Ok im 18 and I want to pop my cherry so i can finger and play with my self. But I don't want a boy to do it because then I will not be a virgin. Whats the best way to do this? And what is the true meaning of being a virgin? Is it like when you have sex with a boy or when you pop you cherry? I don't want to rush in to this then feel sorry later. Thanks.
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I have already have tryed with my figers and they are to short. OMG!! so i just took a barbie doll that my sister took from me years ago. When i put it up there i felt a some pain but i freak out and did not do it that's why I need some help.
What you need to understand is that there isnt actually anything to 'pop'. Yes there is a thin piece of skin that breaks, usually through intercourse, but it is not something that pops or that you can feel 'breaking'. And you most definitely do not need to do it so you can play with yourself. You can do that without 'popping your cherry'.
I suggest you go buy a vibrator, just as most of the other advice givers have suggested. This way you have something to satisfy your urges and you can get the most out of your alone time. Also there wont be the awkward pain when you find a guy to have sex with for the first time.
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If I get a guy to ejaculate into a cup can i use a turkey bastor to get me pregnate? Im being totaly serious. I don't want to go to the doc and spend all that money to do it and i dont want to have sex with a guy because that would be really akward for me and my gf. so..
I think adviceman is right on the money ..
" think the problem with your spouse is more easily overcome by having her in the bed room with you during the insemination than finding a male donor willing to donate. What I am suggesting would not be sex as it is meant. The two of you could be in bed having relations while the male is masturbating to a point just before climax. He then enters you and climaxes. Where upon he withdraws and leaves. Then you and your partner can enjoy the after glow. This would be more of a medical procedure than sex, but would still require intercourse with a male."
Just what i was going to say.
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Well, Im 13. Ever since the summer of going into 6th grade. I've been fingering myself. I need to know if there is anything that can happen to me if I dont stop. Anything?
Nope, everything is fine. You are exploring your body and it is completely natural. Masterbation releases endorphines and endorphines make you happy and make your skin clear.
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I am on birth control but about 3 or 4 weeks ago the guy I was seeing came inside me. I figured it was fine since I was on the pill and my friends did it like that and never had a problem.
Well my period was three days late and so I took a pregnancy test which originally looked negative, but after it sat for a little while a faint positive sign started to show. But I got my period later that day, although it's light like it usually has been since I got on the pill. But my period has never been late since starting the pill.
Am I pregnant? I'm so confused! Please help!
You need to take another test. Make sure you pee on the test in the morning (preferably straight out of bed) and use a midstream urine sample. Read the instructions, as it will give you a timeframe when the test displays the correct answer. It is usually 5 minutes to 10 minutes. After that time the reading can be inaccurate. I would say this is what has happened in your case...
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I'm 13 years old. My parents had been fighting for a long time ever since the beginning of 6th grade. Now I'm in the middle of 7th and they are almost through divorce my parents dot even live together anymore. I an always in bad moods. I am suicidal. And I just want somebody to tell me everything will be okay. So my question is, what can I do to stop being depressed over the divorce?
You need to understand that love sometimes runs its course. That is what has happened in the case of your parents. It is normal for you to be feeling this way to a certain point but you need to understand that these feelings are temporary and if you were to end your life it would cause loads more arguments between your parents. They are taking steps to make life better for both them and you. No more having to listen to them argue, no more upset/angry parents... Surely you can understand that life will be better with them apart? Imagine two christmases, two birthdays etc..
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When just about everything and anything has gone wrong in life. What is the point in going on. When all you find is saddness and despair all the time
There is alot to love about life. I have been in a place where i felt this way and trust me there is a way out!! You need to speak to someone like a doctor or a family member and get some help.
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hi .. so 2 weeks ago i went out with my bf and he fingered me. We didnt have sex but i touched my vagina to get it wet and put it on his penis .. so that i could give him a hand so he could cum. i did that twice with the same finer. Is it possible that i might be pregnant .. n is that y i havent gotten my periods? I usually get it on 17th but its 21st already ... m rll worried ... since i m just 17!
any advice would be useful!
Thx
Stress can cause your period to be late. If you're extremely worried i suggest you go buy a home test and relax when it says its negative.
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Okay I'll try to make this short.
My friend and I have been friends for about 2 years now. In late September of 2011 her husband, her and I engaged in a threesome, then another one a week later. I visit their house about 2-3 times a week. Ever since the threesome her husband has been really flirty with me (but never in front of her.)
He makes out with me in their house when my friend is in the other room, when she goes to the bathroom he takes his penis out and puts my hand on it. I've given him oral sex about 7 times since September, but never anything more.
Another thing he does is we chat on facebook and have pretty inappropriate conversations about sex and 'things we would like to do to each other.'
I want this to stop, after all, he is my Best Friends husband. I get that this isn't his fault, I am also involved. I'm just nervous to tell him that I want to stop, and I don't know how, so I guess that's what I'm looking for advice on. Also, I don't know whether or not I should tell her.
Has anybody ever been in a similar situation where they engaged in sexual activity with their friends partner? I get that what I have done is a VERY bad thing, now I'm just looking for advice on how to rectify the situation.
So... Do I tell her? and How do I tell him that I want to stop without messing up the friendship that he and I have?
Thank you.
Wow, sounds like you're telling me about my life from 5 years ago... Having the threesome was definitely the beginning of the end of your friendship. If you want to save your friendship you absolutely must end this 'affair'. You need to just tell him that it is over and your friendship is more important than a bit of excitement. I cant say whether or not you should tell your friend. Thats up to you and the man to decide together. It is likely to effect both their relationship and the one you have with her.
On the other hand, if you dont really want to save the friendship, or if you feel it is doomed because of this anyway, keep having fun with him, but make sure they end their relationship first.
My situation was almost exactly the same as yours but myself and the man had no desire to end the affair and it continued for a long time. We are now getting married and have almost 2 children together. We realised that the relationships we were both in (bad i know) were toxic, which is the only reason we turned to each other in the first place. We are now happier than we ever were with our ex partners.
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is masterbration healty
It is VERY healthy.. It releases endorphoines which make you happy and also makes your skin nice.
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in september 2010 i hit a state of depression really bad and i was in that state till march 2011, that was due to an ex harrasing me and 3 close family and friends passing away.... i now feel how i did then always down only laughing with others to fit in, this time it all started due to me finding out im pregnant and having alot of complications (e.g. 3/6 tests positive and an inconclusive blood test) this has caused my to so called best friends who i considered family and whoi trusted with all my heart to fall out with me! its got to the point i cant even go into college anymore so i have work sent home and i struggle to go to my job... do this mean i am bk in the state of depression? if no why do i feel this way?
It sounds like you're having a rough time. Do these feelings feel similar to the ones you were experiencing in 2010? Depression is something that stays with you for life and there are many things which can trigger it again and it depends on how you manage it as to how your life will pan out. Your situation with the pregnancy and your friends sounds like it would put a strain on your mental health, but maybe you need to see it as a time where you can spend focusing on yourself for a while... Find something you're passionate about and do it. For me, when i was in that deep dark depression hole, it was writing. I love to write, so i'd sit and write and write letters to the people who have hurt me or who i have hurt but never intending on giving the letters to those people. If you cant stop yourself feeling this way maybe you need to see a doctor and get medicated for a while.....
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does ANYONE know a way to wash perixode OUT of your hair? I have dark bonde hair, and dyed it brighter blonde with peroxide late summer. I
m growing out my hair and it looks bad, and I don't want to keep dying it.
You cant wash peroxide out because there is nothing to wash out... It takes colour out of your hair so the only thing you can do it dye it a different colour, close to your normal colour and let it grow out naturally.
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Is it normal to shave your you know what? ( i am a girl)?
Yes. I have been doing it since i was 16. I am now 24.
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Everytime we hang out my boyfriend gets a boner. Ive already given him head and used my hand. He texted me and asked me if i have any other ways of taking care of his boner then just using my mouth and hand are there any other ways besides those two and sex? What should i tell him?
Well it seems as though you arent at the 'sex' place yet so oral and hand stimulation are your best bet. Dont think that its your 'job' to 'take care of his boner'. If he tells you it is he is obviously trying to get you to do things you either dont want to do or arent ready for.
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am on a diet but yesterday I have a bag of baked cheetos!! did this ruin my progress?
Yesterday I ate some baked cheetos and then I ate some more and ate the whole bag, the bag was big. Now I feel bad for eating them and I was eating healthy before I ate them. I just want to lose at least 15 pounds. Ive been on a diet for 4 days. Do I have to start my diet over today?
Work on an 80-20 plan... Be good 80% of the time and you can treat yourself 20% of the time... Maybe just do a hard work out the day after you induldge...
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my husband and i are trying to get pregnant. I went to the dr and he said I'm able to have all the kids I want. I want to know how the ovulation tests work from the drug store? I have irregular periods and I want to know if the tests work for those who have irregular periods too. also if you have any tips for upping my chances of getting pregnant that'd be great thank you!!
There are ways to find out when you're ovulating, eg: measuring your temperature (im not too sure how that works though). You can find out information about it online if you do a google search. Usually ovualtion is 12 to 16 days after the first day of your period but with your cycle being irregular it is hard to say when you ovulate.
Dont let it worry you though. It can take up to 12 months to fall pregnant in normal circumstances and if you're stressing about it its likely to take alot longer. Just continue your normal sexual habits and it will happen when you least expect it.
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okay, right now i'm going thru finance problems and i am tierd of being broke and my mother is rallying on me to give her some money for the holiday (she wants to throw a party) so i need money like yesterday. i ran into an oldd high school friend at my part time job he is very interested in me. he has three cars, two jobs and makes a lot of money. he gave me an ultimatum of being with him and all my finance problems will go away plus an apartment and a car but the problem is i'm not attracted to him so I told him no but now i'm thinking about it because it would mean the world to me if i could get my mother some money for her to do what she has to do for the holiday. so what do you think should i go with this chance or just let it pass me by?
You shouldnt use him for his money, thats a horrible thing to do. Your mother should get money for HER holiday stuff herself and stop making you stress out about it.
You could give this guy a shot, it seems as though he is really into you. You never know, if he has a lot of money then he will be more able to woo you with dinners and expensive dates and you may actually grow to love him.
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How do you know if you've had an orgasm!? I'm 21 and a female and don't think I have ever experienced it but I think I've gotten close. Especially when my boyfriend fingers me or my clit. I have this feeling where my body shakes and I feel like someone is tickling me, that kind of sensation. I can't control myself. I don't know if this is me getting close to having an orgasm or actually having one!? It's a great feeling though :-)
It sounds to me like you've had a mild one or gotten close. Whatever is happening when you experience that, you need it to continue exactly the same for longer and see if you can push the limits. Just have fun with it.
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we have hit a dull spot and now all we do it fight and I have tried to give him space but its not working it just seems he is pulling further and further away what should I do?
Tell him you want the spice back in life. If he is unwilling to help fix it then leave him and find someone who makes life exciting!!! Life is too short to spend your life in ONE relationship stressing about fights and distance and all that.
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I'm a 24year old male and my girlfriend is 21. We're from South Africa. She beautifull, smart, cute, sexual and she really turns me on! We've been dating for 2years and I still get shy when I see her. She can give me a erection just by giving me a hug...wich can be very embarrasingfor me but she loves it.I've never cared and loved someone as much as I do for her. Now my problem only happens now and then, but its still a pain because it feels like I'm letting her down. And I know it bothers her. Sometimes when we busy I can't get myself to orgasm. I struggle to concentrate. And then I start to get axious and start thinking about what she's thinking...if she's enjoying it ex. And then before I know it I'm going limp. And then I try so hard to get it up again but no luck. Then my girl asks me what's wrong... And I can't explain to her because I don't know myself. She says its all in my head...that I'm thinkin to much. And I think she might have a point. I did find that if I have a beer or two it doesn't happen. What do you guys think?
The best thing for sex is just DONT THINK. Dont think about it. Just do it. Go with the flow. Rela and enjoy it and you'll be fine.
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so my fiance paul is in a band and he said i cant go to any of his shows cuz of this girl emily. apparently paul reminds emily of her ex and seeing him happy with another girl will male emily sad. but paul said emily is gay ans she is married to a women but i found her bra on his floor. what do i do? i love paul so much and i dont want to lose him but i dont know if he is cheating
Wear a disguise and GO TO HIS SHOWS!! You need to see for ourself what is going on. ou cant just break it off with him without knowing for certain. Yes, the strange excuses and the bra are sure signs he has/is cheating on you... But you need closure. Go see for yourself!
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