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16/f me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months today. we have planned on haveing sex weve talked about it. he says the girls supose to be on top but i beg to differ i mean theres alot of possions i no that but like idk. also im very uncomfterble with my body i mean im not fat and im not skinny and i have huge boobs 34dd and a huge ass. but im scarred to go on top because my boobs are large and kinda sag abit and im really uncomfterble about it. do you think he would care... :/
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why dont you try all the positions... dont stick to just one. dont feel weird about your body!!
i am sure if he wants you on top it is because he wants to be able to see you!!!!!
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i slept with my ex a day after my boyfriend and i went through this huge break up. but then we got back together and now he feels like i cheated on him. it's 7 months later and he still has a hard time trusting me. how can i regain his trust? i dont wanna lose him. (link)
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time. it just takes time. but 7 months later.. has it gotten better? if not he may no change. you may need to speak to him. tell him that you are not going to do it again because you love him.
trust is something you build on. but it is a two way street.
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my girlfriend dumped me cause she found out i wear womens underwear, they were not even very girly , yes the were pink but she said real men dont wear them type of things and giggled and walked off, whta shud i do ? (link)
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hm. your secret is out. so go with it. so your kinky big deal. she is sheltered.
and that means she was probably boring in bed so be happy she is gone.
what do you want to do?
you want her back.. then burn the undies
you want to keep your secret-- nope too late she already told all her friends
people are close minded. i have dated a few men who wore girls clothes and underware.
but you know what as long as they liked and loved me it didnt matter.
so.. screw her.
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Ok imma young girl who is in love with an older guy and he says he loves me to what do I do? (link)
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yea i agree... ages is a big factor in love..
if ur 13 and he is 21.... thats bad
if ur 17 and he is 20 not so bad
i would say if your from
16 and under and he is 19 and older-- its bad
soo more details please
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now. He's never been romantic or thoughtful, and it's really starting to make me upset. In the past I've had to ask repeatedly to go on dates (which is pretty much just going out for dinner). And I really just want him to take me out on a date without me telling him to. I've told him this in the past, but it's been a few months since we've gone anywhere, so I don't know what to do. I know that I shouldn't expect him to take me out all the time, but is dinner once a month really too much to ask for? (link)
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no date.. no sex. i always try to bargin.
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My boyfriend and I just started having sex, and we always use a condom. But I really want to start on birth control, except my mother doesn't approve. She doesn't even know we're sexually active. I'm 17 years old, and I'd like to know if there is a way I can get birth control without her permission or her finding out?
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yes family parenting centers..
but as i always tell young girls.. becareful about birth control.. remember that stuff is a chemical and it messes with your hormones.
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Hey everyone. im evan and im 15. i have melanoma skin cancer and my 17 year old brother makes fun of me all the time. he physically hurts me (punches me in the chest and in the junk) and calls me names like "mole" or "cancer boy." hes always trying to put me down or hurt me in some way. we've never gotten along but since my diagnosis its only gotten worse.
This is also kind of a seperate question but some of my friends treat me different like its some contagious disease that they can catch if they get to close to me. What can i do to get them to treat me like they used to?
And most importantly what can i do to get my brother to knock it off and treat me with respect? I tell my parents but they dont think mitch could be like that. they think hes perfect and im the problem. (link)
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wow you need to really stand up to him. he might have some issues with his feelings. that or he is seriously mental. try to seperate your self from him. or get him to hurt you infront of a parent. or maybe throw up on him... blame it on the cancer.. or sit on his bed.. ooppps im sorry i went to the bathroom... darn cancer...
your friends dont want to get close to you because you have a life threatening illness.. like you might die.
people suck.. you will find out who your real friends are. they will never treat you the same.
:-) stay tough kid.
maybe if you bro keeps it up ill swing by n teach hima lesson.. nothing worse than getting beat up by the chick
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My partner and I have been sexually active and I'm on birth control. However, as a back-up plan I generally like to use condoms. We've both been tested for STI's and everything (I just believe in never being too safe.)
The issue is, my partner says sex is "dull" with a condom on (we've tried numerous brands) and that he really prefers sex without a condom, because he can actually "feel everything".
This has made me insecure, and I guess I'm wondering if this is normal of him to feel that way. I've heard a lot of guys complain about condoms decreasing the pleasure of having sex - is there any truth to this?
I just feel inadequate and want to please him.
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i think if feels better... but i feel better knowing im not gonna get pregnant and my husband too. sex is dull? really a condom should not make that big of a difference... sounds like u need to spice it up a big.. new things........
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Is masterbating and having an orgasm yourself comsinderd having sex? And can a gyna-pussy doctor tell if you have ever had an orgasm? (link)
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no they can not tell unless you put something rather large in there....
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I want a nickname for my name cuz i'm tired of hearing the same name so if anyone has a nickname for the mane Kayla please respond! I dont care if it's an emo, or punk and any weird name.
P.S I'm looking for a Weird or Different name something unique! thanks =) (link)
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tell us about her personality... or something she is known for..
for the longest time my friend use to call this guy she liked chiquita banana because he wore a yellow shirt alot. think of things like that
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hey my name is evan im 15/m
girls i just want to know why do you hit guys in the junk? im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys. i see no reason for it. it makes us feel sick. and it hurts like hell. is it funny to you to see us men in pain or hear our voices crack and get high from it? or make us cry? why would you do that to people? i would never hit a girl so why would you hit me? you have no idea how much it hurts to get punched in the nuts. do u think that just because im a man i deserve to be in that much pain? (link)
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reason why i would kick a male in the balls? defense from harm.
But really i do not need to kick a man in the balls to hurt him. i can not speak for all women but i think that if it is for self defense then a woman should hit you there.
-- if someone was sexually assaulting me they would probably get hit there.
and peeps lets not try to compare the pain of woman and men. i think we can all say that life sucks and pain is inevitable no matter what the gender. in the end we all die. and i could only assume that getting your leg cutt off and having no medical attention would hurt more. and for the record.. cramps do suck every month for like 30yrs.. now that sucks.
first off.. ur 15 and u get hit in the balls ALOT?
this is strange. maybe you should ask your self some questions about the people you are hanging out with. and girls and boys at 15 are immature.
"im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys" are you saying that guys hit you in the balls?
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so i was answering random questions and i saw one of your answers bout kicking guys in the nuts. i just want to know why you do that to guys. im 15 and it hurts like hell. it really hurts to be hit in the junk so please dont do it. is it funny to u? you dont even know the people you were talking about. do u think that just cause im a man i should be hit in the balls? just please dont do it to people theres no reason.
~evan (link)
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well in this girls case i think she should kick the guy in the balls. any guy who sexually harass a girl deserves to get kicked. Personally I can take care of myself without kicking a man in the balls. But when you’re a chick and you feel threatened like that maybe you would understand. Yes it hurts… well guess what our periods hurt too. It sucks but I guess if I don’t act like rapist then ideally it should not happen to you.
I can tell you why I would take a hit to a guy. But I am not like all girls. Only time im going to hit you is if you
1 attacking me
2. hurting someone else
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I need help! My bf and I have been dating for about 5ish months. I am not ready for intercourse condsidering I am only almost 14. I don't want to show him anything or him to show me anything. I also don't want for him to touch any of my private parts or vise-versa. He is kinda hy an basicaly I just want Jim to want to touch me basically.I mean when we are sitting sown or something together he will put his arm around me an stuff. But I just want him to get turned on by me. I mean it would be something I can do in front of people tho cause we don't get alot of alone time. I there anything I can do to make him really turned on so he stys interested In me? I know he is faithful but I want him just to stay interested. (also it's be great if I can do whatever it is do he doesn't think I'm a slut or sumthing because I really don't want him to think that or anything like it. Thank you in advance! :) :)
also as many answers a possible woul be great! Even if I have already rated someone elses answer it would be amazing if I could get everyone opinion!!! :) thank you lots!!!!
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words are wonderful. erotic messages.. even whispering into his ear... say stuff like oh only if we were alone.. it will keep him on edge.. but since u dont get alone time it will drive him nuts
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im 18 and jewish. not religeous but i went to a jewish school and i want a tattoo on my but (dont judge)
no one that i dont want wud see it- it wud be for me but im scared my mom will find out
like if she takes me to the doctor or something
shud i get it? (link)
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get it. its your butt. i hid mine from my mom for two years. now we joke... five yrs later.. but it depends on your mom.... you can always use make up to cover it....
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Okay. I'm fifteen and once I told my ex boyfriend that I will NEVER get a hickey cause I think they are nasty and gross. Sooo... we broke up, long story, and he was telling his baseball team about this and then he said he'd give whoever gave me a hickey first twenty bucks. The baseball team does stupid bets like this alllll the time. Well now guys are trying to give me hickeys! Like two of them just came up behind me and started sucking on my neck! It was disgusting! Three of them have asked me to hook up and basically all of them have started texting me. One of them even said he'd split the twenty with me if I just let him give me one. I told my ex he needed to call this stupid thing off but he doesn't give a shit so... What am I supposed to do?? Please don't tell me to just "wait for it to blow over" cuz I don't wanna do that! And please don't tell to "go tell a parent or coach" because I don't wanna stir shit up. Thank you! (link)
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hit them in the nuts. fight back. tell them that you'll bite their nuts off.. trust me act like a nut job and the guys will back off. act tough. be tough
matter of fact his you ex in the nuts
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Hiya. I am looking for some songs to have sex to with my boyfriend. My boyfriend gets nervous easily and he said if we had some music on or something it would be easier for him to do it with me. It sounds fine to me but I don't know what some good songs to have sex to are.
I guess the music genre doesn't really matter as long as it's good for sex? We've only tried having sex twice so we're really new at this whole thing anyway. I looked up some suggestions but I just kept coming up with songs that were good for stripping. haha
Sex music suggestions anyone?
THANXXX (link)
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smashing pumpkins.. always my favorite turn it up loud have just a little bit of light and go for it
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my boyfriend wont let me near his phone. he gets paranoid if i ask to see it and watches my every move. he sleeps with it in his pocket or under his pillow. should i be worried? (link)
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be slick. dont ask just do it. dont bring it up for a week.. and wait.. until he is in the shower and grab it... just be sure you want to know.. because guys are dumb.. and there is something he is hiding
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Hey, I'm going to visit NY in November/December and I wanted to visit one of the stadiums and perhaps go to a game, are there any sports game on around November/December? (link)
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football.. jets giant games.. real fun
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When I have sex, I can feel this barrier inside my vagina? When I lost my virginity I thought my "cherry" popped, so what is this barrier? It feels like a petruding tissue of some kind..? I really want to get pregnant, but I think this is preventing it, so what do I do? (link)
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if it goes in.. then u popped it. i wouldnt worry about not getting pregnant.
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Does baby oil help you tan (link)
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it will keep you moist.. but beware... rubbing baby oil might clog your pores. giving you pimples. tanning oil might be better .. but try it
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