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Hey everyone!!I can usually answer anything and everything, just ask me!! I'm not the kinda girl that judges, i just tell the truth. I'm fun, i am hilarious!,and i'm a brunette, so i'm must be smart (no offense blondes, just kidding!(^;So ask me!! I'll answer your question, but pleaseeeee, if you have time, comment on my answers in feedback. Thanks!
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ok i was just wondering if anyone knew of any hair products that will make your hair straighter...
i used to use an iron to straighten my hair but that REALLY kills your hair....so now i use remington wet 2 straight hair straightener...it makes my hair puffy and frizzy...
does anyone know of shampoo that straightens your hair...or a GOOD hair straightener...
i just dont want frizzy hair...so just ANY hair products that doesnt make your hair frizzy...and makes it straighter...

please and thank you!!! (link)
You can get this product called Friz-ease. My friend uses it after she straightens her hair and it works great!Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


There's this guy I really want to get to know. He's new to out school, he's cute, he's shy, and sits alone at lunch. He barely ever talks.

The bad thing is, that I'm shy, too. I'd love to get to know him, but my shyness is holding me back. How can I get over this? (link)
If you think you like him, sit next to him at lunch and introduce yourself, maybe you can ask him what his hobbies are, and maybe you will have something in common! Just do what you think is right. Hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


Okay, I am 5'7"-ish and around 120 pounds. Sometimes I think I could use a bit of toning up. Well. it's mainly my stomach and sides. I know how to tone my stomach but the problem is I can't get my sides to tone. See, I have wide hips in my opinion and they have a bit of fat on them. I could probably fit into a size 3 instead of 5 if I could just tone my sides. Does anyone have any exersises that will give me a smaller waist and hips? Thanks! (link)
I think what you have is love handles, everyone has them. Just stretch your arms up into the air, lean to the side, hold it for 10 seconds on each side. Try to do it every day, that should help. Hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


what are the strings for the guitar tuned to on a piano? like the first is an a (i know it's not but what is it?) and what are the rest? and also i lost my last pick so what can i use thats around the house as a temporary pick??? thanks! (link)
I'm not sure about the notes, but as a pic you can use like an old credit card that no one can use, just cut it into the shape of a pic. My brother did it, it really works. Hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


ok i was hanging out with my friends when i felt something weird on the inner part of my lip. like a pimplish kind of thing? my one friend insisted it was herpes and said at one point everyone gets herpes. im like what? is this true? i thought herpes was like a perminant thing. (link)
I don't think it is herpes. It is probably just a cankre sore or a cold sore. It is just from eating so much acid like in citrus, not harmful acid, don't worry. Hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


im 13/f about 111lbs.
I cant fit into a size 3 most of the time and that makes me think im fat. I see girls on tv who are in their 20s who weigh less then me. I've tried to cut down on the oh so loverely junk food. But that lasted 30 minz. (( i love chips (link)
Do not drink pop at all, try to drink 100% juices, or just juice in general. My brother stopped drinking pop for like a couple of months, he lost about 20 pounds. I'm doing what he did and it is working for me. I've already lost about 2 pounds. Try to cut back on the junk food. not totally, but cut back. Eat more fruits and vegetables. Don't be furious if it doesn't happen right away, losing weight doesn't work like that. Just be patient. Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer. (link)
I don't always wear abercrombie or hollister, they are so expensive. I dress awesome and my friends always ask me where i get my outfits. I get them from like jc pennys and all those stores. They have awesome clothes at low prices. If boys only like me for expensive clothes, then those guys are not right for me. Whatever hairstyle looks better to you in your eyes, some guy will like it if he really likes you, not your expensive clothes and hairstyles. I know it is important to look good, but that is not all there is to you. There is so much more to you than those expensive clothes. I know i didn't exactly answer you r question, but i hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


All my friends seem depressed expecially my one friend who talks about "Killing her parents with no remorse" on her xanga. Im really worried for her. Thing is, she says she would do it but I know she wouldnt. She talks more about suicide and how terrible her life is. Her life really isnt bad, her parents just have really strict limits which I know can drive a teen crazy. She doesnt seem to know that there millions of kids out there with way worse situations than her who make it through everyday. She keeps repeating it alot probably for attention (Maybe shes asking for help, I dont know) Im just really not sure what to do anymore... (link)
Maybe you should tell her parents what is going on, maybe they can talk to her about what is wrong ,and maybe things can change for her. Don't worry if she finds out and gets mad at you, in the long run, she will think about how you helped her out and forgive you. Hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


Well I wrote this, not really a poem, just kind of a one of those little writings.. will you tell me what you think of it so far... maybe some help on it, or wordings that would sound better?

After spending hours on end perfecting every detail about herself, she heard the doorbell ring. Her heart races to see him. This was the moment she had been waiting for, for so very long now.She lopes quickly to the front door and swiftly swings it open to see her love. Her heart sinks inside of her chest in her overwhelmed body and her beathing has stopped as if her heart would have. He looks amazing, more amazing than ever before. Not a word comes out of either of their mouths, both stand there completely speechless, both infatuated by their prescences's beauty... (link)
That is such a good little story thing! Is that from experience, just wondering because that is so beautiful. Tell me in some feedback b/c i really want to know. You are a great writer. Keep on writing, you may have a future in it! Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


what's anarchy? like will someone explain it to me because one of my skater friends is obsessed with it. he carves it into his walls in his room and his arm. but what is it? (link)
I'm pretty sure that it means that you are free and no one can be your leader or rule you, and there are no laws that you have to follow. Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.? (link)
I don't think that is wierd! Say whatever you want to, unless it's mean lol. If it is part of who you are, say it! Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!! (link)
Some sites to go on that are fun are:
www.ebaumsworld.com
www.flashflashrevolution.com
www.addictinggames.com
www.funnyjunk.com
www.isketch.com
www.bored.com

Hope i helped!have fun!

Thanks,
Jenna


so i start school on tuesday and im gonna be a freshman. im a girl im 4'9 i have brown hair and green eyes. i dont know very many people i know like 6 poeple in the whole entire school. is there any way i can make friends fast? any tips or anything? i will rate high. (link)
Just be yourself, and people will get to know you really well, don't try to fit in with any crowds your not like. Sooner or later you'll make tons of friends. Trust me, when i moved, i made tons of friends at school. Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


a couple of days ago i met this reallii hotttt guy named paul (hes 16 im 13) and hes so0o0o sweet and mi parents aprove of him and gthink he is thew nicest most helpful boy in the world and i thin he is my world and he likes me back and everything... butttt he has this long distance relationshipp that he says is nto going too well and he said he is like gonna break it off with herrr because like he dosent evr talk to her and he wants to go out with mee.. and stuff and we made out and stuff.. omg i feel so0o badd pleaseee give me adivce on thiss and i do not mind if its and or good i jus need some reactions and adviceee.. thankss a million and onee (I rate well)

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You shouldn't feel bad at all! He was probably gonna break up with his gf anyway! You just happened to be there when he was gonna break up with her. Go out with him if you really like him though. You will probably be a great couple, and i hope it works out well if you do go out with him! Hope I helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help (link)
Just tell him to back off, your friend is his girlfriend, and you would never hurt her. Tell him that he is nice but your friend is more important to you. Try not to talk to him either, because if someone finds out that your talking to him, they might get the wrong idea, and tell your friend, then everything will be messed up. Hope everything works out for you, and i hope i helped.

Thanks,
Jenna


hey guys... im looking for a good deoderant that will accualy work for me.. like ive tried secret platinum protection but it doesnt stop me sweating.. theres like no odor but i just sweat and id like to get a new one before school starts... well pleaase help and thank you! (link)
Try Dove Solid, it is anti-perspirant/deoderant. I use it and it really works for me! Hope I helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


ok i have a friend name aurora. she's bin really sad alot latly. the reason why is that she barly has any friends. well i've tried getting her out into like really socil public places where she's likely to make some really good friends. but she keeps on my offer. and she is being too stuborn her self. ok here is my question. How the hell can i help her out if she wont listen to me? (link)
I don't think she needs new friends, it might help, but i think you should go shopping with her, do some fun stuff together, maybe that will cheer her up a bit. It is also sometimes hard for people to make new friends if they are shy. Have you ever asked her if she wants new friends? I think you are being a really great friend to her. Keep doing your best to help her out. Maybe invite some of your friends to hang out somewhere, and invite aurora, maybe they will like each other, and you can all hang out. Hope I helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


It's not that i need a boyfriend it's just i want one.
my ? is not gonna be how do i get a bf really fast. but how can i find someone who can be really special to me but as a friend first?
oh yea in my school
Thanks
15 yr old girl (link)
Just go for a boy that you know and you have been friends with. If that doesn't work out, just try your best. Don't worry if you don't get a boyfriend right away, love will come to you. Hope I helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!! (link)
Sounds like you have a horrible situation on your hands, but i think i can help. Just tell your boyfriend about it!!!When you think the timing is just right, tell him..."You know how you have been asking me to hold hands?I really want to, but, please don't laugh, i have really sweaty hands and i can't help it. I have hyperhydrosis which means i get sweaty hands, so i have been kind of embarrassed to hold your hand when they are sweaty." If he is a really nice guy and cares about you, he will understand, and nothing should change! Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna


Okay! Im 13 and have the oddest fear. I go to bed at like 1 30 AM and than ill go to the bathroom at like 2 and ill go to the bathroom and than go to leave but ill be too scared. So ill end up sleeping in the bathtub!! Its cuz im afraid someones in the house but no one ever is. Is there a way to get over the fear? (link)
Just carry a small flashlight around with you so when you come back from the bathroom, you have a light right with you!Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna




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