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Should I take his money to be with him, even though I don't love him?
okay, right now i'm going thru finance problems and i am tierd of being broke and my mother is rallying on me to give her some money for the holiday (she wants to throw a party) so i need money like yesterday. i ran into an oldd high school friend at my part time job he is very interested in me. he has three cars, two jobs and makes a lot of money. he gave me an ultimatum of being with him and all my finance problems will go away plus an apartment and a car but the problem is i'm not attracted to him so I told him no but now i'm thinking about it because it would mean the world to me if i could get my mother some money for her to do what she has to do for the holiday. so what do you think should i go with this chance or just let it pass me by?
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You shouldnt use him for his money, thats a horrible thing to do. Your mother should get money for HER holiday stuff herself and stop making you stress out about it.
You could give this guy a shot, it seems as though he is really into you. You never know, if he has a lot of money then he will be more able to woo you with dinners and expensive dates and you may actually grow to love him.
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You know, no matter what your situation is, you should never use anyone for anything. How would you feel if you really liked someone, and turned out they were only using you for what you had?
It doesn't matter what items he has, or how much money. If you don't like him, you don't like him. Plain and Simple. Don't use him for what he has. That isn't fair to him. Regardless if he insists. If you want money, than you do what he does, and work for it! Not everything is handed down to people. Get a job, maybe two, or maybe three. Do what you have to do to get extra cash. Leave this poor man out of this;
You should pass it by. If you don't, your going to have the reputation of being a gold digger.
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Financial issues make people do crazy things. Happens to me all the time. I hate being broke as well, but look at it this way. If you had money, and he gave you the same ultimatum, you wouldn't go through with it, right? This guy basically says, "I'll pay you to f!@# me", and if anything, you should be insulted that he even made that offer. You're not a hooker. He shouldn't be offering to buy you (even though I will admit, that offer is pretty incredible lol). Don't devalue yourself for money. You'll just end up hating yourself, and breaking someone's heart, because you're only in it for the money. It's not fair to either of you.
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