Member Since: December 28, 2004
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i was a dance major but then i wasn't. now i'm a junior and taking this semester off. i don't know what to do. i love dancing but classes are a mess and i really don't feel like "i'm dancing" dancing is going home to my old studio with my friends and just doing our thing. i'm thinking communications now but maybe dance on the side? what would you do? (link)
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Well when in doubt watch Center Stage.. and realize this... real dancing can't be like that, so i have found. You have to take the good with the bad. My years at OCU had its ups and downs, sometimes i felt like if I had to tip in character shoes one more day i would die, I live for style. And then I would randomly end up in a class with Tiffany that would open my eyes. I had to learn to find joy in every moment, the joy that I AM DANCING!! I can walk and breathe and move and i am so blessed just to dance. If you don't think that you can do that, then I would change majors. Because after graduating I learned that the road of dancing isn't paved with gold and there are road blocks left and right so if it isnt what you live and breathe then go ahead and do it on the side just for you. Because there is NOTHING wrong with that. Just know that if you aren't happy now dancing in any circumstance thenyou wont be in the unemployment line.
"Dancing used to make me happy, and it doesn't anymore..."
Listen to Maureen ;)
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so i've got this friend. one of my best. everytime she does something to make me angry or truly upset me, i just brush it off, because in the retrospect of everything, those little things don't matter. they're not worth getting mad over, and fighting over...so i let all of these things slide that she does. there are times when she says things or does things that hurt me but i let it go.
so when i make one teeny tiny mistake...EVER...if i EVER joke about her, come CLOSE to offending her with my joking, say anything that would upset her...she suddenly shuts me off, gets mad, wont talk to me, holds it against me FOREVER.
whatthecrap. how do you deal with that?
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OK well what we have is a difference in personality types. No big. If the friendship means alot to you then you will learn to meet in the middle. You need to explain to her really nicely how that makes you feel and how you both should make an effort to meet in the middle. You express your feelings more and she less. A good friendship is alot like a romantic relationship its give and take. Sounds like alot of it is attention though, she does that to make sure you care. But that is a different problem all together... just keep on workin and learn to communicate!! :)
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hey pinky:
I have this amazing boyfriend, and we have sex all the time but it gets boring doing the same things over and over. I never seem to be satisfied. On some occasions i have to fake orgasm.Is this bad?How do you suggest i can improve my sex life and what methods seem to work best?
Thanks. (link)
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Ok well you see i am probably not the best girl to ask. Do i think faking is wrong? nah, what girl doesnt do it? On this it just sounds liek youa re in a rut and need to find something new and exciting about each other. WHat that is, is between the two of you, i cant answer that. So do a little research and find out! :)
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Pinky... here is my problem
I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years because i caught him sleeping with one of my friends ( complete ass hole) but anyways now he is spreading all of these rumors about me, which are not true and i dont know whether to just ignore him or confront him.
confused (link)
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Confused,
ok kid first of all i am sorry that you wasted so much time on a extremely immature person. It seems he needs to grow up alot, but that is besides the point. In refernce to your question it all depends on what he is saying. normally i would just say ignore the dumb ass, but more then likely this was someone you were in love with and those tend to hurt the worst so on the other hand; if it is ridiculously hurtful things then go ahead and give him a piece of your mind. But I would honestly ignore such an immature lil boy, you have beeter things to worry about and you can write him a letter later in life when you have it better then he and say, how do you like me now SUCKER!
~Pinky
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OKay so there is this guy and hes a year younger than i am (age isnt the prob)
but he likes me alot and now hes obsessed and i def dont know wut to do...i like this guy but i feel like im in a reletionship..something i was avoiding! Now he guilts me if i hang out with other guys
trapped (link)
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dear trapped,
hmmm well it sounds like to me honesty is the best policy. You need to discuss with him exactly what you said! hey dude I like you but not really ready for the whole boyfriend scene, and if he doesnt understand then you should probably move on, life is too short and precious to hang somewhere inbetween what you want and what you were avoiding ;)
~Pinky
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Okay Pinky... here's the deal. I have a wonderful boyfriend, but every time we're having sex, I can't stop myself from thinking about this girl. We had sex once (me and the girl) in a hotel elevator and ever since, she is all I can think about during sex. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Signed,
Energy Dildo Drink (link)
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Dear Energy Dildo Drink,
Well although I am sure your boyfriend is more then capable to please you, i understand your feelings for this more then likely GORGEOUS girl. hmmmm. I think you should TRY to move on, or maybe even involve the girl in the sex...either one is suitable.Let me know how it goes, and nice choice on the elevator was it an OTIS?
Pinky
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