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I only tested after 11 months of possible exposure where my results came back as negative. However i have been experiencing these symptoms including headaches, skin rashes, night sweets and swollen umpits. Is it possible i tested negative because my body had neutralised the virus at the time of the test as i am a sports person leaving a healthy and clean life. This is my 12th month and i am experincing a burning sensation in my male part which i suspect to be herpes. I will be going for an hiv test this Saturday, so could i be positive. (link)
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Hello again,
There is something called psyhosomatic symptoms where you could be having some symptoms of various things but unrelated to what you are thinking about. For instance you could have a rash but you could be thinking of hiv well its just a bad reaction or stress. Since you are goin for a test but i think its hihly unlikely to be positive but still you would need proof since nothin is 100%. No need to worry you are oin to get screened again for hiv and you could also have an general health check to make sure you are all in the clear.
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I have been getting really bad headaches on and off for the past week or so, and my hips hurt kinda my left more than my right. What could this be?
I'm not on my period or anything if that would be an assumption.
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I cannot diagnose anything without seeing someone. Try talking to your doctor and dont worry at least you are taking the right steps of trying to find out the problem.
Take care.
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to commit suside i don't want to live please tell
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There is so much to live for. Don't you think you were put on this earth for a reason? Please use this opportunity to have a talk with someone you trust and she if they can put you on the right path.
Stay safe.
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I'm 17/f. Ever since I was 11 or 12 , I've developed little dots on my leg. They look like black heads, but they're not. It makes m ea little self-conscious to wear shorts, bikini bottoms, etc. Does anyone know what these might be & how to get rid of them? (link)
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It is very diffucult to know what they are since we can't see them. However try going to see a doctor or a nurse and they should clear up your problem.
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Three weeks back i posted a question which i stated i suspected to have been exposed about 11 months back. However i went for an HIV test on that 11th month were i tested negative. I will be going for an HIV test with my girlfried this Saturday. Should i tell her what happend those months back. What if we are positive (link)
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Hello,
It is good to know that you and your partner is going to get screening or tested for HIV. From what i know about HIV if you have come back clean after 11 months of exposure, you have nothing to worry about. Not trying to scare you but what type of HIV did you get screened for ? Because there are two types HIV-1 & HIV-2. It is entirely up to you if you want to disclose that information to your partner but i dont think it would make a difference since from what you wrote and your test results - you are in the clear.
Take care of yourself.
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im in year 9 and ive known this girl for about 5 years and i really like her but im to shy to talk to her how do i get the confidence to talk to her and could i have like a couple of tips on getting her to notice me (link)
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Well, you could try talking to her with nothing in particular. An interest you both share. I would like you to try because you cant just be thinking about it just do it. Its better to do something rather than end up not knowing!.
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I want a cupcake that easy. Like for kids or something. I say this because I not a very good cook(but I love cooking.) (link)
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try allrecipes.com
they are very good when i want some recipes i always try them. It even has some pictures so to know what to expect and also people who have tried the recipes rate them.
Have fun baking.
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I have pretty bad acne because I have an oily face. I know most of it is because of hormones and stuff but what are some tips that could help control acne? Thanks! (link)
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tea tree oil is very good for acne. If you are buying it try to buy it blended with another oil. It works.
Take care.
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So there is this guy in my school that I like a lot and when we are at school he always teases me. We chat on BBM and when we do we always end up fighting about the stupidest stuff.. I usually start it because I just get so angry at him for not seeing that I like him and I'm scared of telling him because he is popular and I don't know if he likes me back. How can I tell him without him judging me and not talking to me anymore?
I'm a 16 year old female (link)
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hiya,
well talk to him that is all i can say because if you dont you end up with what if what if. so talk to him.
take care.
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I ve a very big love handle due to lifting up my leg and ve been exercising but no show. I need help (link)
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well, most people have that problem. i would suggest try going to the gym and getting a personal trainer but it could be pricey.
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Hey guys so my friend and I really want to make a youtube channel where we talk about life, sex, beauty, makeup and all that beautiful girl stuff haha. But I just want to know what is necessary to make this work? Like we are so serious about this and we just want as many people to subscribe and actually watch our videos as possible. We are going to combine our ideas to help people out with questions they have about acne,clothes, hair, makeup, sex. Or whatever it is. What inspired us to make this channel was becuase at school we are in a club that helps girls out with those kinds of things. And we really enjoy it. So we just wanted to a bigger audience. :) so my question is what are some things you think we can add on our channel? Tutorials? Talk about? We have some ideas but just want others. Also what do you think we need to do to make this work? Like any background information? Things we should think about or do. I guess any idea about anything is welcomed! Becuase honestly I don't even know how to work my camera! Haha...kidding ! But anyway,Thankyou so much!
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Hiya, there are various things that you could do. For instance, makeup tutorials very popular at the moment, you could do that for diverse people of colour. You could also try hair tutorials which can be like hair care, how to have healthy hair for diverse types of hair.
you could even do videos based on your own experience.
take care.
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Hello! I am currently writing my first research paper for History class, but I am worried that I am falling behind. I am really confused... I haven't done much research and I haven't started drafting it yet. I'm really afraid to tell my teachers because I'm afraid that they'll be mad. I have to admit that at first I wasted some time, but that was because I didn't know where to start. Now I'm going back to school tomorrow (today was professional day for me, no school) and I am virtually empty-handed. What should I do???? Thank you in advance. (link)
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Well, you could this is only a suggestion be honest with your teacher and try and improve on the next one. Your teacher might even give you an extension for this present research paper.
Hope it works out well.
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I am incredibly self-conscious about my forehead. It's very large, and it's basically my only facial feature I don't like. For years it's made me unhappy with the way I look and I just want it to be premanetly fixed. It doesn't help that my friends and mother will poke fun at me for my forehead, either.
I already have bangs, but bangs are annoying. I want to be able to brush my hair back and out of my face. But I can't do that.
Are there any surgeries to make it small? I once breifly saw something in a magazine about lowering the hairline?
Could anybody tell me a little more about these things, and maybe give me an estimate of how much it would cost?
Also, please only answer about the surgeries. Don't tell me I should love myself for the way I was born/give me other tips to hide it. That doesn't help my situation even if you're trying to be nice. Thank you. (link)
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Hello,
You should love yourself the way you were made. As you grow older your features begin to develop. if its your forehead that you are worried about please not too much. I actually know someone who had a bid forehead and now its kinda smaller.
If you do surgery and you know surgery isnt 100% safe it comes with its risk what will you do then if the unthinkable happens.
Take care.
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I would like it if anyone could help me find information on where I could possibly be eligible for me as a single male to adopt a child. I noticed that it is very hard where i am from thanks to pedophiles. I am from South Africa (link)
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Hello,
That is great that you want to become a parent by adopting. It is a very good thing.
Most of the same rules apply no matter where you are.
Sorry i cant be of much help.
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About two years ago, I started caring about this guy. Please note that I am only in 8th grade, but have always been more mature than other people. The guy that I liked, well I'd known him since I was younger, and I guess you could call him my first "love". We sat in the same bus seat, talked, and laughed, had the same class schedule, and were just relatively best friends. Texting was always a thing we communicated with, and I helped him through depression, and everything he went through a relationship where another girl went and "cheated" on him.
Then his friends started noticing it, and started pointing it out. And that's where it went downhill from there. Apparently the stress from his friends commenting, and bothering about it ended up making the whole thing a complete mess. He started sitting in other seats with other girls, never talking to me, and never even listening to me when I tried to talk to him.
And I don't know how to move on. I know I cared to much; but my dad never really showed me and my sister affection, so no hugs, bedtime stories, etc.. Just a figure. And we knew he cared about us, but he never showed it. And now don't know what to do because I got too attached to someone who did give me affection like that. We never dated, but it felt like that. And in the blink of an eye it's ripped away, and I have no idea what to do. No idea how to move on.
How to show him, and everyone else around me that I'm not an insecure 13 old girl who is currently taking college courses because everything else is too easy for me. I have no friends to talk too, nobody I can trust, because he was the only one I could actually talk too without complications.
So how do I move on? How do I get out of this crap-hole of a shell that keeps consuming me.
Thanks.
P.S - Please don't say that I'm too young to understand what caring about someone feels like. It's hard enough not being liked by anyone in your grade because even though your "pretty" (I mean this in the sense that I'm drop dead gorgous, but I'm not ugly either), 5'11 (uncoordinated)and a person who talks with bigger vocabulary than most college students talk with. I guess I'm just an oddball.
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Hello,
Well, the only advice i can give you is to talk to him. From what you wrote it seems like you have a strong bond between the two of you. It just needs to be rekindled so to speak. Talk to him. It may be that he wants to be a regular teenager sometimes while other times he like being with you.
Talk to him what have you to lose.
Its better you know now that worrying your self crazy about it.
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Recently I switched my schedule so I could have a drawing and painting class to work on my portfolio. My teacher placed me at te end of the class next to this sophomore , David. He seemed real nnice at first, but then he just kept staring at me and making odd comments about everything. And he breathes on me heavily(his breath stinks).
I really want to switch seats but another girl Maggi sits there and thinks David is a real creeper too.
I don't want to say anything to him cause that's mean.
And I don't want to ask the teacher cause she might put me in a MORE uncofortable position.
How can I get this creeper vibe out of my system??
I'm 16/f/junior in high school. I don't know what age he is. About 15? (link)
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Hey,
Can you talk to your school councellor if that fails then your teacher.
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i have a test tomorrow on quotes from the story of agamemnon. i have to identify who said what. how do i go about studying for this!? its about 100 pages long and the language is very difficult for me to understand (link)
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Hey,
i would stay structure your work.
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im in LOVE with my ex but hes always angry and hes as out of control as it gets. i waznt dat great of a person myself its wasnt all r fault tho we live in a very bad area and have pretty messed up lives but over the last couple of years ive become more mature and hes just become worst. the more im away from him the more better of a person i become and from what ive heard he just gets worst and im still extremely lonely and i know hes the only 1 dat can fix dat. mybe if we lived in a better world without abuse, drugs, and babies we could b happy 2gether again. till then what do i do? can i really keep living without my soulmate? (link)
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Hey,
Enjoy life, do the right thing. You could try and be his friend i mean one of his closest friends. If you say you have strong feelings for him wouldnt a good idea be to have a friendship with him than is greater than an EX?
Take care.
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Hello well to start of I would like to say that i like in cleveland ohio on the west side and I was wondering if any one of you knew were I could volunteer. Im 14 years ol and i am going to volunteer at a hospital but I wat to volunteer somewere else 1st. when I grow up I want to be an ultrasound technician if that even matters. Please help if you can.
Thanks.
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Hello,
Some places you can volunteer from age 14 but others require to be older. for instance when you are in school you could do some work experience in like a hospital.
follow your destiny.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, but we've known each other for 7 years. On and off. I really love him and all, but he is just too obsessed with playing his video games! When ever i try to talk to him, he doesn't pay attention to me. Just the game! When i suggest to do something together like go out somewhere he would just find an excuse not to go and he'd end up playing his game. I don't know what to do. He is a great boyfriend, but he's starting to play his game almost everyday and its extremely annoying. I've also tried to play with him at one point, but he's just so competitive and we argue over the game and its not healthy. I don't know what to do now :/ (link)
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Hey,
it is a known fact that most boys love their video games. Try and suggest what you two use to do in together before you were together.
Take care.
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