Ok im 18 and I want to pop my cherry so i can finger and play with my self. But I don't want a boy to do it because then I will not be a virgin. Whats the best way to do this? And what is the true meaning of being a virgin? Is it like when you have sex with a boy or when you pop you cherry? I don't want to rush in to this then feel sorry later. Thanks.
I have already have tryed with my figers and they are to short. OMG!! so i just took a barbie doll that my sister took from me years ago. When i put it up there i felt a some pain but i freak out and did not do it that's why I need some help.
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 11:48 pm: I'd like to add to Adviceman and Zane's responses. One thing I want to mention is that no matter what you stick up there to try to break your hymen, that's what you're doing: breaking your hymen - tearing a thin piece of skin in there. Chances are it's going to hurt. You might even bleed a little. You might bleed a lot. It varies from person to person, but unless you find yourself bleeding more than you would for a period, it's all perfectly normal. I remember being almost in tears my first time (which was when my hymen was broken).
Also, if you've tried with your fingers and found them too short, chances are you won't hurt yourself or accidentally pop it until you have sex or use a vibrator/dildo. You may actually find that difficult, depending on how thick that piece of skin is. Just know that it isn't necessary for your goals.
Good for you, though, for looking to do it on your own rather than just boy-hunting.
adviceman49 answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 2:57 pm: What is a virgin? A virgin, male or female, is anyone who has not had sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse is when a males penis enters a female vagina. At that moment virginity is lost.
Popping your Cherry: You do not need to pop your Chery to masturbate (finger ones self). If you do want to pop your own cherry, while I don't suggest it as it is better and more fulfilling to have done during first intercourse. Then being 18 I would suggest you follow Zanes' advice and buy a vibrator.
While there are many objects you can put in your vagina a vibrator is properly shaped to be put in your vagina without doing harm tho you.
crazytoad30 answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 12:25 am: you can play with yourself without popping it. you really should just wait for a boy to do it instead of trying because you might hurt yourself. and i think being a virgin is only if you havent had sex. [ crazytoad30's advice column | Ask crazytoad30 A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 12:24 am: Why are you using a barbie doll? At age 18, You can legally go into a store and buy yourself a vibrator.
Putting things that don't belong up there of course it's going to hurt depending on what it is. Plus you are more at risk of getting infections and cutting yourself.
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