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what do i do bout my out of control ex bf i love 2 death?


Question Posted Thursday October 6 2011, 11:30 pm

im in LOVE with my ex but hes always angry and hes as out of control as it gets. i waznt dat great of a person myself its wasnt all r fault tho we live in a very bad area and have pretty messed up lives but over the last couple of years ive become more mature and hes just become worst. the more im away from him the more better of a person i become and from what ive heard he just gets worst and im still extremely lonely and i know hes the only 1 dat can fix dat. mybe if we lived in a better world without abuse, drugs, and babies we could b happy 2gether again. till then what do i do? can i really keep living without my soulmate?

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VoiceofReason answered Monday October 10 2011, 10:59 am:
Your ex is a loser. The problem with living in a war zone, so to speak, as you do, is that it creates a fox hole mentality even among dysfunctional people. You guys have been through a lot together and you miss that sense of comradery that made you feel so close. But it would be a self destructive move for you to get close to that flame again.

So the natural fact is that you need to make plans as to how you're going to extricate yourself out of the hell you're living in. This means you need to set yourself up for college. If a homeless black guy living on L.A.'s Skid Row can turn his life around and eventually get his Phd from USC you can do it, too. Seriously think about it.

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Xui answered Friday October 7 2011, 5:23 pm:
Well...


Added on to what Tuscan said



If you have been asking us how to get him back and how you can piss his current girlfriend off then you need to get over it and stop. Trying to seek out revenge against someone is childish and immature. Also, If you really want to move on then stop trying to get him back. If that IS the case then it sounds like YOU are the one that is out of control not him.

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venesaw10 answered Friday October 7 2011, 7:22 am:
Hey,

Enjoy life, do the right thing. You could try and be his friend i mean one of his closest friends. If you say you have strong feelings for him wouldnt a good idea be to have a friendship with him than is greater than an EX?

Take care.

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TuscanSun answered Friday October 7 2011, 3:56 am:
So....... in you're previous questions you're asking about some guy you like, and how you want him to ask you out, and you do all these things to make his current girl angry - yet you're still in love with your ex?

Are you fucking with us?

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