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i just tried to peirce my cartalige myself but the back wont go in and i want a few ways that say how to get it in without hurting so bad PLEASE respond quickly so it doesnt close up! thanks!

i heard putting ice on it before peircing it gets it numb so you dont feel it was much.
Thats all i know helps.

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I had my period this summer.But I haven't had my period for almost three months. Is there something wrong with me?

nothings wrong with you.
you`re body is just not ready yet.
you`re prabbly gonna get it sometime this year maybe in a month or something.
dont worry it`s perfectally natural.

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Hey, well my friend made my myspace layout and I wand to change it but the problem is that I don't know how. Advice pleaseeeeee. Thanks

first,you go on "edit profile"
the in the "about me" section" there`s a really long code.
You have to take it out backspace it you know.
put in the code you want as your background.
then click "preview porfile" and if you like it the way it is "save changes".
If you still have trouble ask you`re friend to explain it to you.

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okay well at school and well practically everywere i go i turn red when im talkin to someone like whenever im doin projects i turn red in front of the class and next year im startin another year in highscool and people are gona start callin me like blushy or 'hey its the girl tht turns red ' and laugh and please someone HELP how can i stop turnin red i hate it please help
thank you

-dianna

You turn red becasue you`re nervoeus or embarrassed. Also if you`re hot you turn red or if you`re jumping around. If you`re in front of a class you have to concentrate on the project that you`re doing not how you look or something else. Take deep breaths and I hope that helps.

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what are chi straighteners?
13/f

They`re the best straigteners out there now. You can`t buy them at local stores you have to go to you`re local hairstylest and order it thorugh a magazine or something. They work very well bececasue I have used one before. In advanced if you want to buy one they`re 112$ dollars. It`s a bit pricy but they work very well.

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i really neeed your advice:

who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved?

I think you should pick the person you first loved becasue you have to follow you`re heart & you cant`t love someone just becasue they loved you first. Timing really doesn`t matter but the way you feel about someone does.

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13/f

right now i have covergirl clean makeup and i want another foundation because first of all it makes me look whiter than i really am (i bought it too pale) and second it doesn't even hide redness it just makes the skin around the acne or whatever look cakey.

so i was wondering what a good foundation was that goes on smooth because i uneven skin, and also some sort of base or whatever to smooth my skin before i put my makeup on.

Here are some that I would recommend that work.

-L'Oreal Cashmere Perfect Powdercreme

-L'Oreal Quick Stick Long Wearing Foundation SPF 14 ($10.99)

-Almay Compact/Make-up

Loreal works very well so I recommend that brand the most.

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what hair straightener do you recomened?? i am looking for a straightener that will keep my hair straight for a long time with no frizzinnes. my friend has one its called wet to straight or wet to dry. somthing like that. if you could clear that up for me that would be great =)

I use Andis ceramic starightener & it works perfectally. It`s about 15 dollars at wal-mart or target. I heard remington wroks very well if you`re looking to buy a wet 2 staright straightener.Her`s the link :

http://www.ciao.co.uk/Remington_Wet_2_Straight_Slim__5812282

http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=94832&catid=29113&aid=336064&aparam=xsp204373

it`s about 25-35 dollars.

Hope I helped you.

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so much food
on thanksgiving

but im going back on my regular diet tommorow

do you think im going to gain any weight?

I`m pretty sure you`re not gonna gain any weight becasue this is a once in a time overstuffing. If you do this today,tommorrow & so on yes you will gain weight. If you feel you did gain weight just do some exercise to get you back on the path.

Hope I helped.

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15/f. his first girlfriend committed suicide and he cant figure out why and misses her terribly. every time he thinks of her, he cuts. his mom thinks hes gotten over it, and told him if he ever went back to it, she'll send him somewhere. so has his best friend, he comes to me. hes tried to stop, but it seems its geting more frequent.he lives a million miles away so i cant talk to him face to face. im really worried that one day he'll kill himself. i have no idea what to do x__x

I think you should find some kind of way to get ahold of him phone or something. You need to talk to him becasue stuff like this is really big nowadays.He needs someone to talk to & he needs to burst it all out becasue all the pain he`s hiding inside makes him cut himself. He needs to hang around with more fo his freinds and do stuff like that to meet new people becasue he needs to move along and not think about it. I`m sure his girlfriend wouldn`t want him doing this to himself and you need to remind him that`s she`s looking out for him and she still loves him.

Hope I helped and I`m truly sorry.

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Overall, I have good clear skin. But I often break out along my hairline. Also, my nose looks horrible because of all the blackheads and redness have tiny zits. What would you recommend to treat these areas? Nothing too expensive...

I would recommend nutrogeina becasue i use it for the blackhead & pimples around the hair-line. It dosen`t complety get ride of blackheads but they`re hardly noticalbe. You can find it at couple of drug stores or you`re local wal-mart.

Hope I helped.

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13/f
i posted a queastion like this before, but i must have left something out because it was very misinterpreted.

i like this guy. i told him i liked him, but he doesnt like me back. he likes my friend (i new this even before i told him). my friend and him are good friends, but she has a boyfriend (11 months so it wont end any time soon). she doesnt like him back obviously,but he still likes her. the guy i liked asked me out, but it was months ago, but he did used to like me (i rejected him then). what should i do?

Basically you`re pretty much single.
I think that you should jut flirt with other guys & be open for anything that comes your way.If you like the guy you regected you can hang out with him for a while and I bet something would come up between you two. If the guys that you like now sees you with other guys maybe he would be a little jeleous and ask you out or something. Take things smoothy & i hope it works out.
Hope this is something you were looking for.

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doesn't the That's So Raven perfume smell exactly like Britney Spears's Fantasy Perfume? because i have the fantasy perfume and i bought the that's so raven perfume from claire's and they smell exactly the same to me.. does anyone else think so? thanks!

Yeah they do pretty much smell exacally alike.
One seems a little bit lighter thought but there`s not a big difference. You can use the that`s so raven perfume & everyone would think that`s its the britney spears one so that pays off.

hope i helped.

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i have really chapped lips. anyone know of any good home remidies that i could try or inexpensive chap sticks that work? thanks!

Here are some that really work:

-vasline
-carmex[it burns so you fell it working]
-aloe lip mosturizer
-chapstick[that`s what it`s acually called.
-emu oil chap stick
THEY ALL ALL UNDER 2 BUCKS OR AROUNG THAT & THEY WORK.
if you want something home made try just putting baby oil or vegetable on your lips it sounds pretty nasty but it works.
_TIPPP_
By the way dont go outside on cold waether with chapstick on your lips that makes that more chapped.

HOPE I HELPED.

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I'm a 19 year old girl who looks like a boy! People always think I'm a boy or end up confused and ask if i'm a boy or a girl. But I also look like a 14 year old boy, so I don't even look my age. Everyone thinks i'm cute, so i'm not an ugly looking boy.. lol! But it's getting annoying already...
And it's not like i'm a dirty sports playing tomboy. And I like MEN! But lesbians think i'm cute.
I hate hate hate makeup so is there anyother way to change this?

I think you should:
-wear glirly clothes if you like to wear sweats & tee shirts it`s fine becasue everyone does that. but if you do try to add color to your outfit like if you wear black sweats and a hoodie you can wear a long pink tee shirt that show color.

- you can get a hair cut or you could just put it up in a bun or something and pout on cute hair clips

- you can smile more often or something like that.

- try flirting with guys

- make more girl friends if you haven`t already :]]

Hope I helped you.

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I have a bump on my lip thats kind of like a coldsore.. but its not. This is kind of gross, so beware. It looked like an unpopped blister at first, so i popped it numerous times and everytime this watery lookin stuff ran out of it. I don't know what this bump is.
It kinda looked like a pimple at first, but now its a dried out sore and my lip is swollen around the area where the sore it.
My boyfriend won't kiss me until i find out what it is.

Please HELP!

*please don't say go to a doctor, my mom won't take me unless its serious*

Yeah it is a pimple becasue i had the same thing a while ago. Usually when its on your lip it won`t have that white stuff in it like a pimple does but when you pop it watery stuff comes out. When you wash your face just put a little soap on it & that will help heel it. but dont touch it.

:]]

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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

That`s a lie. Most females love it when men wear cologne becasue they know that,that man knows how to take care of himself. & it smells really good.

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My best friend Ryan, his birthday is comin up, and I don't know what to get him. Me and my friend Katie, are goin sometime this comin weekend to get him something, but i don't know what yet. Here's some info. about him

*He plays baseball
*Really funny
*Tall

ummm yeah everything else if just like your average guy. Please help!

You can buy him some type of accesory from his favorite team such as a jersey or a hat.or you could buy him a new glove. :] Something small but still very special.

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Hello. My name is Suejla and I want ask you for your icq number because you have the same name.
And I was born in Bosnia but I live in Germany and my english isn't so good :D But I want to ask you for your icq number.

Can you give it to me please.

Suejla

What`s an iqu number?
I`m bosnian too so you can write in bosnian to me. How old are you? koliko imas godina?

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can someone tell me what 'kk' means? When I chat to some of my friends on msn they say kk, or like if i write them an email. can you please tell me what this means?? thanx

kk means okay. Instead of writing it all out like okay people use "kk". it`s kinda like a A.I.M slang word lol.

Hope I helped ;]]

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