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Hi.. My name's amy! Ohh I'm female lol.. And I've kind of had a problem my whole life, and it's the whole ideal of being shy. I'm 14 years old, and I have yet to make out with a boy or any of that sweet stuff. I've hugged and pecked guys. But its just.. Everytime I would kiss my boyfriend, the next day I'd come into school slapping my head and saying, Why would I do something like that, I feel so stupid, and then my face turns red. Also, the other night, I was hanging out with my boyfriend, and he hugged me like we were watching fireworks, and he just put his arm around my neck.. and I just stood there motionless. I had no idea what to do! I just started laughing. Many guys have broke up with me for the reason that I am shy. Is there a way I can change? Because all boys think I start laughing or being shy because I'm using them, or that I don't like them. What would you did in my situation..? Thanks alot! (link)
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Iam 18 years old and in a way just like you. Im a very shy girl when it comes to guys. Without doing anything that your not ready to do, you can still show them that you care. When he puts his arms around you, lay your head on his shoulder or put your arms around him. But, dont let him push you into anything. Talk to him. If he really cares then he will understand.
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ok here it goes: ok..i LOVE to write stories, poems, and song lyrics..like it's fun (the idea of doing it). I try but i just dont get anything good. Any tips?? thAnKs (link)
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Just sit outside and write about the very first thing that comes to your mind. Maybe write about your everyday life issues. The best ideas sometimes come from the craziest places. Write about anything you like or about one of your friends. It'll come to you.
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my ex girlfriend told me that, along with other reasons, that my music was too depressing and so she broke up with me. i think thats pretty effed up but i dont know. that ever a reason to break up with your boyfriend? signed, lonely white kid
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That just seems like an excuse. How old are you and she? If she really wanted to work it out, you could have compromised and not listened to your music when she was around. But then you wouldnt be yourself. Its seems that you are better off without her. Find someone that likes you for you and doesnt want you to change. Good Luck!
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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!
i rate high! =)
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Just sit down and talk to him. Be completly honest with him. Tell him that you two would be better off as friends and nothing more. If he is truly a great guy, he will understand and be thankful that you were honest to him & didnt lead him on.
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Ok, this is going to be kind of long because I need to give you all the details. I haven't always been overweight, but when I was finally aloud to stay home in the summer by myself, I started to get bigger. I couldn't go anywhere when my parents were home, so I sat and watched TV and ate constantly. Well, the big problem is that was about 6 years ago! Every year I say I'm going to finally lose weight, and I still haven't. Now I'm at least 30 pounds over-weight, and even though I love playing sports and being active, I also love to sit at home and eat the "tasty" foods. I am going to be a junior, and it is so hard to be an over-weight teen. I know all the stuff I need to do if I want to lose weight, but I just can't find my motivation to do it. Do any of you have advice to try help me? Please, I would really appreciate it. (link)
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Are any of your friends willing to help you and motivate you? Just tell yourself..tomorrow, Im gunna start. You may need to start out with little things. Keep telling yourself that you can do it.
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im a 14 year old male teen soi use tthe comp alot.my mom and dad r always tryin 2 c wat i do on the comp. they almost neva give me ne privacy on it. in fact rite now im on a crumy laptop in my bed and every1s alseep. 2day they say me talkin 2 som1 on AIM that they didnt no. they kept bitchen bout how i broke their trust or somethin and now my dad is gonna take aim away 4ever off all our comps!!! som1 plz help me and tell me wat i shud do!!! (link)
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Let them sit down with you and show them what you know about AIM and how to safely talk to people. If you show them that you can be honest and careful and sometimes include them in your online time, they will be able to know what you are doing without being over your shoulder the whole time your on the computer.
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i don't have a father figure in my life. my dad is a jerk..he tried like almost killing me before..and i don't see my step-dad as a father! do i need a father figure in my life? please help! i rate high!
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Where is your Mother? You dont need a father figure in your life. But, that may cause you to be clingy or emotionally attached to any guy you may have a realationship with in the future. Find out about organazations in your area that provide "Fathers" for children like you. Maybe that will help. Good Luck!
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Well me and my friends are going out tommrow in hte woods to drink i drink alot but not so often so that isnt the big deal i guess but see im only in middle school and theyre bring chronic so they can try it and I REEEEELLYYY I WANNA TRY IT TO jsut to see what it is like you know?but trust me i do not think im going to get addicted to it what should i do tho? (link)
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Honey, if your in middle school you should not be going down this road. You can get into so much legal trouble if the police find out. These kids dont seem to be the greatest friends to have. If you drink alot, you are headed to be addicted. You need to talk to an older sibling or a trusted adult to get help.
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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible? (link)
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Ive taken many many child care classes. At the age of 14, I would say the youngest, maybe 6. I wouldnt put them in charge of an infant or toddler. They might not know how to handle the crying or changing or keeping the toddler out of things that could harm them.
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okay my friends ( a girl and a boy) are in a fight and everytime i talk to the girl she alwasy says so have you talked to him?? What should i say?? should i tell her i did or not!! they are in a big fight and i don't wanna ruin my relationship with this boy, because i really likehim...i mean really like him!! Any suggestion?? :(
*Stuck -n- Middle* (link)
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Be friends with both of them. They should not put you in the middle of this fight. When she asks you, just answer her honestly. Let her and him know how you feel about this situation.
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My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D (link)
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I just recently graduated from high school. You need to just be yourself and not worry about wearing the latest trends. People respect you for being yourself and not trying to impress others. Just wear whatever your most comfortable in.
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I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
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Definitly is not.
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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated (link)
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Im in the same situation as you are. If you are not emotionally ready to do it, then dont. If he really respects you, then he will wait. If he doesnt and breaks up with you, then you will be glad that you didnt do anything with him.
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when you use a tampon is that like fingering yourself? (link)
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No because you shouldnt be feeling any pleasure from using a tampon.
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okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?! (link)
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I just recently went through the same thing with one of my best friends. You just need to sit down and let them know exactly how you feel. Your not doing anything wrong. If they dont listen to you or understand what your saying and get angry, then that person isnt the greatest friend. Try to invite her to go somewhere with you and your new friends. Maybe she is just feeling left out.
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I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing? (link)
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As long as your sure that you want the piercing and you are happy with it, it shouldnt matter what other people think. Try explaining to them why you got the piercing. Maybe they'll understand.
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okay i'm caught up with a whole bunch of guys! i have guys who like me..and i kinda like them! but then there is also this one other guy who i met the other night that i realli like! but i don't know who to choose out of them! what should i go by to help me make my decision? they are all nice..with good personlities and they are all drop dead sexi too! lol what should i do!?
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Which one treats you the best? Who do u have those special feelings for. You will learn its not about their looks, its about whats inside & which one is honest with you and whose personality you admire the best.
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in 1 year i have to choose between field hockey and soccer b/c the 2 sports take place at the same time!! I do not wantt o choose but i have to so what do u think i should choose or what woule be a good way to choose?
Thanks for the Help!!
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Choose the one that is your favorite and which one makes you the happiest playing. Choose the one you could see yourself playing in 10 years.
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