the floor. Touch your big toes together and sit on your heels, then separate your knees about as wide as your hips.
Exhale and lay your torso down between your thighs. Broaden your sacrum across the back of your pelvis and narrow your hip points toward the navel, so that they nestle down onto the inner thighs. Lengthen your tailbone away from the back of the pelvis while you lift the base of your skull away from the back of your neck.
Lay your hands on the floor alongside your torso, palms up, and release the fronts of your shoulders toward the floor. Feel how the weight of the front shoulders pulls the shoulder blades wide across your back.

and the Lord of the dance pose

Stand in Tadasana (Mountain Pose). Inhale, shift your weight onto your right foot, and lift your left heel toward your left buttock as you bend the knee. Press the head of your right thigh bone back, deep into the hip joint, and pull the knee cap up to keep the standing leg straight and strong.
There are two variations you might try here with your arms and hands. In either case, try to keep your torso relatively upright. The first is to reach back with your left hand and grasp the outside of your left foot or ankle. To avoid compression in your lower back, actively lift your pubis toward your navel, and at the same time, press your tailbone toward the floor.
Begin to lift your left foot up, away from the floor, and back, away from your torso. Extend the left thigh behind you and parallel to the floor. Stretch your right arm forward, in front of your torso, parallel to the floor.
The second option with the hands is to sweep your right hand around behind your back and catch hold of the inner left foot. Then sweep the left hand back and grab the outside of the left foot. This variation will challenge your balance even more. Then raise the thigh as described in step 3. This second variation will increase the lift of your chest and the stretch of your shoulders.
Stay in the pose for 20 to 30 seconds. Then release the grasp on the foot, place the left foot back onto the floor, and repeat for the same length of time on the other side.


Q: What have you heard about the ion straightener? I only know that they are 100 dollars here at sally beauty salon. Are they good? do they do ur hair good? Anything i should know about them?


Thanks!!!
They are awesome!!!!!!!!!! My mom got me one and I

Q: can someone help me get ideas to get more money for babysitting...thanks
I am a certified abbysitter and you get more clinets if you are certified so do that. Also getting a CPR liscene is not a bad idea. Also try to get your parents to talk to thier friends to get you jobs. If you get I job make sure that the kids like you alot so then maybe they will tell thier parents how good you are and you will get a bonus ;-)

Q: where can i find a cheap computer desk
Try Target and Walmart for very cheap ones. If you want to spend a little more try Ikea. They have a wide selection and pretty reasonable prices, however their assembly directions are very very hard to follow. lol


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Hey im Amber! i'm 14 and i can help you with anything! so ask away!

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