My friend likes this guy named Tyler. I was pretty much going out with him in the summer, and I've never gotten over him. My friend thought I was over him (thats what I told her), and so then they started liking each other. Now, Tyler likes me AND her, and I like him back. Should I tell my friend this, or just wait to see what happens?
I think you should tell your friend your not over him yet. Or get over him, even though its not easy. I don't want you to feel like your a dog at a pound seeing who's good enough to get "picked". Face it, it sucks. Best choice would be to just get over him. But if its not possible, just follow your heart.
Jacki
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ok well we all know what febuary 14th is and i have no idea what to get my bf im 14 so its not like serious but i want to get him somethin speacial any tips?
It's kind of funny. Gifts don't prove that you love someone but yet it's always nice to recieve them. You have some time yet, and I'm kind of glad that you're thinking about it this far in advance, so that gives you some time. Don't sweat it.. I'm sure one day while your walking around in the mall you'll see something that catches your eye. If its Febuary 10th and you still haven't found anything, get the usual. Teddy beat + chocolate. After all.. its not serious.
Hope I helped.
Jacki
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i have this boyfriend, and he's my first, but sometimes it feels like i see him as just a friend. i like him but i dont think i like him enough to be in a committed relationship with him. i really dont know what to do because i'm not happy about this but i also dont want to hurt his feelings
It's happened with us all kid... its happened with us all. Aint it sad? I know you feel terrible even thinking about breaking up with him but the reality of it is that everyone needs someone who is really CRAZY about them. Obviously, you are not that someone for this guy. I think you should let him go so he can find who that someone is. He may be hurt at first, but it'll be worth it in the end. Besides, you don't want to be tied down to someone you only love as a friend do you? Hehe. ;-)
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Ok so the last day of school is coming up and I dot no which outfit to wear??!!?
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10851&storeId=10101&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12151&categoryId=12151&productId=221862&langId=-1
or
http://www.gap.com/asp/Product.asp?wdid=402015&wpid=285763
Please Help!?!?!
i liked the abercrombie one better
but if you arent a kid...or you have bigger boobs
maybe you should find something...dont pick the gap one though...its gross
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this might sound a little dumb, but i need to know. see, my family's Catholic, but i haven't had my first comunion or anything, and i almost never go to church. i have NEVER read the Bible. i don't know all those stories my friends talk about adam and eve or anything. so for example, when i forget that i'm not suppoed to eat meat at that time of year or something, my friends ask me "aren't you Catholic? you're not supposed to be eating meat." so i just say i don't really have a religion. is that ok? or is that bad? i really do believe in God and have faith in him, but technically i can't say i'm catholic if i know nothing about this religion. i have no idea what it's about. also, i disagree on certain things i've HEARD the religion believes. am i right or what? just tell me what you think about this situation...i give 5's if i like your answer...if it's not dumb.
Religion is YOUR choice. It's what YOU believe in. It's no one else's choice. It sounds your parents did a pretty sucky job as far as being a Catholic. The answer is yes, most Catholics do particapating in events such as Lent and Good Friday, but its not your fault that you dont know of these things. So don't feel bad when people tell you about that stuff! If they say you aren't supposed to be eating meat or such, say "Oh, really? I never knew that." and if you want to dont eat the meat. It might sound dumb as first, but its no worse than sitting there speachless.
Good luck!
Jacki
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my friend has this boy friend who is cutting himself and inking it (pouring ink all over the cut) because he wants to die and he is in a mental hospital right now and my friend likes him alot because he cares about her more than her step dad cause he beats and rapes her. well my friend said if this guy dies she is going to kill herself and ive tried talking to her but she wont listen and she still wants to kill herself if her bf dies. plz help
That whole thing with her step dad might be solved by now...about the guy maybe you should tell her mom about it just so she keeps an eye out. Maybe she should not see anymore seeing that he's so messed up. Or perhaps he's the one who needs talking to. Why is he cutting himself? There isn't much you can do but it wouldn't hurt to try to help.
Good luck!
Jacki
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i dont really no what category this should be under,but anyways...
My legs are sort of sensitive and get dry a lot,does anyone no what shaving cream that would pervent dry legs?
Probably...
skintamite...it works great for me..
my suggestion is that before you shave and in the morning use some kind of body mosterisor that DOESNT have a fragrance (except maybe soy or vanilla) and THEN shave....that should help you..it works for me!
Jacki
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what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?!
Sometimes its to let you down easy or maybe he really cant. Its hard to read minds. Did you ask him out? I need more information.
Good luck..
Jacki
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my eyes keep drying out from these stupid contacts!! Even when i put solution in my eyes or whatever they continue to dry out!
Ask your doctor if he has a different brand. Some contacts can make your eyes itchy.
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Hey! As you all probably know, Valentines day Is coming soon! And I need to Know what to get my boyfriend he's 16, but he'll be 17 in April. So I would just like some of your ideas. We have been together over a year. I had alot of good ideas but I got his a lot of the stuff for our One Year Anniversary! So If I could have some good Ideas that would be great. And If you are a guy who has gotten something that you really like from a girl- tell me! Or if you are a girl who has gotten something for a guy that he really liked! thansk so much!
I'll Rate 4 or 5!
:)
God Bless You!
*KeLsA*
Something cute. :)
Like maybe a teddy bear with an old fashion love note on it. It drives guys crazy! You have no idea on how much they appreciate that kind of sweet stuff.
Good luck! lol
Jacki
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ok well my name is ashlee.. and im in the big junior high my first year and it sucks beacuase there are so much gossip and yesterday i was tied down with a bigg roomer..and i skipped school today i know it sounds weird but i did bc i like lost all my friends yesterday bc this boy named alex wrote a note saying i said bad stuff bout my 2 so called best friends..maddy and sonisha and its gotten worse and we were all suppose to go to the movies today and im just feelin rele bad.. AND I DIDNT DO ANYTHING and i swore up and down i didnt it sucks i dont know what to do..bc i have like no friends cause they're all believeing sonisha and maddy and alex..i need some help on what to do i mean im crying cause of this=( and i skipped school today cause of this... i need some help please help me=(
signed..lonesome child
Oh my gosh just forget the rumors! I know they suck! Ones about me come and go often. If your friends are REALLY your friends, they will believe that you really didn't do anything. If not, they're really not your TRUE friends. You shouldn't care about what people say about you, it'll only make them do it again. Its amazing how people find pleasure out of others misery. And of course, theres always the option of going to your guidance counselor...
Good luck babe!
Jacki
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should you do something you know(or are almost absolutely sure) you are going to regret?
Depends on the situation. If you would have given me some more information maybe I could have helped you but if its something you know you shouldn't do (like murdering somebody or hijacking a car) then don't do it because you know you wont get away with it. If its not as intense such as asking a guy out, straightening your hair, getting a nosejob or other stuff like that, its completely your choice. Just follow what you think is right.
Good luck!
Jacki
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well im going out with this kid that is rude to my best friend but she is really rude to him to and whenever im with him my friend always starts with him and my friend thinks hes totaly rude and wants me to dump him but i dont want to cu i like him alot and she is really mad at me cuz i wont dump him cuz he is rude to her what should i do???
Maybe you guys should sit down and talk about why they're so rude to each other. Its ok if she doesn't like him and it's ok if he doesnt like her but there's no reason to be rude to each other. Perhaps they need to mature a bit. Its fine believe me alot of my friends dont like my other friends but that doesn't mean I stop being friends with them just because someone else doesn't like them. In other words, don't break up with your boyfriend just because of your friend. Try to talk to her and see why she dislikes him so much.
Hope I helped!
Jacki
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r u suppose to feel the contact just a very lil bit at the bottom by your bottom lid? But then again I just got them. How long do they take to get use to? And anything i should know about them
*puzzled*
After a while you probably wont feel it as much since your a beginner its ok. After all, you're just getting used to it! And if the doctor said you have small eyes that could be another reason. Maybe contacts arent for you. I hope that doctor knows what hes doing because if he doesn't you could get a serious eye infection. Ask your mom if she could switch you to another eye doctor and see what they say. All doctors have different points of view.
Good luck hun!
Jacki
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my boyfriends birthday is coming up soon. Im completely broke and have no money. what cheap, extremely meaning present should i give him? his birthday is a week before valentines day. i was wondering if i could come up with a great present that could do for both ocassions..any ideas? please help me. thank you.
Bake him something. Also, how much does it cost to sit down and write him an old fashion love letter. Pen to paper. He'd be sure to appreciate it and you cant even put a price on those types of things. Its coming from your heart. Thats what matters most.
Good luck doll!
Jacki
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hey, I didn't actually cheat on him yet..and wasn't exactly planning on it but I know it could happen. and the raw feelings weren't meant towards my bf that comment was meant towards the guy I was sleeping with previously. The thing is that not too many people understand me or how I live my life. and I don't know what to do because I dont' want to hurt anybody. and I am not using my bf. so please if you could actually help me before someone gets hurt I would greatly appreciate it.
It seems like your hurting yourself here. Even though you arent cheating on him, you should quickly decide which guy you think LOVES YOU most. Its a desicion your heart is going to take. Try to be the best you can with the one you have the strongest feelings for. But, its good to know that if it doesnt work out you have other options. Hope I helped! Sorry about before I didnt know what you meant. Next time try to be a little more clear. If I got confused Im guessing other people did too. If you need me just drop a question in my inbox anytime. I'd be happy to help you.
Good luck darling!
xO jacki
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Ok so I've been best friends with this guy now for about 2 1/2 years.. We usually tell each other everything so when I had a crush on him about a year ago I told him.. he didn't like me that way..
Fast forward: He currently likes a few girls, all of whom think he's sweet but not "boyfriend material" and are my friends. This kinda hurts cause I thought I was over him but obviously not. He thinks no girl will ever like him, blah blah, and I want to let him know I do, but I'm afraid of rejection again.. what should I do? Should I tell him or just keep being a friend?
sorry this was so long..
Tell him. If he still doesn't like you that way, dont worry about it. Its better to have tried than to have not tried at all. Who knows? His feelings could have chanced from then. Or maybe he might give you a chance to show what a great girlfriend you could be.
Good luck sweetie!
Jacki
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What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?
Signed
Should I give up?
Do not give up just because someone tells you he'll never like you. What kind of ridiculous question is that. I bet the person who told you that likes him or doesnt want you two together or something. This is what you call random weirdos. Dont give up. If I would have listened to what people said several months ago, I wouldn't be where I am today.
Good luck!
Jacki
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So my cousin had me meet this guy via phone and we hit it off really well. He's funny and easy to talk to. I started to like him and Im pretty sure it was mutual. We planned to meet up and I was really excited until I learned a little more about him. He's a metal head. lol He's got the long hair and listens to that kind of crazy music. We dont have a lot in common and definately not the same type of friends. He's my complete opposite. So the question.. Which would be worse > To date him and be labeled as "desperate" because he's not exactly my type.. Or not date him and be called shallow because he looks different than what I normally go for?
Date him. And dont worry what people say anyway, they're assholes who have no life of their own. Opposites do attract. Trust me, I know.
Good luck!
Jacki
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Ok, this is kind of a long story. However I am having extreme issues with it. I am 16 and a very curious teenage girl.
I have a boyfriend for the first time in a while, and hes a sweetheart. However, I have two other guys that I think about on a regular basis. One of them I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since the end of october or beginning of november. The other guy I constantly am flirting with and have been mutually wanting to hook up or sleep together. I feel horrible about thinking about this and guilty about it. But what do I do?
The guy that I have been 'with' since late october, we have established a good connection however no relationship,labels, or any form of ties keeping us 'together'. However I think I have real, raw feelings for him.
if you could help me out it would be very appreciative. Thanks so much to whoever helps me out.
-Rachael
Since you've just admitted to cheating on him I suggest you stop. And actually, if you did truly have true raw feelings for him, you wouldn't be sleeping with another guy. Its not a crime for liking someone besides your boyfriend but its not fair to cheat on him. And if you do, it doesnt mean you love him. You're frankly just using him. Either break up with him and continue sleeping with whomever you wish, or stop sleeping with random people and be more trustworthy of your boyfriend. He will find out eventually if you dont stop. So I suggest you do.
Good luck
Jacki
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