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my best friend's boyfriend
ok,my best friend has a boyfriend and i'm kind of jealous (they're perfect and i'm single). Him and i are friends but i like him a little bit more than that. they just started going out this week. she knows him better then i do and she's liked him longer too. i told her that i like him. now do i tell him that i like him or would that ruin the realtionship between the 3 of us? what should i do???
any help is great.
~~~Chelsey~~~
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I'm sorry,but it sounds like the best thing to do is to not tell him,even though I can tell you want to.
You don't want to cause any unecessary drama,just be there for him when he needs you.
Who knows,maybe it won't work out for them and you'll have a chance to get to know him much better.
~Long Lost Heart
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let them have it
I think it's not right to ruin a relationship out of jealousy and um selfishness ((NO OFFENSE!))
anywho you'll find a guy just as great so hang in there!
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Stop. Think. Do you really want to be the kind of person who goes after your best friends guy? Its ok to have those feelings... but its totally selfish to try to justify acting on them. You both liked him. He chose her. She sounds like she deserved it, since shes had her eyes on him first. What you need to do, is get over it. There are tons of other hott, sweet, caring guys. Get used to seeing them together. Try other things, to get your mind of of it. Remember, crushes only last for a little while. Friends, reputation, and ultimately your own self worth last much longer.
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Leave them the hell alone before you lose both of them. I've seen this happen.
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Aww honey, big mistake.
You never should have told your best friend in the first place. Liking him a "little bit" is something that isn't that big of a deal and now your friend will probably feel really bad.
Don't tell the guy, no matter what. I think the situation is beyond repair anyway, your friend might just break up with him out of guilt.
Next time, kepp it to yourself because small crushes don't last long and when you find someone special for yourself, you will be happy for your other friends who has significant others.
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Do you like him that much...to possibly ruin your friendship with your BEST friend? ...and whatever relationship you have with that guy will probably won't be the same. What was her response to 'I like him' anyway? :x You can tell him that you like him but it might not turn out good. You can move on and keep your best friend or take a risk I guess.
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