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I can't give you a hundred percent garuntee that its right I aint playin' but all da kids at mah school always send me tons of emails SO!
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Does anyone know how i can ask the following q's to a girl in away that wont make girls wonder why im asking it.Can you give me a sneakier way of asking the following q's

What do you like to find in a friend?
what kind of guy do you like?
Who are your friends?

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How can you find out stuff on a girl? Not like gossip but more like her fave movies and bands, ect.

Ask her friends for the and/or part and well just walk up to her and slip it into the convo like: "Yeah my fave color is blue......*blah blah blah* and what do you like about your friends because mine are pretty cool" ((or something))

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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me.

Dude WAIT!
I know this chica who met her bf at worlds of fun and they hit the bricks and now she has a baby and her parents kicked her out of her house and she lives with her bf who is 18 and she is about uh 12 and WHOA WHOA WHOA!! Not the kind of thing i want to think about you know?

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When do you usually have a grow spurt?

13/f

5's for reasonable answers

growth spurt? Um it depends around 5 and 10

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I have a sore on my labia. My mom just asked me if I was sexually active, I said no. This is a lie, although I have never had sex, I have had oral sex and been fingered.. I'm so scared I might have an std. My mom is making me an appointment with the gyno. I'm scared to admit what I have done, they probably wouldn't let me see my boyfriend and I would be in so much trouble.

I'm so scared.. What should I do???

Well it depends on how old you are if your like ((well you shouldnt be doing this if your like 16 either but uh thats when its most ignored so yeah)) but if you're younger then that *sigh* you shouldn't have done it in the first place. But moms really do help alot so you should be cool on telling her I mean would you rather get really sick and stuff all because you didnt tell her you had oral sex

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okay.. me and my ex b/f(eric) broke up a month ago.. and i have a new b/f(rj) now.. and he has a new g/f(rachel).. me and eric were going out for 3 years till we broke up.. so of course, im not quite over him.. i dunno what to do.. i tried talking to eric.. but it just aint working..he doesnt even wanna be my friend.. and im just going through a really rough time right now.. and imm always depressed.. can you give me some advice on how to get over him.. thanks

Um....dont worry about him
everytime you see him be his friend but nothing more
NOTHING MORE!
signed-WULA

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13/m
There is this kid at my school who annoys me and I can hardly focus on my work in the classes we have in common. I told the adults about the sitiuation and they said I had to deal with it.
Im usualy a calm person but sometimes I get pissed. Can any1 help? fives go out to the best answers.Oh, and by the way, he's still 12.

Tell him to grow up.
If he is bothering you just need ta "shake it off"
you know what im sayin?
yeah maybe you should pound him?
*snickers* no no just tell him to buzz off or gind some friends

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hey everyone im a gurl and i was just wondering ummm... ok is it spose to hurt when you are getting fingered because it hurt but it felt good at the same time this is a really embarassing question but please help me if u can
~annonymous~

Um........is it your first time?
its going to hurt the first time yes

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ok well I am 14 and when I am around guys any guys i tend to go in look in the mirrior alot it is weird I don't have a boyfriend but I want one but know one I know is my type I like a few guys at school thats it
My question is why do I act so weird around the guys and why can't I get a boyfriend and I am not ugly but I guess I have a preppy personallitie]

well i hope i get helped

Um........the only way you can get a boyfriend is act like you around him.
If he's cool with it he's good with ya if he aint; "Next!"

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Okay, ummm. I am 16 and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me in july. i was very heartbroken because i loved him very much. well i thought i did. people keep telling me it wasn't love, but i still think it was. my first question is is it possible to fall in love at the age of 15 with someone you only know well in the last 5 months? because people told me it was impossible but i think they are wrong.

my other question: I miss my ex very much and I really want to be with him again. The only problem is he has a girlfriend now. I have heard rumors that they wont last long. I want him to know that I still like him and want him back. How do I go about doing this in a way that may make me seem not desperate? should I wait until they break up or confess my love to him while he still has the other girl in hopes that he will break up with her for me?

oh yeah the reason he broke up with me was because he was going to be really busy and he didnt want me to have to wait around for him while he was busy and vice versa.

Wait till they break up
dont be a gold digga
and no its not impossible love is love you tell them that
You can love anyone at anytime ok?

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Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!?

tell 'im to listen up or its 'ova
end of story he needs respect

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I need some 1 2 help me out on this one when ever im with my girlfriend and i hold her hand i get a boner how can i cantrol that cause its really embarassing and i need help fast plz

hold her hand all the time!
lol
wellllllll.....she should take it as a compliment that means you really like her or are really horny lol jk jk
anywhoooo relax a bit and dont get so jumpy

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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks

tell him!
Y'all aint meant to be
its over hon.
Try and find someone else
dont you know secrets aren't meant to be kept in relationships

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this site is annoying i try to get help with stuff and it keeps deleteing my question before people can answer it which is hella dumb becuase i thought this was a place i can get help with stuff on but i guess not...yea this probably get deleted to freakin mofos! Why is this is happening??Why isnt my question being answered?

Um because how long has it been since you've posted.
have you tried putting them on specific advice columns?
and it depends on the urgency of the question ya know?

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ok,my best friend has a boyfriend and i'm kind of jealous (they're perfect and i'm single). Him and i are friends but i like him a little bit more than that. they just started going out this week. she knows him better then i do and she's liked him longer too. i told her that i like him. now do i tell him that i like him or would that ruin the realtionship between the 3 of us? what should i do???
any help is great.
~~~Chelsey~~~

let them have it
I think it's not right to ruin a relationship out of jealousy and um selfishness ((NO OFFENSE!))
anywho you'll find a guy just as great so hang in there!

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Ok I kind of like this guy and he likes me ALOT. But his friend is his bestfriend they are like brothers ! But wow does he have a way of making me attracted to him. What should I do because I don't want this other guy to hate me. He is super cool and I would LOVE to stay friends with him, but what if he gets mad and neeeeeeeveerrr talks to me again? Please Help !

um you want his friend to be your friend correct?
ok well if you like this guy dont worry about his friends it'll be all taken care of

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O.K...
Tomorrow night, my parents want to go out for a night of fun... by themselves. I'm 13 and I can either watch my sister overnight or go to Chuck's house. He's a family friend but his kids do not like me and I do not like them. But Chuck really wants us to come over... he's had a tough year and he has been looking forward to this. We were going to bake cookies and everything but I don't know if I want to deal with their kids... what should I do... I really don't want to hurt him and I'm kind of scared to be with my sister ALL night by ourselves... since our house got robbed last year... I have no clue what to do!!! Please help. I also don't want to put up with the mean things his kids say to me! But Chuck is really nice and his wife died this year, his mom died this year, and his dog died this year! His dog died while trying to climb a fence and her collar got caught on the fence and she hung. His wife died of cancer and she was only forty years of age. And his mom died of old age! I feel bad for his kids that they lost their mom but don't know if I should go over there and... DEAL WITH THEM! It would also be overnight... and the oldest son, Corey, has a crush on me and I don't think I want to sleep in the same room as his but the youngest son, Chuckie, gets on my nerves. I doubt he'll be thatway way around his dad but... I don't know! PLEASE HELP!

ummmm go to his house
its a whooooole lot safer that way
and if the kids say something just smile "It confuses people"
that way they'll shut up dont show now sign of irritation ((or shove your fist in their face either way))lol

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Ok. this year I am trying to be friends with everyone. there is this one girl i had a crush on 7 years ago and when everyone found out they made fun of her. Part of my conscience says she hates me now. I would like to start over just as friends, but, she's avoiding me and I am too nervous to talk to her.
What should I do?
I will give you five stars if you try.

Ask her to talk to you when you get the chance.
Normally if she's cool like that she'll be fine if you explain everything to her.
Start out as friends and ease your way into the relationship it's all good after that.

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i am on crutches =( and will be for halloween. I really wanna go trick or treating. What should i do? Even if someone like pushed me around in a wagon or something, i still hafta walk up stairs, and it will be so hard doing that all night. Please help me!

try it out you know they always say that exercise heals a wound faster! but have someone to help you out dont go alone

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Well my friend has started to talk to this senior (chris) i was friends with chris last year but we havent talked for a while. so ive started talkin to him a couple of weeks ago because of my friend jen who hes with. so chris picked me and jen up and we were supposed to be hangin out with this kid steve i liked but steve called later on. so we picked up chris`s friend brian. i knew brian last year too but we havent talked. so we all went back to chris`s and chris and jen kept on leaving the room and trying to like get us to hookup, i think brian wanted to but i dont know i felt weird so i was like "lets go find them" so then after me and megan went to the bathroom she told me brian said i was pretty and hada cute body and stuff. so chris and jen went on the bed in back of the futon/couch me and brian were on and we sat close and he held my hand then he did in the car. but i havent talked to him, i have his screenname and everything but he rarely even talks to anyone online, hes always away. what should i do? is he interested? he goes to a diff school too
thanksss

ummmmmmm ask him if he is or isnt thats what ya gotta do.
Normally people who say these kinds of things are, erm, either
a) someone who likes you
or
b) a regular guy that just looks
he's totally interested
but long distance relationships rarely work out so find ways to meet up and stuffles like that

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Today I had an interview with Old Navy. It went pretty well and the manager said he would send someone to show me around the store to see if I'll be comfortable working there in a few days and then take me to his supervisor who will see if I'm ok for the job and then I'll be hired.
So I have a few questions that I didn't ask (I didn't want to be too upfront too quickly):
1. Some of my friends tell me that Old Navy has a reputation for treating their employees badly. Is this true?
2. So I asked the manager about the dress code and he told me that everything that is "Old Navy-ish" meaning jeans or anything you could buy at Old Navy (not neccesarily -from- Old Navy) and is appropriate (no mid-riffs et cetera) goes. So for the walk-through, my friends told me I should wear nice jeans and a dressier top instead of formal pants or such.
3. In British Columbia, the minimum wage for the first 500 hours that someone works is $6.00 (which is what I wrote on my application form) and then $8.00 after. Some stores start paying $8.00 immediately. Does anyone know what the starting pay for Sales Associates are at Old Navy?
4. He asked me if I wanted to work the floor or the cashier. I told him anywhere where I could interact with people. I thought that would mean the floor but my friends say that you interact more at the cashier and the floor is just cleaning up and stuff. But I don't really think the cashier is for me, I would rather be active and doing stuff. In your opinion, which one is less stressful/easier/more interactive during the Christmas season, the floor or the cashier?
5. How are the customers at Old Navy? Some people tell me that everyone there is rude and messy but some say it really varies. What do you think?

I don't do this a lot but this is a really tedious question so anyone who answers will be rated a |5| :) Thanks for your help.

answer to #1: well to me they totally do. Givin' me cocky looks talkin to me like i some kind of 'tard, whatev you just role wit da punches.
answer 2: ummm this is a question?
answer to #3:no sorry
answer to #4: deffinitley the cashier ((excuse me if i spelled that wrong)) I mean all you gotta do is z-it out and ring people up. btw you do get to do a whole lot more with all of the other peeps
answer to #5:I agree with tha "some say it really varies" totally makes sense ^^
some are nice some aren't customers are just costumers ((but there are some secret shoppers out there))

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